Parenting from the Inside Out
How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive
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Daniel J. Siegel M.D.
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Mary Hartzell M.Ed.
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Daniel J. Siegel M.D.
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Mary Hartzell M.Ed.
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"Dan Siegel and Mary Hartzell have quite deftly managed to translate highly complex neuroscientific and psychological matters into lay strategies for effective parenting." (Marilyn B. Benoit, M.D., former president, American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry).
"Parenting from the Inside Out is a must-have for any parent…I gave a friend of mine a copy and she said, 'This audiobook is changing my life. I like my kids again.'" (Gwyneth Paltrow, Goop.com).
"Together Siegel and Hartzell delicately peel back the many layers of parenting to reveal the pure nature of the relationship at its core." (Neal Halfon, M.D., MPH, professor of pediatrics, UCLA; director, UCLA Center for Healthier Children, Families & Communities, and coeditor, Child Rearing in America).
In this best-selling classic, child psychiatrist and coauthor of The Whole Brain Child, Daniel J. Siegel and early childhood expert Mary Hartzell explore the extent to which our childhood experiences shape the way we parent. Illuminating important research in the field of interpersonal neurobiology, Siegel and Hartzell explain how the parent-child relationship directly affects brain development, and offer parents a step-by-step approach to forming a deeper understanding of their own life stories to help them raise compassionate and resilient children.
Drawing on Siegel's cutting-edge research on how communication influences brain development with Hartzell's more than forty years' experience as a child development specialist and parent educator, Parenting from the Inside Out guides parents through creating the necessary foundations for loving and secure relationships with their children.
Disclaimer: This audiobook of Parenting from the Inside Out includes the new preface written by the authors' for the tenth anniversary edition. However, the audiobook is based upon the first edition of the work published in 2003, not the updated and revised edition of the audiobook.
©2003 Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., and Mary Hartzell, M.Ed. (P)2013 Mind Your Brain, Inc. and Mary Hartzell, M.Ed., all rights reserved. Published by Brilliance Audio.You may also enjoy...
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A highly worthwhile read
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- Shelby
- 2024-04-15
Very Informative
It was very informative and thought provoking book. The narrators are great at reading the material. Not too long of a listen for the material.
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- mc
- 2019-01-02
quality content
very good insights, needed more examples but overall very good. I recommend to any new parent.
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- latru9
- 2020-01-20
Try it out! Positive and empowering
Is your relationship to your own childhood a little complicated? Are you anxious to provide your children with a more nurturing environment? It certainly is my case and I found Parenting from the Inside Out both informative and cheerfully empowering. It’s good to know that you aren’t stuck repeating the way you were brought up, that you can have a more secure attachment to your child than what you had to your parents. I especially enjoyed the questions for self-reflection. I highly recommend!
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- Nima T
- 2021-10-29
Amazing
Loved it! Amazing books for parents for their own relationship with themselves and their children!!!
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- Kindle Customer
- 2022-04-12
Very deep. Challenging and meaningful.
Good listen. Very meaningful and very deep. But I found it hard to grasp fully. The concepts and application exercises give many growth opportunities. But I still feel I didn't grasp it fully
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- Hollie
- 2018-09-13
Fantastic
It was initially very daunting to think of how much your childhood and previous experiences shape your parenting, it of course makes sense. However, I am at a point in the book now where I feel so hopeful and accepting of all that just is. Great information and insight and so helpful for a mindful parenting approach. #Audible1
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- Art3mis21
- 2021-07-05
More gold from Dan Siegel
I have this in both Kindle and Audible. as a new grandmother, I've learned a lot aboutconnecti go to my grandchildren and adult children. back in the 90s, we did.bot have access to these concepts.
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- Doaa
- 2024-05-06
super important but poor presentation
The content is very valuable, but how it's presented is very bad. I found other books by Daniel and Tina to be very very well organized. I couldn't continue this one
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