The male mind is nothing like you imagine it to be.

Men use as many as 13,000 fewer words in any given day than women. This means that gestures, such as nodding the head, are a great deal more significant to a man. His nod needs to mean something, and to him, it means he agrees with you.

Let's use listening as an example.

How do guys listen?

When a man is listening, he is focused on a particular problem that needs to be solved. He assumes you need something fixed. Every word you say is running through a "man filter" that weeds out everything but "what can I do about this?"

He lacks patience to hear your entire story. He’s looking for the parts of the conversation that pertain to his role. Once he’s figured that out, he is likely to jump in with a solution.

Women, on the other hand, don’t necessarily talk to have a problem solved. The conversation alone can be all that’s necessary in a given situation. The fact that a man is listening may be enough for her, and she has no need of an active solution to any problem. She needs to feel heard, which, in turn, makes her feel loved. Unfortunately, men don’t often get this.

Bridge the gap.

If you want someone to listen to you go on in detail about something, one of your female friends is going to be your best bet, but if you have a problem that needs to be solved, your man is all ears. Go ahead and feed him the details! He lives for that type of engagement with you. He shows you he loves you by helping you solve your problems. This is actually a biggie for men.

No longer will you have to guess what he is thinking. Now you will know his untold secrets!

In Part One, learn his untold secrets:

• What he really wants
• Sex or no sex
• It's not about your looks - what it's really about
• Are we equal? This is why so many relationships fail
• How to see things through his eyes. Do this and get what you want

Part two explains what you should want out of a man.

No, I’m not here to tell you what you individually should want from your next partner, but I will make some suggestions on things you might not have thought of so far. Obviously, you want the great guy. The problem is that the others can come disguised as a great guy. How can you tell them apart?

Part three - getting where you need to be to attract a great man.

To the right man, it won’t matter if you have two tails attached to your ass. He will love you for the genuine person you are, tails and all. He won’t care that you are such an avid book reader that you’ve got your books double-stacked on your bookshelves. He won’t care that you’re so into your dog that the dog’s leash, collar, and winter jacket are all personalized. I teach how to find the right guy!

Part four - your game plan.

Here, we wrap up the book and start applying the principles learned! You've come a long way by book's end, and you will be chomping at the bit to reign in a guy!

Click the buy now button right now to start your journey to building yourself and then finding your man. You won’t regret it!

About the author

Gregg Michaelsen is a top dating and life coach who focuses on helping women find great men by building them toward relationship success.