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Scary Close

Dropping the Act and Finding True Intimacy

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Scary Close

Written by: Donald Miller
Narrated by: Webb Wilder
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When it comes to authenticity, is being fully yourself always worth the risk? From the author of Blue Like Jazz comes New York Times bestseller Scary Close, Donald Miller's journey of uncovering the keys to a healthy relationship and discovering that they're also at the heart of building a healthy family, a successful career, and a trusted community of friends.

After decades of failed relationships and painful drama, Miller decided that he'd had enough. Trying to impress people wasn't helping him truly connect with anyone--and neither was pretending to be someone he wasn't. He'd built himself a life of public isolation, but he dreamed of having a life defined by meaningful relationships instead. At 40-years-old, he made a scary decision: he was going to be his true self no matter what it might cost.

Scary Close tells the story of Miller's difficult choice to impress fewer people and connect with even more. It's about the importance of knocking down old walls to finally experience the freedom that comes when we stop playing a part and start being fully ourselves.

In Scary Close, Miller shares everything he's learned firsthand about how to:

  • Deconstruct the old habits that no longer serve us
  • Overcome the desire to please the people around us
  • Always tell the truth, even when it's hard
  • Find satisfaction in a daily portion of real love
  • Risk being fully known in order to deeply love and be loved
  • Apply these lessons to your everyday life

If you're ready to drop the act and find true, life-changing intimacy, it's time to get Scary Close.

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Perhaps the single most helpful part of this book was when Donald compares writer's block to intimacy. Am I too afraid to write what's next because it won't be perfect? Am I too afraid to be known and loved because she'll find out I'm not perfect?

Scary close & scary good!

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This is a must read for anyone looking to improve their relationships with friends, or family!

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I didn’t remember why I originally downloaded this book but I enjoyed it so much more then I thought.
It is a compelling journey through the authors process of working on their relationship skills and weaves in stories of people in their life who’s names you may even recognize.
I highly recommend this audio book to people who enjoy exploring the life stories of those who are good at self reflection!

Compelling and thoughtful

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Written in Miller's affable and accessable way, this is an accurate and truly helpful book on understanding and gaining authenticity in relationships. So often we don't even know how we're encumbered and sabotaging ourselves, and it takes a new education or a new revelation to get free. In this book, Miller let's us walk along side him through his own journey on this front and in so doing, leaves us valuable lessons that get at the heart of relationships.

It's scary to go real

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I've read/listened to Scary Close three times now, and I'm sure I will again. Donald Miller has such an understanding of the human story, and such a way with words.

I've read it three times now

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