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F You Very Much

Understanding the Culture of Rudeness--and What We Can Do About It

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F You Very Much

Written by: Danny Wallace
Narrated by: Danny Wallace
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"Deliciously hilarious. If you care about people and enjoy a good laugh, I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately."
--Adam Grant, bestselling author of Originals

From the brilliant comedic mind behind the hit movie Yes Man, a hilarious and pitch-perfect look at the rudeness that's all around us -- where it comes from, how it affects us, and what we can do about it

You're not just imagining it: People are getting more and more rude - from cutting in line, gabbing on their phones and clipping their nails on public transportation, to hurling epithets on Twitter and in real life (including a certain President who does both). And the worst part is that it's contagious, leading reasonably courteous people to stoop to new lows in order to respond to the ever-coarsening encounters we face every day.

In this engaging and illuminating new book, bestselling author and all-around curious guy Danny Wallace looks at the reasons behind the rudeness, and what we can do to stop it. His quest to stop the madness includes interviews with neuroscientists, psychologists, NASA scientists, politicians, and other experts. He joins a Radical Honesty group, talks to LA drivers about road rage, and confronts his own online troll in a pub--all to better understand the scourge that's turning normal people into bullies, tantruming toddlers, trolls, and other types of everyday monsters.

Want to be part of the solution? Let Danny Wallace be your smart and funny guide. Personal Development Personal Success Popular Culture Social Sciences Funny Witty Fantasy
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What the critics say

"A meaty cry for human decency, wrapped in a deliciously hilarious hot dog bun. I plan to read it again and then force-feed it to my neighbor, my mother, and my college roommate. If you care about people and enjoy a good laugh, I politely encourage you to read this book. Immediately."
--Adam Grant, bestselling author of Originals

"A brilliant book" --Jon Ronson, bestselling author of The Psychopath Test and Men Who Stare at Goats

"A very funny and wise book about the blatant rudeness that surrounds us. Danny Wallace in top form." --Matt Haig, author of Reasons to Stay Alive

"An astute, easily digestible guide to not being a jerk." --Kirkus

“Danny Wallace, author, actor, and comedian, wrote the rudeness manifesto itself.”—VICE.com

"His [Danny Wallace’s] research on the psychology of rudeness can give us key insights as to what's going on right now and what we can do to become more empathetic."—Psychology Today
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I initially downloaded this as a bit of a lark after hearing Danny Wallace on a podcast. I just finished listening to it in 2 sessions. I was hooked from the start. Danny is a fantastic writer and narrator and a fine researcher to boot. If everyone followed the findings in this book the world would be a much, much better place. Thank you Danny Wallace.

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This was such an entertaining audio book. The author is very funny and a good story teller, and I also learned a lot about how much rudeness affects every aspect of our lives. Highly recommended.

Did not expect a book about rudeness to take me on such a wild ride!

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