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Mother Hunger
- How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance
- Narrated by: Kelly McDaniel
- Length: 7 hrs and 57 mins
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Publisher's Summary
An insatiable need for sex and love. Periods of overeating or starving. A pattern of unstable and painful relationships.
Does this sound painfully familiar?
Trauma counselor Kelly McDaniel has seen these traits over and over in clients who feel trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors - and are unable to stop.
Many of us find ourselves stuck in unhealthy habits simply because we don't see a better way. With Mother Hunger, McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood trauma and its lasting impact. In doing so, she destigmatizes the shame that comes with being under-mothered and misdiagnosed. McDaniel offers a healing path with powerful tools that include therapeutic interventions and lifestyle changes in service to healthy relationships.
The constant search for mother love can be a lifelong emotional burden, but healing begins with knowing and naming what we are missing. McDaniel is the first clinician to identify Mother Hunger, which demystifies the search for love and provides the compass that each woman needs to end the struggle with achy, lonely emptiness, and come home to herself.
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- Sam
- 2023-03-09
Amazing book!
Loved listening to Kelly and learning from her. This book is a must for everyone.
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- Ariane Picard
- 2023-04-07
Amazing book!
A really amazing books that talk about a topic that is so important and is affecting so many people but yet, never talked about for some reason... I recognized my relationship with my mother and the lack of love, compassion, connection and the emotional neglect and abuse. Having this knowledge helped me understand a lot of things about myself and why I always been a love addict as far as I can remember. Having this knowledge also helped me grieve the relationship with my mother I always wanted but never had and never will have.
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- Dielle J. Raymond
- 2023-10-27
Life Changing
Such a powerful experience in gaining more understanding of how our childhood affects us now.
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- Alli
- 2022-10-07
Powerful
This was such a thoughtful and well researched and written book - it spoke to me on a deep level, and has encouraged me to delve further into my journey on healing my own mother-daughter wounds. I’m forever grateful for this gift from Author Kelly McDaniel.
I recommend this book to those who struggle to make sense of the connection to their mother, and also feel like it would be a great read for those mothers who are expecting.
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- Anonymous User
- 2024-06-19
Must read for all daughters struggling in anyway
I love the topic of secure attachment and the McDaniel’s way of describing how to promote secure attachment in children through nurturance, protection and guidance. This book brought so much healing and clarity. Left me feeling whole.
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- Tanya Jane Mayor-Newton
- 2022-06-02
A must listen for ALL women.
Thankyou Kelly for this informative and life changing book! It helped me to put so many pieces of my life into perspective and provided me with the framework to draw on experiences that I felt deep in my bones and in my tissues. Thankyou for giving me some of the words I needed for my healing journey.
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- Cinzia
- 2024-04-19
I felt seen
In this book I found the reason why I am an alien, I can't fit in and I am inadequate for this world, even after years of therapy.
I felt seen, and it gave me new motivation to try to ask for help again, but with a different approach.
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- Melissa Rivard
- 2024-03-29
Fairly helpful
I enjoyed this book and found it fairly helpful in identifying many issues caused by the lack of a mother relationship, or neglect and abuse..
however I found the author integrated many of her own spiritual beliefs such as chakras, reiki and celestial goddess worship as solutions to mother hunger or attachment issues which are not in my opinion a good solution. But despite my different opinion from the authors I found her approach to women very thorough and helpful.
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- Terry Markiewich
- 2022-07-29
A must read!
informative, insightful, healing, great author well written a book to come to as needed
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- Anonymous User
- 2023-09-22
Astounding!
in the first chapter I was hooked and I knew that this book was going to be amazing. in the second chapter where the author outlines the causes of mother hunger I started to feel like maybe this book didn't apply to me but by the end of the second chapter and for the rest of the book I realized that mother hunger applies to just about everyone in some way and the information in this book is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship with the mother you have and being a healthy mother to the best of our abilities ourselves to the children we have to the projects we create and in the relationships we have in our lives. a good amount of time is spent on instructing and suggesting how to soothe and heal the mother hunger trauma which is also very useful and very encouraging. this is a must-read for every therapist every support person and every woman in the world.
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