• Ep.174 I Deciding Like Law Enforcement: Poor Training Creates High-Stakes Mistakes with Adam Haidary
    Jan 29 2025
    What happens when poor training leads to high-stakes mistakes? Adam Haidary went from patrolling the streets to reshaping law enforcement—training officers to perform at their peak, saving lives with groundbreaking programs, and exposing the raw realities of life on the frontlines. In this episode, he dives into why poor training in high-stress environments can lead to catastrophic decisions. Whether it's law enforcement or business, the principles of preparation, clear communication, and solid decision-making are universal. KEY TOPICS The principle every business owner should steal from elite combat training. The one thing that separates confident officers from those who freeze in a crisis. How understanding human aggression makes you a better leader. Why most people’s self-defense plan is a dangerous fantasy. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life & Business 00:49 The First Weeks of Fatherhood & a Scary NICU Experience 03:17 Reframing Struggles & the Power of Perspective 05:26 Meet Adam Haidary: From Cop to Business Owner 07:53 The Dangerous Gaps in Law Enforcement Training 10:14 The Pay Problem: Underpaid Officers, Undertrained Departments 12:35 The Soft Skills Crisis in Policing 15:00 The High Turnover & Low Standards Problem 17:22 A Masterclass in De-escalation 19:41 Confidence Over Ego: How Physical Training Reduces Overreactions 22:09 A Road Rage Incident: How Staying Calm Prevented a Fight 24:37 Why Being Physically Prepared Helps You Avoid Violence 27:06 Picking Your Battles: When Officers Should Walk Away 29:30 The Taser Myth: Why It Fails 50% of the Time 31:54 The Problem with Pepper Spray & Batons 34:19 The Reality of Close Combat & Why Pain Compliance Fails 36:43 The Weapon Dilemma: When to Engage vs. Disengage 39:09 The Canine Advantage: Why Police Dogs Are So Effective 41:37 What Most People Get Wrong About Guard Dogs 43:49 The Difference Between Working Dogs & Pets 46:09 Why Retired Working Dogs Struggle Without a Purpose 48:29 Training That Saves Lives: The Impact of Adam’s Work 50:54 The Fastest Way to Build Combat Proficiency 53:20 The Importance of Pressure Testing in Law Enforcement Training 55:48 How One Police Department Cut Use-of-Force Incidents by 80% 58:11 The Data Behind Better Police Training & Fewer Shootings 01:00:37 The Power of Mission-Driven Leadership in Business 01:03:03 Key Combat Principles That Apply to Business & Life 01:07:52 Adam’s Top Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 01:10:00 Where to Connect with Adam Haidary 01:12:20 Key Takeaways 01:14:44 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER CONNECT WITH ADAM HAIDARY Websites: efcombatives.com & policeposts.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adam.haidary YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EFCombatives Adam’s Creds… Founder, Police Posts Co-founder, Effective Fitness 7 years of Law Enforcement Experience (2013-2020) Former Training Supervisor- Rank: Sgt. South Carolina Criminal Justice Academy: BID Certified Instructor Purple Belt K9 Training Tac Med Program
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  • Ep.146 I Deciding to Walk the World: Overcoming Your Temptation to Quit with Tom Turcich // REPLAY
    Jan 22 2025
    What all goes into a 7-year, 28,000-mile walk around the world? Why would someone take on such a huge adventure in the first place? What about when you get lost, lonely, or lack the drive to keep going? Tom Turcich, the 10th person to walk around the world, shares his experience of being immersed in unknown places, forced into adventure, and coming to better understand the world and himself. KEY TOPICS How to decide what to do when you want to do it all. What to do when your resiliency tank runs low. Why we don’t need to be so fearful of everyone and everything. When to release control of external factors that are impacting your plans. