Questions to Ask a Cheater
Questions to Ask a Cheating Spouse to Gain Closure and Heal Your Heart
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Narrated by:
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Clare Radix
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Written by:
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Rebekah Clarke
About this listen
Talking to your partner after they’ve cheated is undeniably one of the toughest conversations you’ll ever have with them. You’ll be bubbling over with a ton of emotions - anger, upset, and frustration. The cheating partner will also have their own emotions to deal with - dread, uncertainty, and the shame of their actions.
The aftermath of cheating always leads to “The Conversation”, where the hurt party asks their partner all of the questions about the affair they've bottled up. The cheater will be asked to answer difficult questions and confess some hurtful things to their partner, which is easier said than done for both parties. Does this situation sound similar to yours?
Although you may find yourself simmering with an abundance of questions for your partner, they don’t always come out the way you want or need them to; your anger and hurt take over, and what should be an open communication, turns into an argument. I was in the same situation not too long ago, and my rage and hurt would always get in the way of an open and honest discussion with my partner about his infidelity. This stopped me from being able to get the closure I needed so badly. Couple this with my emotions clouding my ability to know what questions to ask and how to ask them, I was in a cycle of heartache and confusion.
This audiobook is for you if you’ve been cheated on and need answers. It’s also a way to find comfort in the knowledge that someone has been in the same position you’re in and has been through the same heartache as you’ve endured. Straight to the point, no fluff or filler, this book will aid you in getting the answers you need, help you rebuild honest communication with your partner, and inspire you to seek the respect you deserve.
This book includes four parts:
- Questions To Ask Your Partner To Understand Their Behaviour
- Questions To Ask To Rebuild Trust With Your Partner
- Questions To Ask A Cheating Partner Or Ex To Gain Closure
- A Chapter For The Cheater
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