Get the Guy
Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve
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Matthew Hussey
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Matthew Hussey
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Audie Award Finalist, Personal Development, 2014
Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.
In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.
Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.
From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.
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- Gillian H.
- 2018-01-24
Helpful and positive
I am not the kind of girl who would normally go for this stuff but I think this was a great book for me to listen to and I’m happy to have bought it! Not only does the book go into different situations and how to negotiate the dating world it talks about how to show the best side of yourself. I have to say I identify as a feminist (don’t worry I’m not going to rant) and I thought this book was a respectful, positive, honest and insightful look into the male mind and can act to empower women in their relationships with men.
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- kat
- 2018-12-16
Loved this!
Not only did the book have valuable tips, Matthew Hussey is a great narrator and the book was actually enjoyable to listen to - unlike a lot of others. First book on audible that I’ve finished.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2018-09-18
Great
Really loved it! This book was Easy to read and had really Great info! #Audible1
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- Anonymous User
- 2023-02-13
Amazing Man, amazing insight
There’s nothing not to love about Matthew Hussey. He knows his stuff. Heavily recommended for anyone looking to date and stay in their worth while doing so.
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-01-30
Brilliant
It's great advice for women! Some things stick out more than others, but overall it's great helpful tips that I will definitely try!
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- Amazon Customer
- 2018-08-06
Brilliant
Packed with some of the most valuable relationship advice you could ask for! I highly reccommend Matt's book. (He does a fantastic* job narrating this as well. He clearly put heart and soul into this!)
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- Pri
- 2019-10-03
Relevant & Educational
I learned a lot of relative information, and will put the tips into good use. Book is great for understanding most guys.
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- Cher de la Cruz
- 2022-07-30
Above and beyond my expectations!
Wow! This book was outstanding. Matthew was consistently on point and provided deep insight - not just how to Get the Guy, but how to operate as a high value human being. Now I want to attend his retreat too!
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- Simrah9080
- 2021-10-26
EXCELLENT book!
11/10 would recommend this read for whatever stage of your romantic life you’re in - Matthew Hussey is a great author and an even better narrator. The book is for VERY no BS!
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- Anonymous User
- 2022-11-24
Great audiobook
Ive been listening to his podcasts for years now, he offers some very useful advice and holds your attention quite well with his humour. Would absolutely recommend this read to anyone contemplating giving it a go. Thank you Matthew for all your wisdom!
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