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Mission of Decidedly 00:52 World Travels 07:35 Finding Funding for a World Walk 14:32 Dangerous Encounters 26:00 Tourist Tax and Scams 28:22 How to Catch Misinformation 29:17 Emotional Highs and Lows 30:14 Physical Pain and Mental Struggles 31:09 The Temptation to Quit 35:59 Finding the Daily Routine 37:53 Returning to Normal Life 39:18 Fulfilling Your Purpose 41:43 The Longest Journeys 43:35 Viewpoint on Failure 44:33 Adaptability and Resilience 46:01 The “End Destination” 48:55 Surrendering Control 50:19 Aligning Decisions with Values 51:15 Measuring Decisions Against Your Goals 53:31 Transformational Experiences for Business Owners 52:18 Key Takeaways 53:54 Producer Closing CONNECT WITH US ⁠⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠⁠ Subscribe to the show on ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ Join us on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ Shawn’s ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER: ⁠⁠https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR⁠⁠ CONNECT WITH TOM TURCICH Pre-Order Tom’s Book: ⁠The World Walk: Seven Years in Search of Meaning: Turcich, Tom: 9781510779013: Amazon.com: Books⁠ Website: ⁠Tom Turcich - Inspirational Keynote Speaker: Accomplish Anything Through Audacious Goals and Unwavering Resilience⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorldWalk⁠ Instagram: @theworldwalk Facebook: ⁠The World Walk | Facebook⁠ After the death of his friend Ann Marie, Tom's dream of walking around the world was born. Her passing woke him to his own mortality and forced him to reconsider what he wanted out of the brief time we have here. To get the most out of life, he decided to walk. By traveling slowly, he knew he would be immersed in unknown places, forced into adventure, and come to better understand the world. On April 2, 2015, after getting a degree and paying off his loans, he stepped out his front door. Seven years, six continents, and twenty-eight thousand miles later, he has become the tenth person to walk around the world, and his dog, Savannah, became the first dog to do so.
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  • Ep.131 I Deciding to Elevate Your Health: 6 Ancestral Health Hacks w/ Hilda Labrada Gore // REPLAY
    Jan 15 2025
    What if the real health hacks aren’t from the latest influencer or supplement, but from our ancestors? Could the answers lie in the simple habits we’ve forgotten? In this replay of Ep.131, Hilda Labrada Gore, host of The Wise Traditions Podcast, shares six ancestral health practices that go beyond the noise of modern wellness trends. From sunlight to sleep to cold exposure, Hilda shares simple, effective tips that tap into ancient wisdom—no gimmicks or fads involved. KEY TOPICS The truth about cholesterol: Are we following outdated science? Why skipping the morning sun could sabotage your hormones and vitality. Cold exposure: The ultimate shortcut to building mental and physical resilience. Why avoiding discomfort is making you weaker—and how to reverse it. Gut check: Who’s really influencing your choices—God or the loudest voice? CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 02:32 Meet Holistic Hilda 03:36 The Truth About Ancestral Diets and Modern Trends 05:49 Why Digestion Starts with Gratitude and Prayer 10:23 Community, Celebration, and Nourishment 12:47 Sacred Connection to Our Food 17:35 A Heart Defect, Open-Heart Surgery, and a Life Mission 22:16 Health Secret #1: Sun 34:10 Health Secret #2: Sleep 36:36 Health Secret #3: Shivers 46:11 Health Secret #4: Sustenance 53:17 Health Secret #5: Strength 55:44 Health Secret #6: Spirit 56:37 Hilda Labrada Gore’s Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 59:05 Key Takeaways 1:00:05 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR⁠ CONNECT WITH HILDA LABRADA GORE  Hilda’s Website: www.holistichilda.com Wise Traditions Podcast: https://www.westonaprice.org/wise-traditions-podcast/#gsc.tab=0 Weston A. Price Foundation Website: www.westonapricefoundation.com Hilda’s Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/HolisticHilda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holistichilda YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/HolisticHilda Hilda Labrada Gore (a/k/a Holistic Hilda) is a certified health coach who is known as a kind of Dora the Explorer 2.0. She has traveled extensively as an experiential anthropologist through Mongolia, Peru, Ethiopia, Ecuador, Kenya, Australia, and more — with the objective of exploring traditional practices to improve the energy and vitality of humanity. Hilda is the host and producer of the Wise Traditions podcast on behalf of the Weston A. Price Foundation.  She shares the best of experts, experiences, and epic adventures on her podcast, her Holistic Hilda YouTube channel, and in-person at conferences and retreats. Hilda has energy to spare because she keeps her feet on the ground and her face to the sun.
