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Getting the Love You Want
- A Guide for Couples: Third Edition
- Narrated by: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
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Publisher's Summary
This program is read by the authors.
The New York Times best-selling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new foreword and a brand-new chapter.
Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying relationships and is recommended every day by professional therapists and happy couples around the world. Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt explain how to revive romance and remove negativity from daily interactions, to help you:
- Discover why you chose your mate
- Resolve the power struggle that prevents greater intimacy
- Learn to listen - really listen - to your partner
- Increase fun and laughter in your relationship
- Begin healing early childhood experiences by stretching into new behaviors
- Become passionate friends with your partner
- Achieve a common vision of your dream relationship
Become the most connected couple you know with this revolutionary guide, combining behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to help you and your partner recapture joy, enhance closeness, and experience the reward of a deeply fulfilling relationship.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
What the critics say
“Hendrix provides much insight into how spouses can mature through one another.” (Booklist)
“The best program I’ve seen for using the love/hate energy in marriage to help a couple heal one another and to become whole together.” (T. George Harris, editor in chief, American Health)
“I know of no better guide for couples who genuinely desire a maturing relationship.” (M. Scott Peck, author of The Road Less Traveled)
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- melissa woehler
- 2019-07-18
This will help at least a little bit
Certainly you won’t have heard everything presented in this book before though you may have heard some. You may want to close your mind when listening to the religious tones and heavy Freudian theories but keep it open and you’ll glean something from this research and observation based book that will help you understand relationships better than you do now.
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- Jamie
- 2022-03-11
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Although this book might have been useful in the 80’s when woman stayed at home and men went to work, it is out of touch with todays reality. I had high hopes after reading some of the other reviews but was severely disappointed. The authors voices also left much to be desired.
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- Dana Thibeault
- 2021-03-02
Integral Relationship Skills!
Enjoyed the information and examples. even without applying the method, the content is guaranteed to offer insight and opportunity for deeper awareness and understanding of oneself and partner. Highly recommended it!!
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- CynTaillon
- 2022-11-08
Game changer
This book opened my eyes to so many points towards my spouse but also about myself. This book made me want to explore more on the subject. my relationship with my spouse is forever change. some comments said that we could not transpose their remarks with this time but I believe that the imagination allows us to make more up to date in the examples. I will reread this book and recommend it to those around me without a doubt.
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- Anonymous User
- 2022-06-03
Amazing!
Learned so much about my childhood issues carried into adulthood and relationships. It is very thorough and I highly recommend it.
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- Jack
- 2021-04-01
great book
great book, really opened my eyes to my relationships and my childhood, it was truly enlightening
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