Successful Marriage Life

It can sometimes seem a mystery why some couples stay together and thrive—while many more split up or drag on scratchily. While we might think happy love is left to chance, there are some identifiable secrets that underpin good relationships that we can learn and put into practice. The first title of a new series, The Secrets of Successful Relationships draws upon the expertise of The School of Life therapists to teach us the key ingredients of contented love.

All relationships–at home, at work, and in life–face a similar set of inevitable hurdles. Success comes from learning how to get over the hurdles ahead of time and taking personal responsibility for turning up well in our relationships.

Couples should always be committed to loving, understanding, and respecting their spouse every single day despite imperfections. Insider reports that of all the factors that contribute to separation, lack of commitment is the number one leading cause of divorce. So, be careful; there are "seemingly simple" thoughts, words, and actions every day that might eventually build up and lead to the path of divorce.

Marriage is a long-term type of sport. And couples who last have not made it outside of chance; they are prepared to attempt new things to keep their relationship fresh. If you're seeking some inspiration, here are a couple of simple, yet alluring tactics to bring some spice in your life.

What is marriage? For some, it’s endless bickering over loading the dishwasher, never-ending drama along the lines of “where did all the money go again?”, and falling asleep halfway during sex. For others, it is a safe haven of trust and respect. What’s the difference? If you’re about to get married, you’ve probably wondered about these questions: How do you preserve that spark between you? How do you keep falling in love with the same person, over and over again? How do you face the challenges of parenting? Fortunately, science can answer your questions.

Too often, when a life crisis hits, a marriage suffers - even a healthy one - and all the personality profiles and couples' therapy in the world won't keep your marriage from experiencing the tough stuff. So how do you and your spouse face the stresses put on your marriage and not only stay together but come out on the other side even more loving and committed? In Staying Power, two longtime couples offer insights, skills, and clear direction so that you can respond to trials in a way that strengthens rather than weakens your marriage.