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  • Ep.173 I Deciding to Read the Room: What an FBI Agent Sees That You Don’t with Joe Navarro
    Jan 8 2025
    Think body language is just about crossed arms and forced smiles? Think again. After years spent catching spies and decoding body language, Joe Navarro reveals how the smallest cues can uncover the biggest truths. From subtle tells that exposed Soviet operatives to pinpointing the hidden leader in any room, Joe offers a masterclass in seeing what others miss. If you’ve ever underestimated the power of nonverbal cues—or the cost of ignoring them—this episode will make you rethink everything you see, from business meetings to casual conversations. KEY TOPICS How subtle cues can reveal what people won’t say out loud.How the physical setup of a space, like a waiting room, can create or diminish psychological comfort.Why humans instinctively cover their eyes when they’re stressed.How setting the pace—consciously or unconsciously—defines who leads a room. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 00:49 First Impressions 03:10 Recruited by the FBI at 22 07:48 Catching Spies with Cultural Cues 10:00 FBI Reality vs. TV Dramas 12:18 How Body Language Reveals the Truth 17:05 The Bouquet That Exposed a Spy 21:52 Travel’s Secret to Sharpening Leadership 26:29 Human Instincts That Signal Stress 31:05 Bill Gates’ Handshake Fail 35:51 Why AI Can’t Read Human Behavior 40:35 The Truth About Lie Detectors 47:38 Creating Comfort to Influence Decisions 52:10 Winning Negotiations with Ease 56:57 Joe Navarro’s Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 58:03 Key Takeaways 59:50 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR⁠ CONNECT WITH JOE NAVARRO Website: www.jnforensics.com Books: https://www.jnforensics.com/books YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Personally approached at the tender age of 23 to join the FBI, Joe Navarro became one of the youngest agents ever to join the renowned investigative agency. He went on to spend the next 25 years at the FBI, working both as an agent and supervisor in the areas of counterintelligence and counterterrorism. Through his work he was able to study, refine and apply the science of nonverbal communications. His acumen in this field and his success as a spy-catcher, led Joe to train FBI agents and the intelligence community. Retiring from the FBI in 2003 and meeting overwhelming demand for his notable insights into human behavior, Joe has dedicated himself to speaking and consulting with major corporations worldwide. Since retiring, he has authored 14 books in 29 languages dealing with human behavior and body language.  He is the author of the International Bestseller “Be Exceptional” and His book “What Every BODY is Saying,” remains after a decade, the #1 selling body-language book in the world. 
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  • Ep.172 | Deciding to Ditch the Resolution Trap: A Smarter Way to Set Goals This Year
    Jan 1 2025
    Why do New Year’s resolutions fail so often? Maybe it’s because they’re designed to. In this episode, Sanger and Shawn tear into the traditional approach to resolutions and explain why they’re usually a waste of time. Instead, they break down a no-nonsense way to set goals that actually reflect what matters most. If you’re tired of empty promises and quick fixes, this conversation is a fresh take on starting the year with real purpose. KEY TOPICS Why traditional New Year’s resolutions are a setup for failure.The surprising dopamine trap of sharing your goals prematurely.The danger of chasing goals based on someone else’s values.How to fight off discouragement and stay on track with your goals. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 00:49 Why Resolutions Fail 03:10 The Dopamine Trap of Sharing Goals 07:57 Misaligned Goals and Hidden Risks 12:42 From Dreams to Action 17:12 The Four-Blocker Strategy 22:00 Fixing the SMART Goal Misstep 29:11 Staying Disciplined Amid Setbacks 35:58 Testing Goals Against Your Values 40:41 Avoiding Opportunity Overload 47:37 Closing: Setting Goals That Matter 50:04 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER:⁠ https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR⁠
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  • Ep.171 I Deciding to Strengthen Your Family Business: Is it About Titles, or Talents? with David Kolbe
    Dec 18 2024
    What happens when family dynamics intersect with business strategy? David Kolbe, CEO of Kolbe Corp, shares the highs and hurdles of taking the reins in a family business. With roots in his grandfather’s Wonderlic Test and his mother’s Kolbe Index, David explains how understanding instincts and strengths has shaped his leadership, his family relationships, and the way he keeps fresh ideas flowing. KEY TOPICS What happens when your boss is also your parent (or you’re the parent). The real impact of job titles and why your team might care more than you think. Knowing when to pass the torch as a business founder. How to balance creative freedom with practical strategy in a family business. