8 Rules of Love
How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
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Jay Shetty
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Jay Shetty
About this listen
The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science.
Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love. So we’re often thrown into relationships with nothing but romance movies and pop culture to help us muddle through. Until now.
Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
By living Jay Shetty’s eight rules, we can all love ourselves, our partner, and the world better than we ever thought possible.
©2023 Jay R. Shetty. All rights reserved. (P)2023 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.You may also enjoy...
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- AKhit
- 2023-04-19
Is there a PDF workbook available for purchasing the audible version?
I loved the book, but I would’ve loved the PDF journal that’s available to those who purchased the physical copy of the book. So many golden nuggets and opportunities to reflect! Thank you for sharing this Vedic wisdom
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- JT
- 2023-06-15
Yes!
It took me a while to get through but was well worth it. This is a book I will have to purchase and reread over and over again.
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- Debbie Amaral
- 2023-03-09
Loved this book! Must read
I love listening to Jay Shetty and read his previous book as well. Such great material in this book. Great information and life long skill for yourself and any relationship you might be in now or in the future.
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- Mer
- 2023-04-19
Loved it!
I feel like I got some good insight about myself and relationships. There were a few things I was already aware of, but it was a good reminder!
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- Kindle Customer
- 2023-03-29
highly recommended
I now have a new way of seeing life with love and all that needs to be done to prepare, experience and share it.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-02-09
Wonderful book
Love this book. It’s for everyone Such a good reminder of love, how to love and to be loved. I also appreciate it was read by the author.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-02-01
amazing!!!!
loved the book!
as always, Jay Shetty never disappoints.
every word out of his mouth is gold!
very sincere and genuine wisdom.
you can really feel his love for humanity!
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- dia moli
- 2023-02-16
In depth experience
Jay’s take on love has helped me improve my relationship with myself and find ways to strengthen the Love relationship with my partner and family. Becoming love is the greatest lesson I’ve been able to take and transform.
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- Maria Papa
- 2023-02-26
A book everyone must read/listen
This book will change your life. I read the book while listening to the audiobook. Powerful! A book everyone at any age can benefit from it. I wish I had it when I was a teenager, I am grateful I read it now.
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- Shabnam sharif
- 2023-04-11
nice book to remind you how to love everyone
it was a nice reminder of how to love yourself and others to bring more happiness
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