Know My Name
A Memoir
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Chanel Miller
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Universally acclaimed, rapturously reviewed, winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award for autobiography, and an instant New York Times best seller, Chanel Miller's breathtaking memoir "gives readers the privilege of knowing her not just as Emily Doe, but as Chanel Miller the writer, the artist, the survivor, the fighter" (The Wrap).
"I opened Know My Name with the intention to bear witness to the story of a survivor. Instead, I found myself falling into the hands of one of the great writers and thinkers of our time. Chanel Miller is a philosopher, a cultural critic, a deep observer, a writer's writer, a true artist. I could not put this phenomenal book down." (Glennon Doyle, number one New York Times best-selling author of Love Warrior and Untamed)
"Know My Name is a gut-punch, and in the end, somehow, also blessedly hopeful." (Washington Post)
She was known to the world as Emily Doe when she stunned millions with a letter. Brock Turner had been sentenced to just six months in county jail after he was found sexually assaulting her on Stanford's campus. Her victim impact statement was posted on BuzzFeed, where it instantly went viral - viewed by 11 million people within four days, it was translated globally and read on the floor of Congress; it inspired changes in California law and the recall of the judge in the case. Thousands wrote to say that she had given them the courage to share their own experiences of assault for the first time.
Now, she reclaims her identity to tell her story of trauma, transcendence, and the power of words. It was the perfect case, in many ways - there were eyewitnesses, Turner ran away, physical evidence was immediately secured. But her struggles with isolation and shame during the aftermath and the trial reveal the oppression victims face in even the best-case scenarios. Her story illuminates a culture biased to protect perpetrators, indicts a criminal justice system designed to fail the most vulnerable, and, ultimately, shines with the courage required to move through suffering and live a full and beautiful life.
Know My Name will forever transform the way we think about sexual assault, challenging our beliefs about what is acceptable and speaking truth to the tumultuous reality of healing. It also introduces listeners to an extraordinary writer, one whose words have already changed our world. Entwining pain, resilience, and humor, this memoir will stand as a modern classic.
Chosen as a Best Book of 2019 by The New York Times Book Review, The Washington Post, Time, Elle, Glamour, Parade, Chicago Tribune, Baltimore Sun, BookRiot
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"Know My Name marks the debut of a gifted young writer. Miller's words are purpose. They are maps. And she is a treasure who has prevailed." (The New York Times)
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- Chantelle
- 2021-09-24
Informative
An important look into the side of the story that matters. I was apprehensive to read as so many reviews mentioned that she repeated herself a lot, but I'm glad I gave it a chance! Very informative, vulnerable and heartbreaking.
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- Danielle
- 2019-11-30
Inspirational
Chanel paved the way for the me too movement. Her story is painful, inspirational, shocking, disgraceful and IMPORTANT. I cried and laughed and felt ignited to stand up for what’s right.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2020-11-26
Every man should read
it was slow at times but is relevant to this society and the never ending battle women face every day.
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- flouriteovermyhead
- 2019-11-02
Vulnerable and raw
Chanel's incredible writing was relatable and heartbreaking. She is incredibly vulnerable, and with that, she truly depicts what it is like to be a woman in the modern world. I highly recommend!
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-05-12
Know My Name
Beautiful and poignant and extremely evocative. We are so fortunate that Chanel Miller choose to craft something so extraordinary out of the violence that was inflected upon her. This book is a gift to the world and survivors everywhere.
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- julie
- 2020-09-26
Outstanding!
I'm not sure if Chanel would ever read reviews like this or not, but I am truly impressed and so admire her courage and decency she demonstrated in this, her personal story. So thankful that this audible version was read by the author. That made the experience of listening to it that much more heart felt (by me that is). I am so grateful to have discovered it.
The world needs more women with the integrity of Chanel.
kindly,
Julie
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- jennifer
- 2022-05-26
A must read
Sometimes it’s hard to hear true stories of people who have been through really difficult things.
This was an honest and emotional account of what she went through and how she has been able to get to where she is today. It is beautifully and eloquently written. I found it inspiring, challenging, heartwarming and heartbreaking all at the same time. I highly recommend this audiobook.
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- Chantal
- 2019-12-24
I love her and this book!
Such an amazing piece of writing. My husband and I listened to it in just a few days. love her.
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- K_OB
- 2023-10-14
Every young woman should hear the story
The way she explains her experience in a form of detail that allows you to feel the hypocrisy of society is heartbreaking in its truth. Through the eyes of an intelligent, well spoken individual gives understanding to so many levels of victimization.
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- Jillian Newman
- 2019-10-20
READ THIS
This is the most important book I’ve ever read.
Her writing is raw and eloquent. I wept and I raged. I felt both hopeless and hopeful, discouraged yet empowered. Chanel thank you for sharing your story.
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