She Deserves Better
Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
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Sheila Wray Gregoire
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Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
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What if the goal of raising a Christian girl was about more than keeping her virginity intact? What if it was about raising a strong, independent young woman who knows who she is, uses her voice, and confidently steps into the life God has for her?
From the authors of The Great Sex Rescue comes this evidence-based book grounded on surveys of over 28,000 women to offer moms a fresh, freeing, and biblically grounded message of sexuality and self-worth for their daughters that is less about the don'ts and more about the dos.
This isn't your average parenting book: no pat answers or overly broad principles here. No cliche prescriptives or toxic teachings that your daughter will have to unpack and recover from as an adult, like so many of us have. Instead, you'll find data-driven insights about how to raise a woman who is resilient, knows her strength, and has the discernment skills needed to make good choices. By reframing (and sometimes replacing) common evangelical messages to teen girls, this book will equip you to raise a girl who can navigate the difficult waters of growing up while still clinging tight to the God who created her on purpose, for a purpose.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2023 Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky (P)2023 eChristianYou may also enjoy...
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- Vioanna
- 2023-07-17
A Book Everyone hurt by church and purity culture needs to hear.
Excellent, validating, carefully researched book. Content warning for sexual abuse etc. needed. A Must listen!
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