Your Brain on Love
The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wish list failed.
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
Buy Now for $42.96
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Stan Tatkin PsyD
-
Written by:
-
Stan Tatkin PsyD
About this listen
"Understand your brain, improve your relationships." That's what Stan Tatkin has learned from his leading-edge work as a researcher and couples therapist. In this complete audio learning program, he merges current insights from neurobiology and attachment theory to help us shift out of conflict and into deeper and more loving connections. Listeners first learn to identify attachment styles - the patterns of intimacy that begin in our earliest years - both in ourselves and in those around us. Then Tatkin guides us through his proven principles and pratices for biliding enduring security and commitment between couples, family members, and othes that we love.
©2013 Stan Tatkin (P)2013 Stan TatkinYou may also enjoy...
-
Relationship Rx
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an in-depth exploration of what really makes for a secure relationship, this program will help couples restore and sustain the love that brought them together.
-
-
accessible, evidence-based, practical
- By Wendy on 2020-06-18
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
In Each Other's Care
- A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Lin Chen
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Andrew Pike, Dagny Chika, and others
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Few things are more frustrating than repeating the same fight with your partner. Playing out the same disagreement about money, parenting, sex, or household chores may leave you exhausted, cut off from the person you want to feel close to. While conflict in any relationship is inevitable, healing is possible. With In Each Other's Care, Stan Tatkin shares a hands-on repair manual that will help you discover how arguments get triggered, why they keep happening, and what you can do to get better at communicating what you want without the drama.
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, and others
-
Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- Written by: Diane Poole Heller
- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
-
-
A great reminder that the childhood wounds don’t need to ruin adult relationships
- By Julia on 2018-09-18
Written by: Diane Poole Heller
-
Wired for Love
- How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Michael Hinton
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
-
-
One of the better relationship audio books
- By Matthew Grieves on 2019-06-11
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love
- Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
- Written by: Elaine N. Aron PhD
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 10 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Statistics show that 50 percent of what determines divorce is genetic temperament. And, if you are one of the 20 percent of people who are born highly sensitive, the risk of an unhappy relationship is especially high. Your finely tuned nervous system, which picks up on subtleties and reflects deeply, would be a romantic asset if both you and your partner understood you better. But without that understanding, your sensitivity is likely to be making your close relationships painful and complicated.
-
-
Life Changing
- By J. Szabo on 2019-09-28
Written by: Elaine N. Aron PhD
-
Fierce Intimacy
- Written by: Terrence Real
- Narrated by: Terrence Real
- Length: 6 hrs and 4 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Terry Real has emerged as one of the most innovative teachers on relationships today, whose groundbreaking workshops and books have helped men and women everywhere build healthier, more open, and deeper bonds. With Fierce Intimacy, he presents a complete audio training in essential communication skills for couples - including the Five Losing Strategies that lead to unhealthy conflict and the Five Winning Strategies that help us become more connected, protected, and committed to lasting love.
-
-
Best relationship book I've read in a long time!
- By Amazon Customer on 2020-05-03
Written by: Terrence Real
-
Relationship Rx
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an in-depth exploration of what really makes for a secure relationship, this program will help couples restore and sustain the love that brought them together.
-
-
accessible, evidence-based, practical
- By Wendy on 2020-06-18
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
In Each Other's Care
- A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Lin Chen
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Andrew Pike, Dagny Chika, and others
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Few things are more frustrating than repeating the same fight with your partner. Playing out the same disagreement about money, parenting, sex, or household chores may leave you exhausted, cut off from the person you want to feel close to. While conflict in any relationship is inevitable, healing is possible. With In Each Other's Care, Stan Tatkin shares a hands-on repair manual that will help you discover how arguments get triggered, why they keep happening, and what you can do to get better at communicating what you want without the drama.
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, and others
-
Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- Written by: Diane Poole Heller
- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
-
-
A great reminder that the childhood wounds don’t need to ruin adult relationships
- By Julia on 2018-09-18
Written by: Diane Poole Heller
-
Wired for Love
- How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Michael Hinton
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
-
-
One of the better relationship audio books
- By Matthew Grieves on 2019-06-11
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love
- Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
- Written by: Elaine N. Aron PhD
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 10 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Statistics show that 50 percent of what determines divorce is genetic temperament. And, if you are one of the 20 percent of people who are born highly sensitive, the risk of an unhappy relationship is especially high. Your finely tuned nervous system, which picks up on subtleties and reflects deeply, would be a romantic asset if both you and your partner understood you better. But without that understanding, your sensitivity is likely to be making your close relationships painful and complicated.
