In this episode of Autistic FM, we are joined by Koda, who opens up about his experiences navigating life as a neurodivergent individual. Koda shares his journey, marked by early diagnoses of autism and ADHD, and how they have shaped his life. His story is deeply intertwined with the profound grief of losing his mother in 2021, a cornerstone of support in his life.

Throughout the episode, Koda discusses the challenges he faced following this loss, including his battles with mental health issues like BPD, and a period of homelessness. He reflects on the impact of these experiences on his mental well-being and his determination to find stability. Koda's narrative is one of resilience and courage, highlighting the importance of understanding and support for individuals who are neurodivergent.

We delve into Koda’s unique perspective on grief and loss, exploring how these experiences intersect with his identity. His account sheds light on the broader discussion of autism, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue, acceptance, and the need for societal changes to better accommodate neurodiverse individuals.

Topics covered in Episode 23

• Grief and Loss: Koda's experience with grief following the loss of his mother and how it affected him profoundly.

• Navigating Mental Health: Insight into Koda's struggles with ADHD, autism, and the impact of a BPD diagnosis.

• Resilience through Adversity: The journey through homelessness and finding stability, highlighting Koda’s resilience and determination.

About Koda

Koda (he/they) is a Pittsburgh-based individual whose journey reflects resilience and perseverance in the face of multiple challenges. Diagnosed with ADHD and autism during early childhood (under the now-retired classification of Pervasive Developmental Disorder–Not Otherwise Specified), Koda has spent much of his life navigating neurodivergence while grappling with significant grief.

In recent years, he has also managed the complexities of a BPD diagnosis, experienced chronic homelessness, and endured the end of a long-term relationship—an ordeal that has tested his resolve. Throughout these trials, Koda’s unwavering belief in the power of community, understanding, and collective support continues to shape his life and inspire those around him.

Trigger warnings

Please be aware that this episode contains discussions of grief and loss, childhood trauma, mental health struggles, homelessness, and PTSD. Listen with care and look after yourself.