It Begins with You
The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
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Jillian Turecki
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Jillian Turecki
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The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.
Jillian Turecki’s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.
Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives:
- Truth 1: It begins with you.
- Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield.
- Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.
- Truth 4: You have to love yourself.
- Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth.
- Truth 6: You need to be your best self (even after the honeymoon).
- Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.
- Truth 8: No one is coming to save you.
- Truth 9: You must make peace with your parents.
Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins with You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve. It's never too late to choose yourself.
©2025 Jillian Turecki (P)2025 HarperCollins PublishersYou may also enjoy...
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- PenPen
- 2025-01-20
Excellent!!
Absolutely loved this book read by the author. I appreciate when authors read their own books as it feels more authentic, and this feels like she's sitting right with you. You can tell she feels passionately about her work and wanting to help people. She gives lots to reflect about and we all have a part we can work on. The only constructive feedback I have is that there are several times where it's very obvious the sections have been recorded over or added. I'm so glad I got this on Audible and highly recommend it!!
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