Consent, beginning a relationship with someone who has past sexual trauma, the "orgasm gap," and more... let's talk about it! In this episode of "Coffee With The Penners," Julia & Derek continue the converstaion from last week, exploring many topics surrounding sex and how to get to the good part when SA is in the rearview mirror.

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Todays Community Questions:
*Intended for Partner Communication*

1) Have you ever felt like you need to stop in the middle of sex, and were you free to do so? Why or why not?

2) Do you think we as a couple or individually should see a therapist to work through something in this area?

3) What were you taught in church about sex, and was it helpful or hurtful? How will you change the converstaion if/when the time comes to talk to your kids about it?

**Please pray about whether or not this episode is good for you to listen to today or not. In this episode we discuss Rape, Marital Rape, Reporting Rape and Abuse, as well as living through a situation that is unhealthy and abusive**

Join the Penners as they open their books up about sex and their past sexual experiences. A sexless marriage, marital rape, and losing your sex drive are all topics discussed on today's episode all about Sex.

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Resources Named:
"The Great Sex Rescue" by Sheila Wray Gregoire

"She Deserves Better" by Sheila Wray Gregoire

Healthy Sex Teachings Rubric

Today's Community Questions:
*Intended for partner communication*

1) How do you feel about our current sex life? What's good, what could improve, is it overall healthy or unhealthy?

2) Is there anything in your past that might be making sex difficult (abuse or other things)? Is there anything I should be aware of so WE can work together on a healthier sex life for both of us?

3) Talk about the best sex you've had together and why it was the best!

Taking questions from you, the listener, the Penners sit down and take time to answer a few questions that have rolled in incluidng questions like "What is God teaching your right now?", "What does this passage of scripture really mean?", and "What are 3 things you are actively doing differently in this marriage than your first marriages?" Tune in for a great conversation.

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Resources:

Sabbath Podcast by John Mark Comer Teaching Podcast on Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2eckgoaQ1yUUL0bpgDqSWj?si=d73c32cceec541d3