Declarative Language Handbook
Using a Thoughtful Language Style to Help Kids with Social Learning Challenges Feel Competent, Connected, and Understood
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Narrated by:
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Elsa Levytsky
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Written by:
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Linda K. Murphy
About this listen
Do you know children who get upset when their routines change? They might also struggle to see the big picture, make friends, solve a problem in real time, and read nonverbal communication. Meltdowns, tantrums, and other challenging behaviors might be common.
This audiobook was designed to teach you how making small shifts in your language and speaking style that will produce important results. You will stop telling kids what to do and, instead, thoughtfully give them the information to help them make important discoveries in the moment. These moments build resilience, flexibility, and positive relationships over time.
You might be a therapist or a teacher, or you might be a parent, grandparent, or babysitter. Your child might have a diagnosis such as autism, Asperger’s Syndrome, ADHD, or nonverbal learning disability. But they might not. No matter your child’s learning style, this audiobook will help you feel equipped to make a difference, simply by being mindful of your own communication and speaking style.
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- Samara
- 2024-10-03
Game Changer
My husband and I both have ADHD and suspect our girls are too! Learning about declarative language has been a huge eye opener for me. I can see where communication with my 5 year old has gone wrong but also how I can fix it! I typically only do audiobooks because I have difficulty focusing on reading hard copy books but I think I will need to purchase a hard copy so I can highlight my favourite strategies! Thank you so much sharing this knowledge!
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