-
-
Life Changing
- By J. Szabo on 2019-09-28
Written by: Elaine N. Aron PhD
-
Fierce Intimacy
- Written by: Terrence Real
- Narrated by: Terrence Real
- Length: 6 hrs and 4 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Terry Real has emerged as one of the most innovative teachers on relationships today, whose groundbreaking workshops and books have helped men and women everywhere build healthier, more open, and deeper bonds. With Fierce Intimacy, he presents a complete audio training in essential communication skills for couples - including the Five Losing Strategies that lead to unhealthy conflict and the Five Winning Strategies that help us become more connected, protected, and committed to lasting love.
-
-
Best relationship book I've read in a long time!
- By Amazon Customer on 2020-05-03
Written by: Terrence Real
-
Your Deceptive Mind: A Scientific Guide to Critical Thinking Skills
- Written by: Steven Novella, The Great Courses
- Narrated by: Steven Novella
- Length: 12 hrs and 39 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
No skill is more important in today's world than being able to think about, understand, and act on information in an effective and responsible way. What's more, at no point in human history have we had access to so much information, with such relative ease, as we do in the 21st century. But because misinformation out there has increased as well, critical thinking is more important than ever. These 24 rewarding lectures equip you with the knowledge and techniques you need to become a savvier, sharper critical thinker in your professional and personal life.
-
-
Great book worth a listen but maybe I'm bias.
- By Martin on 2018-01-15
Written by: Steven Novella, and others
-
Deeper Dating
- How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy
- Written by: Ken Page
- Narrated by: Allan Robertson
- Length: 7 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lose weight. Act confident. Play hard to get. This approach to dating doesn't lead to love; it leads to insecurity and loneliness. In Deeper Dating, psychotherapist Ken Page offers a new path to finding meaningful and lasting relationships. Learn how to attract people who love you for who you really are, become more self-assured and emotionally available, and lose your taste for relationships that diminish your self-esteem.
Written by: Ken Page
-
Food: A Cultural Culinary History
- Written by: Ken Albala, The Great Courses
- Narrated by: Ken Albala
- Length: 18 hrs and 22 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Eating is an indispensable human activity. As a result, whether we realize it or not, the drive to obtain food has been a major catalyst across all of history, from prehistoric times to the present. Epicure Jean-Anthelme Brillat-Savarin said it best: "Gastronomy governs the whole life of man."
-
-
This is a Western food history course
- By Anonymous User on 2019-05-15
Written by: Ken Albala, and others
-
We Do
- Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.
-
-
The book on how to communicate (couple/family).
- By Mona Gravel on 2019-04-17
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
Neurodharma
- New Science, Ancient Wisdom, and Seven Practices of the Highest Happiness
- Written by: Rick Hanson PhD
- Narrated by: Rick Hanson PhD
- Length: 11 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Neurodharma, the follow up to his classic Buddha’s Brain, New York Times best-selling author Rick Hanson, PhD, not only explores the new neuroscience of awakening, but also offers a bold yet plausible plan for reverse-engineering peak experiences, sense of oneness, and even enlightenment itself. And he does so with his trademark blend of solid science and warm encouragement, guiding you along this high-reaching path with good humor, accessible tools, and personal examples.
Written by: Rick Hanson PhD
-
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- Principles of Becoming More Flexible, Effective, and Fulfilled
- Written by: Steven C. Hayes PhD
- Narrated by: Steven C. Hayes PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 56 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For more than 30 years, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) has been used effectively to treat mental and behavioral health problems such as anxiety and depression. It has also been demonstrated to support workplace success, sports performance, weight loss, social change, and more. In this complete audio learning program, the originator of ACT teaches us its essential principles.
-
-
Amazing
- By J. Mckenna on 2021-08-27
Written by: Steven C. Hayes PhD
-
You Will Get Through This Night
- Written by: Daniel Howell
- Narrated by: Daniel Howell
- Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A practical guide to taking control of your mental health for today, tomorrow, and the days after, from the number one New York Times best-selling author and beloved entertainer.
-
-
Enjoyable & informative
- By Nicola Urquhart on 2021-05-29
Written by: Daniel Howell
-
Anchored
- How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory
- Written by: Deb Dana, Stephen Porges PhD - Foreword by
- Narrated by: Deb Dana
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
An intense conversation, a spat with a partner, or even an obnoxious tweet - these situations aren't life-or-death, yet we often react as if they are. That's because our bodies treat most perceived threats the same way. Yet one approach has proven to be incredibly effective in training our nervous system to stop overreacting: polyvagal theory. In Anchored, expert teacher Deb Dana shares a down-to-earth presentation of polyvagal theory, then brings the science to life with practical, everyday ways to transform your relationship with your body.
