• Purpose Points: Identifying Life's Signposts on Your Journey
    Sep 3 2024
    In this episode of "Flourish or Fold," I am very excited to share my profound discussion with bestselling author and keynote speaker Davin Salvagno on themes that are near and dear to me, resilience and life purpose. This episode delves deep into the challenges people face and how these challenges can serve as invitations to discover and embrace their purpose. We discuss how life's challenges can serve as invitations to discover and embrace one's purpose. Davin shares personal experiences, including his recent move to Charlotte, North Carolina, highlighting that purpose is a continuous journey shaped by various moments. Davin emphasizes that resilience involves reframing challenges as growth opportunities. Below, we break down the key insights and actionable advice shared during this enlightening discussion.Understanding Purpose as a Continuous JourneyWe began by challenging the common notion that discovering one's purpose is a singular, life-defining moment. We reference a quote from Mark Twain, which states that the two most important days in a person's life are the day they are born and the day they discover their purpose. However, we both agree that this idea can be misleading.Key Takeaways:Purpose is Multifaceted: Purpose often manifests in multiple ways throughout our lives. It is not a single event but a series of moments and experiences that shape our understanding of who we are and what we are meant to do.Invitations and Signposts: Davin introduces the concept of "invitations" or "signposts" that guide individuals toward their purpose. These can be significant life events, challenges, or even subtle nudges that steer us in a particular direction.Actionable Advice:Reflect on Past Experiences: Take time to reflect on significant moments in your life. Identify patterns or recurring themes that may point toward your purpose.Stay Open to New Opportunities: Be open to new experiences and challenges, as they can serve as invitations to explore different aspects of your purpose.Reframing ChallengesDavin suggests a shift in mindset: challenges often happen for us, not to us. While some tragedies in life are inexplicable, most challenges can be reframed as opportunities for growth and learning.Key Takeaways:Growth Through Adversity: Challenges can serve as significant catalysts for uncovering our purpose. They often evoke deep emotions and lead us to want to help others facing similar struggles.No Pain is Wasted: Taryn resonates with this perspective, noting that every experience contributes to personal growth and character development.Actionable Advice:Reframe Your Challenges: When faced with a challenge, ask yourself what you can learn from the experience and how it can contribute to your growth.Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who can help you navigate difficult times and provide perspective.Building ResilienceResilience is not just about enduring hardships but also about transforming those experiences into opportunities for growth and connection with others.Key Takeaways:Resilience as a Skill: Resilience can be cultivated through understanding that every experience contributes to our growth and understanding of who we are meant to be.Purpose Points: Davin introduces the concept of "purpose points," pivotal moments in life that shape one's character and understanding of purpose.Actionable Advice:Develop a Resilience Toolkit: Equip yourself with tools and strategies to build resilience, such as mindfulness practices, journaling, and seeking mentorship.Embrace the Journey: Understand that discovering your purpose is a continuous process. Embrace each moment and experience as part of your journey.Personal Challenges and SacrificesDavin shares his personal experience of moving to Charlotte, North Carolina, which he describes as one of the most challenging experiences of his life. This transition required significant sacrifices and brought about emotional struggles for his family.Key Takeaways:Prioritizing What Matters: Davin emphasizes the importance of being present for his family during this challenging time, allowing space for their emotions and struggles.Trust Over Clarity: He shares a quote from Mother Teresa, stating that she never had clarity, only trust, which resonates deeply with him during this season of uncertainty.Actionable Advice:Be Present: During times of transition, prioritize what is most important in each moment. Be present for yourself and your loved ones.Trust the Process: Even when the future is unclear, trust that your journey will reveal its purpose in time.Identifying and Combating Negative ThoughtsDavin discusses the concept of "thieves of purpose," which are thoughts that can rob individuals of their purpose and potential, such as comparison, fear, doubt, and the pursuit of success.Key Takeaways:Awareness of Negative Thoughts: Recognize and combat negative thoughts that undermine your sense of purpose.Success vs. Significance: ...
