Rethinking Narcissism
The Bad - and Surprising Good - About Feeling Special
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Narrated by:
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Kiff VandenHeuvel
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Written by:
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Dr. Craig Malkin
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Harvard Medical School psychologist and Huffington Post blogger Craig Malkin addresses the "narcissism epidemic" by illuminating the spectrum of narcissism, identifying ways to control the trait, and explaining how too little of it may be a bad thing.
"What is narcissism?" is one of the fastest rising searches on Google, and articles on the topic routinely go viral. Yet, the word narcissist seems to mean something different every time it's uttered. People hurl the word as an insult at anyone who offends them. It's become so ubiquitous, in fact, that it's lost any clear meaning. The only certainty these days is that it's bad to be a narcissist - really bad - inspiring the same kind of roiling queasiness we feel when we hear the word sexist or racist. That's especially troubling news for millennials, the people born after 1980, who've been branded the "most narcissistic generation ever".
In Rethinking Narcissism listeners will learn that there's far more to narcissism than its reductive invective would imply. The truth is that narcissists (all of us) fall on a spectrum somewhere between utter selflessness on the one side and arrogance and grandiosity on the other. A healthy middle exhibits a strong sense of self. On the far end lies sociopathy. Malkin deconstructs the healthy from the unhealthy narcissism and offers clear, step-by-step guidance on how to promote healthy narcissism in our partners, our children, and ourselves.
©2015 Craig Malkin (P)2015 HarperCollins PublishersYou may also enjoy...
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- clint
- 2020-04-14
did exactly that. rethink narcissist behavior.
It completely captivated my attention and gave me a better understanding of who i am. i suffer from narcissism and it allowed me to move forward with my life. I finished the book in 3 sittings. I will most likely by reading this book over again to gain a better understanding. also i really liked the narration, it captivated the writing very well.
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- David masongsong
- 2020-05-22
it taught me a lot
I have been called a narcissist and didn't know how to cope. I didn't even know there are different kinds of narcissism. now that I know I am able to learn with therapy on how to deal with such behaviour
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- Kate Ferguson
- 2023-07-07
Pretty good
Layman’s guide to narcissism eleven more words required now it’s 5 only 4 now ha
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