-
-
Anchored is SO needed in our World of Anxiety
- By Karen Waters on 2022-02-25
Written by: Deb Dana, and others
-
The Beauty of What Remains
- How Our Greatest Fear Becomes Our Greatest Gift
- Written by: Steve Leder
- Narrated by: Steve Leder
- Length: 6 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As the senior rabbi of one of the largest synagogues in the world, Steve Leder has learned over and over again the many ways death teaches us how to live and love more deeply by showing us not only what is gone but also the beauty of what remains. This inspiring and comforting book takes us on a journey through the experience of loss that is fundamental to everyone.
-
-
Beautiful just Beautiful
- By David Russell on 2023-10-10
Written by: Steve Leder
-
Good Morning, I Love You
- Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy
- Written by: Shauna Shapiro PhD
- Narrated by: Shauna Shapiro
- Length: 4 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Good Morning, I Love You, Dr. Shauna Shapiro brings alive the brain science behind why we feel the way we do - about ourselves, each other, and the world - and explains why we get stuck in thinking that doesn’t serve us. It turns out that we are hardwired to be self-critical and negative! And this negativity is constantly undermining our experience of life.
-
-
Very helpful and insightful! life changing!
- By Ken Ly Duong on 2021-01-26
Written by: Shauna Shapiro PhD
-
Wired for Dating
- How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate
- Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Jonathan Yen
- Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Everybody wants someone to love and spend time with, and searching for your ideal partner is a natural and healthy human tendency. Just about everyone dates at some point in their life, yet few really understand what they're doing or how to get the best results. In Wired for Dating, psychologist and relationship expert Stan Tatkin - author of Wired for Love - offers powerful tips based in neuroscience and attachment theory to help you find a compatible mate and go on to create a fabulous relationship.
Written by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
-
Befriending Your Nervous System
- Looking Through the Lens of Polyvagal Theory
- Written by: Deborah Dana LCSW
- Narrated by: Deborah Dana LCSW
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
It can be incredibly frustrating when your body reacts to situations in ways that you can’t control. But what if you could harness the same mechanisms that cause fear and panic to instead summon peace and spaciousness? In Befriending Your Nervous System, clinician Deb Dana offers practical advice and exercises for engaging with your subconscious nervous system responses for greater wellness and resilience.
-
-
Sleepy, not meant to be listened to in the car
- By M. Bujold on 2023-03-02
Written by: Deborah Dana LCSW
What listeners say about Your Brain on Love
Average Customer RatingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Tea Lover
- 2022-09-16
Valuable information
After 42 years of marriage, I’ve been looking for advice on how to reconnect with my husband. I’ve listened to this book three times and believe I will listen again as needed. The advice is solid and realistic. I’ve practiced the techniques and been rewarded by an improvement in my relationship. Looking into my husband’s eyes and reconnecting has paid dividends. This book is well worth the time.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- angelac
- 2021-07-29
Beautiful book
Stan did an amazing job presenting this material, and the entire book is useful. Cannot thank you enough for creating this!!!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Divya Sivan
- 2023-01-12
Excellent work
Im a newbie to relationships. And this helped me a lot to understand why they behaved the way they behave. This is deep, I like to understand the root cause of the situation and problems and this book helped me learn more about human psychology and the past traumas and how it impacts in our day today life. I would listen to this book again in future as I progress in my relationship. This for sure will be a guide for me from now on. Highly recommend this book.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Michelle Hamilton
- 2021-05-18
Great book to understand each other better
This book is excellent for new or mature couples that aren't really feeling connected as they once were. After not being able to put the finger on what was bugging us and discovering what attachment styles are about, we found this book. It has been so enlightening for us both and as long as there is a desire to grow and do better for each other this book will help you put words to feelings and get you to a place that feels new and good again.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
6 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Cars Inc.
- 2021-12-27
Relationship changing
I listened to it with my girlfriend and it changed the way our whole relationship works. One of the best books that I have ever read.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Kudos
- 2021-05-09
Best relationship advice book ever
Incredibly eye-opening. Highly recommended for any couple. So many things explained that one needs to know. Just wow!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
5 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- IanD
- 2021-08-20
Awesome book!
Really enjoyed listening to this book. Full of practical advice for building a healthy relationship. Calm reasoned narration was icing on the cake. Only one issue. A pdf with some diagrams and an assessment quiz would be a bonus. Thank you Stan!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- melanie
- 2021-08-31
Amazing! Really articulâtes relationships at the visceral level.
Through a simple construct the Authour speaks to the experience of relationships and motivations- incredibly insightful.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Lisa
- 2021-08-31
OUTSTANDING!
One of the best books on relationships I have heard in a long time! I highly recommend everyone to listen
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Michael Isenberg
- 2023-01-04
MUST read/listen
One of those "I wish I read years ago." Completely changes how I view myself and others, interact in relationship and be minfdul of honouring other's needs and boundaries while constructively maintaining my own
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!