• Ep. #34 - Gay Fathers - Christmas Reflections. Coming Out Stories and Listener Support
    Dec 24 2024

    In this engaging conversation, Brian and John reflect on their favorite Christmas memories, share personal stories about coming out and navigating relationships, and discuss their experiences in the real estate market. They also address listener letters, offer support for friends going through transitions, and announce their participation in a charity podcast. The episode concludes with heartfelt holiday wishes and encouragement for listeners to reach out to loved ones during the festive season. HOW-support.org

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #gaychristmas #christmas #support

    Keywords: Christmas, memories, real estate, coming out, support, charity, relationships, community, podcast, LGBTQ

    Takeaways: Christmas memories evoke feelings of nostalgia and joy. Coming out can happen organically in social settings. Support from friends is crucial during transitions. Real estate can be a challenging yet rewarding field. Community engagement through charity is important. Personal stories can resonate deeply with listeners. It's essential to maintain boundaries in relationships. Being wanted can boost confidence and self-esteem. Open relationships are common but not for everyone. The holiday season can be tough; reaching out is vital.

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    42 mins
  • Ep.#24 Gay Fathers - Building Relationships Beyond Hookups. Importance of Community in LGBTQ Lives
    Oct 15 2024

    In this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of community engagement, health awareness initiatives like Movember, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals today. They share personal stories, listener feedback, and insights on navigating relationships and family dynamics while coming out. The conversation also touches on the political landscape affecting LGBTQ rights and the importance of supporting one another in both personal and professional realms.

    Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.

    There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

    MOVEMBER donations links:

    How do I donate?

    1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

    2. Choose the amount you want to donate

    3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

    4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).

    Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

    US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1

    European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion #movember

    Keywords: LGBTQ, gay fathers, coming out, Movember, men's health, community, acceptance, relationships, pride, political issues

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    36 mins
  • Ep. #33 - Gay Fathers, Finding Light in the Darkness: A Journey of Self-Discovery LGBTQ +
    Dec 17 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, including the importance of support and connection, the power of affirmations, personal struggles in real estate, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. They also touch on mental health, particularly during the holiday season, and the journey of emerging from dark times to find purpose and empathy for others.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ+, community support, affirmations, personal growth, intimacy, mental health, real estate, loneliness, holiday spirit, empowerment

    Takeaways: Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Affirmations can help combat negative thoughts. Personal growth often comes from struggles. Intimacy is essential in relationships, not just physical connection. Emerging from dark times can lead to personal transformation. Empathy for others can stem from our own struggles. It's important to manage finances and know your numbers. Loneliness can affect anyone, especially during the holidays. Finding purpose can come from sharing experiences with others. We can help each other through shared stories and support.

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    42 mins
  • Ep.#32 -Gay Fathers; Thanksgiving Reflection: Acceptance, Family Dynamic, Embracing Change & Freedom
    Dec 10 2024

    In this conversation, Brian and John reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences, discussing themes of family acceptance, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships. They share personal anecdotes about their families, the challenges of maintaining friendships post-coming out, and the importance of self-acceptance. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of community, sexuality, and the evolving nature of relationships as they navigate their identities.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords - Thanksgiving, family, acceptance, coming out, relationships, self-acceptance, community, sexuality, identity, friendship

    Takeaways: Thanksgiving can be a time of acceptance and freedom. Family dynamics can change positively with acceptance. Coming out is a continuous journey that affects relationships. Friendships may be tested after coming out, but they can also strengthen. Self-acceptance is crucial for personal growth and happiness. Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Navigating sexuality can be complex and multifaceted. Relationships evolve as individuals embrace their true selves. It's important to allow others time to process changes in relationships. The journey of coming out is unique for everyone and requires patience.

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    41 mins
  • Ep. #31 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Journey of Healing. Breaking Myths: The Truth About Being Gay
    Dec 3 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John engage in a candid conversation about their experiences as gay men, touching on themes of personal trauma, the importance of coming out, and the misconceptions surrounding the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories of abuse and healing, discuss generational differences in attitudes towards sexuality, and debunk common myths about being gay. The conversation also highlights the significance of representation in sports and media, and the use of humor as a coping mechanism. The episode concludes with trivia and light-hearted banter, emphasizing the importance of community and support.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode,

    Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, personal stories, healing, myths, representation, sports, humor, sexuality, generational perspectives

    Takeaways: Personal stories of trauma can help others feel less alone. Coming out can be a freeing experience for many individuals. There are many myths about being gay that need to be addressed. Representation in sports and media is crucial for LGBTQ visibility. Humor can be an effective coping mechanism for dealing with trauma. Engaging in open conversations about sexuality can normalize it for others. The importance of community support for those coming out. Trivia can be a fun way to engage with LGBTQ culture.

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    34 mins
  • Ep. #30 - Gay Fathers Navigating Family Dynamics in the LGBTQ Community. Acceptance & Self-Care.
    Nov 26 2024

    In this engaging conversation, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding family dynamics, acceptance, and personal growth within the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories about their relationships with their children, the importance of self-expression, and the challenges of navigating divorce. The discussion also touches on health and safety in sexual encounters, community engagement, and the significance of compassion during the holiday season. Through humor and heartfelt reflections, they emphasize the importance of love, acceptance, and understanding in all aspects of life.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ, family, acceptance, relationships, health, divorce, community, spirituality, holidays, personal growth

    Takeaways: Family connections are vital for emotional well-being. Acceptance of one's identity is crucial for happiness. Quality time with loved ones can heal past wounds. Community involvement enriches personal growth. Health and safety in sexual encounters should be prioritized. Divorce can lead to personal growth and new beginnings. Spirituality can provide comfort and guidance during tough times. Compassion towards others is essential in a diverse society. Holidays can be challenging for those without family support. Open communication fosters stronger relationships.

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    41 mins
  • Ep #29 - Gay Fathers, Navigating Love in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Dynamics of Dating and Hookups
    Nov 19 2024

    In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes explore various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, particularly focusing on dating and hookup culture. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the dynamics of sexual preferences, and delve into the importance of safety when meeting new partners. The conversation also touches on the significance of owning one's identity, the experience of prostate health, and the humorous yet serious aspects of navigating dating apps. The episode concludes with a light-hearted list of things to do before you die as a gay man, emphasizing the diversity and richness of experiences within the community.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords gay men, dating apps, hookup culture, sexual identity, prostate health, personal stories, LGBTQ+ community, friendship, relationships, coming out

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    46 mins
  • Ep #28 - Gay Fathers, Celebrating Pride: A Journey of Self-Discovery. Power of the LGBTQ Community
    Nov 12 2024

    In this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. They share emotional moments from the parade, the liberating feeling of being oneself, and the significance of vulnerability in friendships. The conversation also touches on listener engagement and the journey of coming out, emphasizing the need for support and connection within the LGBTQ community.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #prinde2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords Pride, LGBTQ, Gay Fathers, Identity, Acceptance, Emotional Support, Community, Real Estate, Personal Growth, Vulnerability

    Takeaways: The Pride experience was deeply moving and emotional. Being in a supportive environment allows for true self-expression. Vulnerability in friendships leads to deeper connections. It's important to share feelings without seeking solutions. Community support is vital for those on the journey of coming out. Real estate ventures can be a source of connection and support. Personal growth often comes from shared experiences and reflections. The importance of being true to oneself in all environments. Listeners appreciate the podcast for its authenticity and support. Engaging with the community can provide valuable insights and connections.

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    40 mins