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 05:29 David Kolbe on Growing Up in a Family Business 07:51 Wonderlic Test: Its NFL Legacy and Origins 10:16 From Law to Leadership: Why David Joined Kolbe Corp 12:30 Working with Family: Lessons from the Trenches 14:54 Navigating Family Dynamics in Business Decisions 17:16 When Family Disagreements Rattle the Workplace 19:40 How Kolbe Corp Helps Leaders Leverage Strengths 22:04 When Quick Start Leaders Meet High Follow-Through Teams 24:26 Strategic Vision vs. Tactical Execution in Leadership 26:50 Why Most Businesses Aren’t Built for Innovation 29:08 The Key to Selling a Business Worth Buying 31:32 Structuring Teams for Growth Without Chaos 33:52 Letting Go: How Founders Transition Leadership 36:17 When the Visionary Isn’t the Business Owner 38:38 Avoiding Cultural Stagnation in Family Businesses 40:53 Building Innovation Departments That Last 43:16 When Tradition Holds a Business Back 45:37 Empowering Quick Start Talent Without Losing Control 47:59 Why Accurate Job Titles Matter for Teams 50:14 The Risk of Over-Titling Employees 52:39 Creating a Fun and Caring Workplace Culture 55:00 What “Mandatory Fun” Teaches About Leadership 57:17 David Kolbe’s Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 59:10 Key Takeaways 1:01:00 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER CONNECT WITH DAVID KOLBE Website: https://www.kolbe.com/ Book “Do More More Naturally: Empowering Effortless Success and the Freedom to Be Yourself”: https://a.co/d/h8he2iG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kolbecorp TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@poweredbyinstinct Kolbe LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/kolbe-corp/ David’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-kolbe-b352a99/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KolbeCorp Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KolbeCorp X: https://x.com/Kolbe_Corp As CEO of Kolbe Corp, David Kolbe is committed to helping people use their natural instincts to thrive. The Kolbe A™ Index helps people understand their instinctive strengths and how to use them to tackle challenges. David’s all about making our instincts work for us, not against us—turning what comes naturally into real-world results that drive success at home and in business.
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  • Ep.170 I Deciding to Make Tough Calls: Leading Well When Stakes are High with Matthew Confer
    Dec 11 2024
    Are your business decisions driven by instinct, or by strategy? How often do you actually stop to tell the difference? Matthew Confer, the mind behind decision-making simulations used by leading companies, reveals why your gut might betray you, what most leaders get wrong under pressure, and how to sharpen your instincts for critical decisions. KEY TOPICS The bold move leaders can make to avoid catastrophic mistakes before they happen.Why seeking consensus isn’t the best leadership strategy—and what to do instead.The real reason confident leaders fail under pressure.How keeping receipts on decisions can save your team from chaos. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 00:49 Changing Wedding Language: Patriarchy or Progress? 03:06 Can Simulations Make You a Better Leader? 05:32 The Dangerous Default in Team Decisions 06:50 Why Consensus Isn’t Always King 08:01 How Leaders Sabotage Innovation Without Realizing It 10:21 What Really Drives Your Team? 12:40 Adapting Management Styles: The Secret to Better Teams 15:05 Leadership Practice Without the Real-World Risk 17:26 Breaking Through Superficial Motivations 19:30 The Challenge of Scaling a Small Company Culture 21:54 Why Diverse Motivations Strengthen Teams 24:14 Spotting Failure Before It Happens 26:36 The Viral Social Media Campaign Dilemma 29:00 The Cobra Problem: When Solutions Make Things Worse 31:16 The $5 Challenge That Changed Business Strategy 33:33 The Power of Writing Down Decisions 35:53 How Poor Note-Taking Derails Teams 38:32 How Stress Wrecks Decision-Making—And How to Stop It 40:51 Why Your Most Disagreeable Employee Makes the Hard Calls 43:07 Why Failure Is the Best Leadership Teacher 45:32 Building Leadership Confidence in Safe Environments 47:51 When Bravado Backfires in Decision-Making 50:08 Are You Missing Critical Team Feedback? 52:32 What MBA Simulations Reveal About Leadership Gaps 54:51 The Secret Ingredient to Engaging Training Programs 56:53 Matthew Confer’s Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 58:20 Key Takeaways 59:45 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠: @decidedlypodcast Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @shawn_d_smith Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠: @sangersmith Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER CONNECT WITH MATT CONFER Website: https://www.abilitie.com/matthew-confer/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewconfer/ TEDx Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/matthew_confer_before_you_decide_3_steps_to_better_decision_making?subtitle=en Learn To Lead Podcast: https://www.abilitie.com/learn-to-lead-podcast/ Matt Confer is the VP of Strategy at Abilitie, a Leadership Development company based in Austin, Texas that provides immersive business simulations to a global client base that includes over 50 members of the Fortune 500. Abilitie’s leadership programs have been delivered to over 100,000 professionals in more than 30 countries around the world. Matthew has spoken on the topic of decision making at the TEDx Conference with a talk entitled "Before You Decide" that has been viewed over 500,000 times on the TED website. Matthew also hosts the Learn to Lead Podcast where he speaks with authors, professors, creatives, and business leaders about their leadership journey and how they are working to develop the leaders of tomorrow.
