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  • Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder
  • Written by: Daniel S. Lobel PhD
  • Narrated by: Terrence Bayes
  • Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (22 ratings)

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When Your Daughter Has BPD

Written by: Daniel S. Lobel PhD
Narrated by: Terrence Bayes
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Publisher's Summary

If you have a daughter with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you may feel frustration, shame, and your family may be at the breaking point dealing with angry outbursts, threats, and constant emergencies. You may even feel guilty for not enjoying spending time with your child - but how can you when her behavior is abusive toward you and the rest of your family? You need solid skills you can use now to help your daughter and hold your family together.

In this important guide, you'll learn real solutions and strategies based in proven-effective DBT and CBT to help you weather the storm of BPD and restore a sense of normalcy and balance in your life. You'll find an overview of BPD so you can better understand the driving forces behind your daughter's difficult behavior. You'll discover how you can help your daughter get the help she needs while also setting boundaries that foster respect and self-care for you and others in your family. And, most importantly, you'll learn "emergency parenting techniques" to help you put a stop to abusive patterns and restore peace.

If your daughter has BPD and your family is struggling to make it through each day, this book offers essential skills to help you cope and recover a sense of stability.

©2017 Daniel S. Lobel (P)2020 Tantor

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very informative

Hearing the scenarios was very helpful. it was like they were recording our conversation. it was nice to learn why our traditional approach to parenting was having the opposite effect.

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A Need To Read if dealing with BPD

But the patronizing voice of reader, author makes the situation even
more depressing. Daughters are devilishly difficult even without BPD. This reader rings the death knell and leaves little home. We all know BPD will never end completely but he nails the coffin.

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Helpful and practical resource for those in crisis

Desperately needed practical strategies to apply immediately as my well-intentioned family was barely surviving one crisis after another.
Dr. Lobel offers straight forward user-friendly techniques anyone can use right away! Helped me regain my composure, enthusiasm, energy and confidence that my relationship with my loved one was salvageable and worth salvaging. Thank you Dr. Lobel!

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Very helpful in understanding the dynamic at play

We are going through an incredibly difficult time with our 16 year old daughter. This book was a huge help in my understanding of the illness. It also helped me to avoid enabling actions and “feeding the monster”. The narrator is excellent and compelling.

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Excellent

Well-written. I have a 36 year old with BPD who has an 11 year old daughter. Great suggestions for grandparents and likely parents who do not have BPD. Not everything will work, but it’s a place to start and obviously a long, never-ending journey. Unfortunately, my daughter is now an alcoholic, so we are dealing with her but doing our best to protect our granddaughter who shows occasional signs of zoning out until she has been with us for a day. In any event, I believe this book is worthwhile reading. Thank you for writing it.

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makes people with BPD out to be monsters,horrible

Terrible, unprofessional, one sided highly biased book that calls these people monsters as if they were serial killers. Some of the wording just discredits the author as an expert or professional. poorly written, bad taste.

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