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But You Don't Look Autistic at All
- Narrated by: Ione Butler
- Length: 4 hrs and 26 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Autism—that’s being able to count matches really fast and knowing that 7 August 1984 was a Tuesday, right? Well, no. In this book, Bianca Toeps explains in great detail what life is like when you’re autistic.
She does this by looking at what science says about autism (and why some theories can go straight in the trash), but also by telling her own story and interviewing other autistics. Bianca talks in a refreshing and sometimes hilarious way about different situations autistic people encounter in daily life. She has some useful tips for non-autistic people too: what you should do if someone prefers not to look you in the eye, why it is sometimes better to communicate by email, and, most important of all, why it is not a compliment if you say: “But you don’t look autistic at all!”
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- Isabella Song
- 2023-09-26
Very cool
It is empowering. It is saying things I am feeling in neat packaging. It is amazing description from autistic point of view when nowadays there is not misinformation and harmful information about autism from those who doesn’t know autism that includes medical professionals.
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