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You're the Only One I've Told

The Stories Behind Abortion

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You're the Only One I've Told

Written by: Dr. Meera Shah
Narrated by: Janina Edwards, Lisa Reneé Pitts
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For a long time, when people asked Dr. Meera Shah what she did, she would tell them she was a doctor and leave it at that. But over the last few years, Shah decided it was time to be direct. "I'm an abortion provider," she will now say. And an interesting thing started to happen each time she met someone new. One by one, people would confide - at BBQs, at jury duty, in the middle of the greeting-card aisle at Target - that in fact they'd had an abortion themselves. And the refrain was often the same: You're the only one I've told.

This book collects those stories as they've been told to Shah to humanize abortion and to combat myths that persist in the discourse that surrounds it. An intentionally wide range of ages, races, socioeconomic factors, and experiences shows that abortion does not happen in isolation - it always occurs in a unique context. Today, a health-care issue that's so foundational to reproductive, social, and economic freedom for millions of people is exploited by politicians who lack understanding or compassion about the context in which abortion occurs. Stories have power to break down stigmas and help us to empathize with those whose experiences are unlike our own. They can also help us find community and a shared sense of camaraderie over experiences just like ours. You're the Only One I've Told will do both.

©2020 Meera Shah (P)2020 Tantor
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I wish I could give this book 5 stars but the first chapter and the last chapter really threw me off because it wasn’t beneficial to the stories. And if so it could of been in 30 minutes. But the individual accounts were so in depth and beautiful written. I really related to many of these women have experienced. I think it is definitely an eye opener about the education system failing their children and emotional Immature parents affecting their children’s decisions.

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I don’t know how to give this less than 5 stars.

Truly moving stories from women and individuals from all walks of life who have encountered abortion and moved through it, their why’s, their circumstances, their feelings, their histories, their futures. This is an important, visceral telling of the strength of women and others and the lawmakers, politicians, religious groups and anyone else with the ✨audacity✨ to put obstacles between women and their health and autonomy.

I wish this and books like it were mandatory reading. It humanizes so many unknown aspects to abortion and the people who work in it and seek it out for such a wide variety of reasons.

I really appreciated the section that takes into account the role of men in abortions and conversations around abortions. How men need to be more involved, not in the final decision, but in the support of, protection of and responsibility for abortions. It takes two after all.

Was it a little repetitive? Yes. But I’m grateful it was written and hope it reaches many many many more people.

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