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Gaslighting

Circular Conversations with the Narcissist

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Gaslighting

Written by: J. B. Snow
Narrated by: Sorrel Brigman
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Gaslighting is the circular conversation that you have where no one ever wins. It is the argument that never ends, because there is no resolution that is satisfactory to the narcissist, who never compromises. It is the projection of the narcissist's deficits back onto you, because he cannot take accountability for anything that he has ever said or done. It is the crazy making, the name calling, the false accusations, and the omission of the truth.

Gaslighting is the communication that never goes anywhere. It is the relationship talks that cause you to always feel like the ultimate loser. It is the way in which the narcissist always makes you feel like the crazy one, or the way he always projects to others that you are crazy, when you are not diagnosed with any mental disorder. Gaslighting is the way the narcissist lowers your guard, makes you feel like the shmuck, and causes you to apologize to him for things that are his own fault.

A person who is subjected to gaslighting for any length of time, will eventually become extremely mentally ill from it. They will lose their own grip on reality in the presence of the narcissist. They will become neurotic and jealous, constantly feeling as though they cannot trust the narcissist. They will pick fights where there were none, or become victim to the narcissist always blaming and shaming them for behavior that is normal and expected. The narcissist begins to change the reality of the normal person, to the extent that the normal person eventually begins to see the world from the skewed lens that is the narcissist's reality.

This audiobook will teach you how the narcissist gaslights, why he gaslights, and what you can do about it. It will educate you on the mental deficits that are often present in the narcissist, the mind games that he was subjected to which caused his illness, and the negativistic world theories that he subscribes to, that worsens his own narcissism.

©2017 J.B. Snow (P)2017 J.B. Snow
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This feels archaic

Not only is it presented with a steady gender bias, It’s overly specific in most examples

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This book is terrible

I don’t know what these people are talking about. There is many levels of narcissist but according to this book every narcissist is a psychopathic rich rapping white man. While some are there are many levels of narcissism and this book it complete useless

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This book was awful!

Not only is this book poorly written, but it contains no real information. Anyone who knows even a working definition of the term “narcissist” would be able to figure out what is said in the book on their own. A total waste.

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Very one sided.

Author clearly believes only men possess narcissistic behavior. I guess I understand if that is your experience, but I was expecting something different from a book.

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Find Another Resource on the Topic

Couldn’t make it past the introduction. Between the disrespectful references to cultures and races and the narration, this is not an audiobook I’d recommend.

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Worst Book Ever

This was the worst book I've ever (partly) read around the issue of personality disorders. The book begins by blaming all family members, especially parents, for the narcissists issues and gives no definitions of words or of the disorder. In short it was unhelpful, badly written and very short on real information.

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in reply to the 04/04/2022 review

this book is clearly not racist. it teaches us how people become narcissists, why they are that way. also teaches us that different events in different countries effect different people in different ways. it takes generations to erase pain and suffering. so no it is not racist it is merely pointing out in the beginning, examples of what could cause narcissism . and kind on fact pointing out that some of those causes are the fault of no one at the moment because it was previous generations that's caused suffering for many. I'm not a doctor so I can't describe this as well as this book can. please have a listen to see for yourself.

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