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Uncultured

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Uncultured

Written by: Daniella Mestyanek Young
Narrated by: Daniella Mestyanek Young
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"It’s a dark story that forced me to think more expansively about what constitutes a cult." The New York Times' Ernesto Londoño

"Although this is Mestyanek Young’s first time narrating, listeners will appreciate hearing this deeply personal story told by the author herself. Share with fans of Tara Westover’s Educated and Deborah Feldman’s Unorthodox. Memoir readers will want to check this one out."
Library Journal

"A painful and propulsive memoir delivered in the honest tones of a woman who didn’t always think she’d live to tell her story." —The New York Times


This program is read by the author.


In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome.


Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in the religious cult The Children of God, also known as The Family, as the daughter of high-ranking members. Her great-grandmother donated land for one of The Family’s first communes in Texas. Her mother, at thirteen, was forced to marry the leader and served as his secretary for many years. Beholden to The Family’s strict rules, Daniella suffers physical, emotional, and sexual abusemasked as godly discipline and divine loveand is forbidden from getting a traditional education.

At fifteen years old, fed up with The Family and determined to build a better and freer life for herself, Daniella escapes to Texas. There, she bravely enrolls herself in high school and excels, later graduating as valedictorian of her college class, then electing to join the military to begin a career as an intelligence officer, where she believes she will finally belong.

But she soon learns that her new worldsurrounded by men on the sands of Afghanistanlooks remarkably similar to the one she desperately tried to leave behind.

Told in a beautiful, propulsive voice and with clear-eyed honesty, Uncultured explores the dangers unleashed when harmful group mentality goes unrecognized, and is emblematic of the many ways women have to contort themselves to survive.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.

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Such a horrific and inspiring story. Truly heartbreaking and unbelievably believable. Daniella is a wonderful reader of her work.

Just wow

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The book is hard to listen to at times but Daniella does an excellent job telling her story. As a fellow survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I cannot imagine how difficult it would be to tell the world not only about that pain, but so much more. However, Daniella does so with vulnerability, strength, and grace. Daniella’s life is remarkable to say the least. Despite so much stacked against her, she emerges on the other side of it all stronger than ever before. Her memoir will not only touch other survivors of abuse, religious indoctrination, as well as military personnel and veterans, but anyone willing to take the time to listen. It will truly make you question what exactly constitutes a cult and think about how so much of this world is by design, not meant to be inclusive to those who do not follow “societal norms”. You are an amazing woman Daniella, and I hope you are so proud of what you have accomplished thus far. Thank you for telling your story.

Painful but incredibly powerful

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I thought this would be a typical really tough childhood story, as I have ready MANY, but her life in the army was also fascinating. Very very good listen.

Wow. This was one of the best so far

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This was such an emotional rollercoaster. The defining emotion one of anger and indignation. I wanted to jump in and defend her. I wanted to scream at my phone. This was beautifully narrated and eloquently written. I finished feeling proud of her and wanting to shake her hand and look her in the eye and let her know that I see her and I feel her pain. This audiobook made me feel less alone in my own struggles and trauma. I highly recommend this. Bravo *claps*

Heartbreaking yet all too recognizable

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Amazing story. Thank you for sharing your story Daniella. You have no idea how your strength and transparency has impacted survivors of trauma—both in childhood and adulthood. I see you. I cherish you. And I thank you again.

Absolutely amazing story

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