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Swing Low
- A Life
- Narrated by: David Hamilton
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
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Publisher's Summary
After her father took his own life in 1998, Miriam Toews decided to face her confusion and pain straight on. In writing her father’s memoir, she was motivated by two primary goals: For her own sake, she needed to understand, or at least accept, her father’s final decision. For her father’s sake, she needed to honour him, to elucidate his life, and to demonstrate its worth.
Apart from its brief prologue and epilogue, Swing Low is written entirely from Mel Toews’s perspective. Miriam Toews has her father tell his story from bed as he waits in a Steinbach hospital to be transferred to a psychiatric facility in Winnipeg. Mel turns to writing to make sense of his condition, to review his life in the hope of seeing it more clearly. He remembers himself as an anxious child, the son of a despondent father and an alcoholic mother, who never once made him feel loved. At 17 he was diagnosed with manic depression (now known as bipolar disorder). His psychiatrist’s predictions were grim: Mel shouldn’t count on marrying, starting a family, or holding down a job. With great courage and determination, Mel went on to do all three: he married his childhood sweetheart, had two happy daughters and was a highly respected and beloved teacher for 40 years.
Although Mel was able to keep his disorder hidden from the community, his family frequently witnessed his unraveling. Over the years this schism between his public and private life grew wider. An outgoing and tireless trailblazer at school, he often collapsed into silence and despair at home. Ironically, in trying to win his family’s love through hard work and accomplishments, he deprived them of what they yearned for most: his presence, his voice. Once he retired from teaching - "the daily ritual of stepping outside himself" - Mel lost his creative outlet and, with it, his hope.
In the Globe and Mail, author Moira Farr described Swing Low as "audacious, original and profoundly moving." She added: "Getting into the head of your own father - your own largely silent, mentally ill father, who killed himself - has to be a kind of literary high-wire act that few would dare to try.… Healing is a likely outcome of a book imbued with the righteous anger, compassion and humanity of Swing Low."
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- cece
- 2023-02-28
A wonderful and touching tribute to a beautiful troubled man
I’ve read almost everything that Miriam Toews has beautifully written. This must have been a very difficult one for her…
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- Barrett
- 2023-05-17
Beautifully written
Miriam beautifully writes her fathers story while sharing the struggles that those who live with mental illness. Bravo, Miriam. Very well done.
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- Sheryl Shore
- 2023-08-07
Heartfilling
My favourite writer pays righteous homage to her father in groundbreaking style. Empathetic and helpful for others experiencing and living with mental illness. Thank you. RIP Mr. Toevs
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- Eve Campbell
- 2022-10-26
Excellent!
I really enjoyed this novel. I wasn't sure about the narrator at first, but I soon got used to him and liked him. The way that Miriam Toews wrote the story from her father's point of view was really well done. I definitely recommend this Audible.
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- Françoise
- 2023-07-06
Touchant, écriture superbe
Le lecteur est extraordinaire. Une porte ouverte sur l’univers d’un homme en détresse et si vivant à la fois. Un livre qui explore les paradoxes de la dépression. Un hommage magnifique de Miriam Toews à son père.
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