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  • Ep.169 I Deciding to Fight for the Forgotten: Trading the Cage for a Cause with Justin Wren
    Dec 4 2024
    What drives someone to leave behind a career in the UFC to serve the world's most forgotten people? In this episode, we sit down with Justin Wren, a former professional MMA fighter who traded his career in the cage for a mission with real impact. Justin shares his journey from a bullied child to UFC fighter, and eventually to his work with the Pygmy people of Africa through Fight for the Forgotten. We talk about the challenges he's faced—both in and out of the ring—and the decisions that led him to dedicate his life to defending the weak, loving the unloved, and empowering the voiceless around the world. KEY TOPICS How childhood bullying pushed Justin Wren to become a professional UFC fighter.The devastating toll addiction once took on Justin’s life.A vivid vision of the rainforest that gave Justin a new sense of purpose in life. How Fight for the Forgotten helps Pygmy communities protect their land, access clean water, and foster a sustainable livelihood. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Defeating Bad Decision-Making in Life and Business 00:50 The 3 Fighters Who Earned Sanger’s Fandom 03:06 From Bully to Fighter: Justin Wren 04:28 The Vision Behind Fight for the Forgotten 06:50 Building Waves of Change 09:17 Martial Arts as a Shield Against Bullying 13:58 The Painful Path to Finding Purpose 16:23 Battling Addiction in the Cage and Beyond 18:51 Discovering Purpose Through Service 23:33 Waking Up After the Overdose 28:04 The Bonus Rounds of Life 35:13 Why Purpose Replaces Addiction 40:02 The Vision That Led to Africa 44:57 Meeting the Pygmies 51:49 Listening to Create Lasting Impact 56:33 The Risks and Rewards of Serving in Congo 01:03:41 Building Holistic Communities 1:08:23 Justin Wren’s Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners 01:11:05 Key Takeaways 01:12:59 Message from the Producer CONNECT WITH US ⁠www.decidedlypodcast.com⁠ Watch this episode on YouTube Subscribe on ⁠YouTube Join us on ⁠Instagram⁠ Join us on ⁠Facebook⁠ Shawn’s ⁠Instagram⁠ Sanger’s ⁠Instagram⁠ Thank you to Shelby Peterson of Transcend Media for editing and post-production of the Decidedly podcast. SANGER’S BOOK: ⁠A Life Rich with Significance: Transforming Your Wealth to Meaningful Impact⁠ SHAWN’S BOOK: ⁠Plateau Jumping: What to Change When Change Is What You Want⁠ MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION? At ⁠Decidedly Wealth Management⁠, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy. LEARN MORE: ⁠www.decidedlywealth.com⁠ SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER CONNECT WITH JUSTIN WREN Fight for the Forgotten: https://www.fightfortheforgotten.org/ Justin’s Official Website: justinwrenspeaks.com Book: https://www.justinwrenspeaks.com/book Instagram: @thebigpygmy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-wren-892043255/ Mercilessly bullied as a child, Justin transformed himself into a champion MMA fighter. Despite his success, he questioned the significance of his athletic accomplishments. Each victory brought the thought, “Is this it?” Battling injuries, he slid into painkiller addiction, battled depression, and attempted suicide. He was a champion on the outside but broken within. It wasn’t until a series of circumstances led him to live among the Pygmy people—some of the most marginalized on earth—that he found true purpose: helping others. “My career was to fight against people, but my calling was to fight for people." Now, he helps others generate impact through their work and community. ‘The Big Pygmy’ returned to the ring with purpose, founding Fight for the Forgotten (FFTF). FFTF has provided >52,000 indigenous people with access to clean drinking water, replanted thousands of trees, acquired >3,000 acres of land in the name of the tribe and helped 1,800 people out of slavery and into freedom. Current projects include housing, education, healthcare and sustainable livelihoods through community empowerment.
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    1 hr and 14 mins