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Wired for Love
- How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
- Narrated by: Michael Hinton
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
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"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
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- Matthew Grieves
- 2019-06-11
One of the better relationship audio books
Really enjoyed this audio book. Yes, sometimes the little skits/examples were cheesy, but they accurate to real relationships and really helped! I wish there was more in depth talk about attachment styles (i.e., islands, waves or anchors). Great source of information. My partner is a therapist and listened with me once and commented that this book offered great insight.
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- Brendan Seeley
- 2022-12-19
insightful
A bit out there with some theories but some interesting and insightful points to help you understand yourself and your partner.
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- Brent B.
- 2022-12-11
Great Read
I really like how this book references the specific brain areas that come into play. I will be reading this book again in print.
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- Joan F.
- 2021-09-14
Amazing book
So much valuable information. I cannot wait to implement the practices. Wish I had this information years ago
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-06-22
So much more than I expected
I love this book! Beyond managing grief, this book teaches self-compassion and resilience when you need it most. It focuses on challenging your outlook on your relationship with yourself and your dating patterns as you re-enter the dating pool once you’re ready.
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- Customer123
- 2021-04-13
Most recommended
I've listened to a number of books in this category and this is my favorite so far.
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- Ellen
- 2020-03-14
Oversimplified and Cheesy
I found this book to be frustratingly oversimplified. The content is generally informative and helpful, although it is rather repetitive. I found the deliberate oversimplification of the content pretty hard to stomach. It seemed really unnecessarily to take things like “secure attachment style” and call rename it “the anchor”. Creating and using cutesy names happened regularly throughout the book. I’m on Chapter 5 and not sure if I will be able to complete the book. It is quite cheesy. I found “Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment” a MUCH better read on this topic.
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- Love
- 2019-05-21
mind-blowing!
I thought my problems were unique! Turns out they're not, and I am soso grateful for these profoundly helpful insights!
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- Brian Larsen
- 2019-05-05
unbearably monotone narrator
The subject matter is a bit dry to begin with, but the narrator is unbearable. I'm pretty sure sawing my arm off with a spoon would be easier than engaging and staying awake through more than a chapter at a time.
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- Teaghan Larkin
- 2018-08-11
Accessible and Helpful
As someone looking to be a couples therapist, this was helpful information and accessibly written
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