Sizing People Up
A Veteran FBI Agent's User Manual for Behavior Prediction
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Narrated by:
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Robin Dreeke
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Written by:
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Robin Dreeke
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Cameron Stauth
About this listen
A former FBI agent shares his simple but powerful toolkit for assessing who you can trust - and who you can't.
After two decades as a behavior analyst in the FBI, Robin Dreeke knows a thing or two about sizing people up. He's navigated complex situations that range from handling Russian spies to navigating the internal politics at the Bureau. Through that experience, he was forced to develop a knack for reading people - their intentions, their capabilities, their desires and their fears.
Dreeke's first book, It's Not All About "Me", has become a cult favorite with audiences seeking to build quick rapport with others. His last book, The Code of Trust, was about how to inspire trust in others as a leader. In Sizing People Up, Dreeke shares his simple, six-step system that helps you predict anyone's future behavior based on their words, goals, patterns of action, and the situation at hand.
Predicting the behavior of others is an urgent need for anyone whose work involves relationships with others, whether it's leading an organization, collaborating with a teammate, or closing a sale. But predictability is not as simple as good and evil, or truth and fiction. Allies might make a promise with every intention of keeping it, not realizing that they will be unable to do so due to some personal shortcoming. And those seeking to thwart your endeavor may not realize how reliable their malevolent tells have become.
Dreeke's system is simple, but powerful. For instance, a colleague might have a strong moral code, but do they believe your relationship will be long-term? Even the most upstanding person can betray your trust if they don't see themselves tied to you or your desired result in the long term. How can you determine whether someone has both the skill and will to do what they've said they're going to do? Behaviors as subtle as how they take notes will reveal their reliability.
Using this book as their manual, listeners will be able to quickly and easily determine who they can trust and who they can't; who is likely to deliver on promises and who will disappoint; and when a person is vested in your success vs. when they are actively plotting your demise. With this knowledge they can confidently embark on anything from a business venture to a romantic relationship to a covert operation without the stress of the unknown.
©2020 Robin Dreeke and Cameron Stauth (P)2020 Penguin AudioYou may also enjoy...
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What the critics say
"An indispensable contribution to the field from a master practitioner. If your work would benefit from knowing what people will do next, this book is your new must-have." (Joe Navarro, author of What Every Body Is Saying)
"Dreeke's to-the-point style, humility, and occasional flashes of humor make for an enjoyable and illuminating work." (Publishers Weekly)
"The illustrative anecdotes buried inside the instruction are exciting and insightful, and will attract thriller fans.” (Nashville Ledger and Rushville Republican)
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- Mike Delamont
- 2020-01-24
Captivating, practical and applicable for real life!
I truly enjoyed listening to this book. It outline an amazing system for building trust. The examples and stories from the FBI world are entertaining and expertly crafted to be relatable to everyday life. Give it a listen!
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- Dean Wolf
- 2020-02-13
Solid training & experience produces solid wisdom!
What a fantastic listen, and super easy to understand. I am buying the book next. I am including this book on my boy's reading list. Only the best make it. Thanks, Robin for all the work you've done and are doing.
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