Sis, Don't Settle
How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart
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Faith Jenkins
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Faith Jenkins
About this listen
Date smarter, make better decisions in love, and achieve the relationship you deserve.... It all starts with not settling!
By day, Faith Jenkins is the host of the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court; by night, she’s a happily married newlywed who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams.
When she turned 35 without a wedding ring in sight, like most women, she started getting tons of questions about not being married. But she made a decision: I. Will. Not. Settle.
As an attorney and arbitrator, Faith has presided over hundreds of cases, and has helped couples avoid and resolve a wealth of drama. And she’s seen it all! In Sis, Don’t Settle, she’s gathered an arsenal of love, wisdom, and advice for women on how to play it smart.
Modern culture would have women believe they can’t have it all — and be smart, successful, strong women with authentic love to boot. Wrong. Told in her signature style — sometimes salty and sometimes sweet — Faith provides real solutions that will teach you how to thrive in relationships while avoiding common missteps and pitfalls. She delivers it straight, with no chaser, to show us how to level up, and reminds you that how you live single will set the tone for your success in relationships.
Smart, illuminating, and, often laugh-out-loud funny, Sis, Don’t Settle is the essential playbook that will help you build your confidence, generate better results in love, and land a high-value relationship once and for all. You’ll find tips on topics like:
- Strong independent women…and the men who love them
- What’s worse than a bad relationship? Overextending your stay in one
- Becoming the right person to attract the right person
- How to release trash subconscious beliefs that keep you settling
- And much more!
Whether you’re single, divorced, or in a situationship, Sis, Don’t Settle reveals the direction and guidance you need to navigate love and take back your power.
©2021 Faith Jenkins (P)2021 Legacy LitYou may also enjoy...
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What the critics say
“Listen to Faith. This book is great!” (Steve Harvey, New York Times best-selling author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man)
"Judge Faith Jenkins is the personification of what it means to live by faith! I was honored to marry her and her husband, the legendary Kenny Lattimore, and I know first-hand that she is a testament to never settling for less especially when it comes to love. I have no doubt her story, her wisdom, and her insights will motivate every reader to never settle for less than their worth!" (DeVon Franklin, New York Times best-selling author of The Wait)
"I was relieved that Sis Don't Settle is not about "catching" a man. This easy, wise, and often funny read is about recognizing your innate worth. Read this book. Love yourself. Then, expect more love to enter your life." (Tina Lifford, author of The Little Book of Big Lies)
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- Martina Campbell-Segree
- 2023-02-06
Great guide for single woman
I heard Faiths interview on Dear Future Wifey podcast and had to read it. So much needed and very accepted and relatable to dating as an educated woman. Thank you!
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- Amazon Customer
- 2024-03-11
The book I did not know I needed
Loved the common sense principles and the author’s vulnerability in sharing her stories. She is so relatable!
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- Anonymous User
- 2022-05-26
Amazing Amazing book
Words cannot express how insightful and helpful this book is. I started reading this book as one person and end it as a different person. A person with a more improved mindset and more hopeful. Thanks Faith
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-01-09
Very insightful and to the point
I give this book 5 starts because Dr. Jenkins was very to the point. She divided the book into sections. Each of which is very educational. Then she elaborated on each section with examples so that anyone can understand what she meant and how to proceed if wanting to follow her advice.
This book is not only for sisters but for brothers out there. If men as well as women follow the guidance on this book. Both can enjoy a happy long-lasting relationship. I will buy this book for my daughter to read when she is a bit older.
Even if you are not really looking for a relationship or if you are married. This book will provide you with useful knowledge.
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- Prime customer
- 2023-09-26
Worth the read
Very well written. I will highly recommend this for anyone needing to improve their dating life.
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- MARNY
- 2022-01-21
Love it
great advice for singles and couples. modern day explanations as well and very direct
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- Joanne Lai
- 2023-11-10
A MUST READ!!
Great reminders and new wisdoms from this amazing writer! Thank you for creating this and changing lives by making life a little easier to navigate and understand. ✨
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- Amazon Customer
- 2022-06-17
Beautiful Values
I love how well written this was. I love how much faith you have and it reflects in the book how strong you are and how much you went through in many relationships that hurt you. The red flags are often missed and hopefully readers will learn from your experiences and learn to stay confident and smart in their next relationship. I love the advise.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-10-27
LOVE! Must read! Love her!
First of all I loved how she voiced the reading herself. She is very personal and speaks from her own life experiences as well as others whom she has come across in divorce court. She gives very PRACTICAL tips for single woman and how to not settle! I honestly finished this book within less than a week, I could not stop listening! Absolutely loved it, will definitely listen to it again.!
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- wanderlustyyz
- 2021-11-24
I really wanted to like this book 😞
It has a couple of old “gems” that we’ve heard a million times. It’s pretty boring, basic and sounds like it was written by someone contracted on Fiverr. It contains hours of useless information.
Unfortunately the author does a really bad job of narrating this book. It really doesn’t sound like she wrote it. The tone is bland and there is no feeling whatsoever put into the way this book was read or written.
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