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  • I Don't Want to Talk About It

  • Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression
  • Written by: Terrence Real
  • Narrated by: Adam Verner
  • Length: 12 hrs and 28 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (62 ratings)

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I Don't Want to Talk About It

Written by: Terrence Real
Narrated by: Adam Verner
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Publisher's Summary

Psychotherapist Terrence Real offers an important and compelling look at the silent epidemic of depression among men and shows, with compassion and clarity, what can be done to break this vicious cycle.

©1997 Terry Real (P)2011 Tantor

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"Offers not only crucial insights to men suffering from depression but also comfort and guidance to the women who love them." (John Bradshaw)

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An oldie but a goodie

Amazing book for any reader, male or female, who is trying to understand their depression or any of their emotional struggles in life and relationships. One of the best books I have read over the years which has helped me understand the inter-generational scars that have been passed to us from our parents and their parents, and how to break the painful cycle and not passing the scars to our children.

I will listen to it again soon. #Audible1

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Life changing

One of the most powerful listens on audible yet for me. Saw myself in every example he gave.

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An important book for men.

This was a very important book for me. I hope it will be for you as well.

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a must read for all

I only wish this could be mainstream curriculum in our high-school. imagine what power one could start to gain from knowing more. knowledge is power.

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Every man should hear it at least once.

I don’t believe I suffer from depression. The concept of inherited trauma will make me a more vigilant father though.

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amazing book. amazing reader.

So much that can be worked on. Reader draws you in to the content. Great!

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My entrance into healing the masculine

This book has blown some doors open for me. Despite being a decade into my own journey of healing and awakening, I had not yet dared gaze upon the wreckage and absence of the emotionally healthy male presence anywhere in my life. This book has raised more questions than it has answered, but that is because of where I am at in my own process. I am sure that relistening in a year or two will provide a whole new experience. Would recommend

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Story of my life! Worth every penny

Well I'm 33 now and I wish I could heard this book many years ago. I thought I was the only one with these feelings, good to know I'm not alone

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A must for Men

A book of honest reflection that will help men learn we can heal from our pasts. Being stoic has its place, but knowing and healing our pasts makes us better men for those we love and teach, our children.

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Beyond words

Reliving and relearning my entire life and it’s actions, emotions and responses. So many moments of frustration but also forgiveness for my predecessors, but also forgiveness for myself.

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