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  • Cracking the Code of Going Viral: How Sharing “Silly Stories” Built a Brand with Billions of Views
    Jun 18 2024
    I’m beyond excited to share this week’s Flourish or Fold episode with you! I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Adley Kinsman, CEO and founder of Viralish and prominent entertainer who garners over a billion social media views every month. The conversation delved deep into Adley's journey as an entrepreneur, her experiences in the entertainment industry, and the resilience that has driven her success. She emphasizes the importance of viewing obstacles as testimonies rather than setbacks and highlights the significance of serving others. Adley also delves into the concept of going viral, explaining her systematic approach to creating viral content. The conversation underscores the transformative power of resilience and the impact of shifting from a victim mentality to one of empowerment and purpose. Adley’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, passion, the importance of serving others and the power of following your passion.Understanding Virality - What Does It Mean to Go Viral?: Adley emphasizes that the concept of "going viral" is subjective and varies from person to person. For some, a post with 40,000 views might be considered viral, while for others, the benchmark might be in the millions. At Viralish, Adley and her team consider anything over a million views as potentially viral, with a more stringent standard of 15 million views and above for true virality.Mastering Storytelling: At the core of Viralish's success is their mastery of storytelling. Whether it's prank videos, staged events, or branded content, the goal is to create compelling narratives that resonate with the audience and achieve the desired outcome.From Passion to Profession - Adley's Journey - The Early Days: Adley's journey began with a passion for creating videos and storytelling. Despite not making any money initially, she continued to produce content because she loved it. This passion for storytelling was rooted in her background in the music industry, where she learned the importance of crafting compelling narratives.The Turning Point: The pivotal moment for Adley came in 2019-2020 when Facebook introduced monetization for content creators. Recognizing the potential, Adley focused on creating videos for Facebook, where the largest audience was. By studying the platform's algorithm and continuously improving her content, she was able to capitalize on this opportunity and turn her passion into a profitable business.Resilience in the Face of Adversity - Overcoming Challenges: Adley shares her personal story of resilience, highlighting the massive obstacles she faced, including bankruptcy, a toxic relationship, and a close family member’s struggle with alcoholism. Despite these challenges, she chose to view her experiences as a testimony rather than adopting a victim mindset.The Power of Service: One of the key lessons Adley learned was the importance of serving and helping others. She found that focusing on others was the quickest way to pull herself out of difficult situations and regain a sense of purpose and direction.The Law of Resonance: Adley believes in the law of resonance, which emphasizes becoming the person ready to handle the things one desires, rather than just willing them into existence. This mindset shift from "where do I want to be?" to "who do I want to be?" has been instrumental in her journey.Building Viralish - From Hobby to Business: Viralish was born out of Adley's passion for creating content and her deep understanding of social media algorithms. By packaging her knowledge and experiences into accessible coaching programs, she has been able to help individuals and brands achieve viral success.Coaching Programs: Adley encourages individuals to take advantage of the group coaching program available at goviralish.com. For brands with annual revenue of 5 to 10 million, she invites them to reach out to creators at com for potential collaboration.Transforming Adversity into Empowerment - Shifting Perspectives: Dr. Taryn Marie highlights the importance of shifting from a victim mentality to recognizing the lessons learned from adversity. This shift in perspective from "why is this happening to me?" to "why is this happening for me?" can have a transformative impact on one's life.Adley’s energy and insights are truly uplifting. She embodies the shift from asking "why is this happening to me?" to "why is this happening for me?" It’s a powerful perspective that can transform adversity into empowerment. Her insights on virality, storytelling, and overcoming adversity provide valuable lessons for anyone looking to succeed in the digital age. By focusing on who you want to be and continuously improving your craft, you can turn your passion into a profitable and fulfilling career.Connect with Adley Kinsman: Adley invites you to connect with her on social media and through her website to explore the valuable resources available at Viralish: https://...
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  • Women, Worthiness, and Wellness: The Truth about Hormone Health, Weight Loss, and Fitness
    Jun 11 2024
    I've had the privilege of speaking with some of the most inspiring individuals who have turned their adversities into strengths. In this episode of Flourish or Fold, I had the honor of sitting down with none other than renowned fitness trainer and entrepreneur, Autumn Calabrese - a name synonymous with fitness, determination, and success. My dialogue with Autumn was more than just an interview; it was a masterclass in resilience and holistic health. During this episode, Autumn shares her journey from a difficult childhood to success in the fitness industry, emphasizing the role of personal struggles in building resilience. She discusses her transition from dance to fitness, her approach to overcoming emotional trauma, and the importance of supportive leadership. Autumn also touches on perfectionism, the significance of celebrating small wins, and prioritizing self-care. Lastly, she introduces her hormone health program and stresses the importance of gut health for overall well-being. Autumn’s expertise in fitness and nutrition, coupled with her unwavering commitment to promoting well-being, is truly inspiring. I hope that by sharing her story, you too will feel empowered to make the small changes that lead to a healthier, more resilient you.The Roots of Resilience: Autumn's story is a testament to the power of resilience. Growing up with divorced parents, she faced challenges that shaped her sense of self and ignited a fire within her to prove her worth. Despite the lack of expectations from those around her, Autumn channeled her experiences into an unyielding drive for success. Her journey is a reminder that our beginnings do not dictate our destinations.Dancing Through Adversity: Initially pursuing a career in dance, Autumn encountered numerous obstacles in the dance industry. The transition from aspiring dancer to celebrated fitness trainer was not a smooth one. It required her to confront emotional trauma and embrace a new path. Autumn's courage to face her unresolved issues head-on while creating a dance fitness program is a powerful example of how confronting our past can pave the way for a brighter future.Leadership and Communication - Pillars of Support: In our discussion, Autumn highlighted the crucial role of supportive leadership during tough times. She shared how effective communication and personal relationships were instrumental in her healing process. As a fitness trainer and entrepreneur, she now embodies these qualities, fostering a supportive environment for her clients and team.The Perils of Perfectionism: Autumn candidly spoke about the pressures of perfectionism and the importance of acknowledging and celebrating small victories. Her approach to excellence is not about being flawless but about recognizing the effort and progress made along the way. This mindset is essential for anyone looking to maintain motivation and a positive outlook.A Holistic Approach to Health and Well-being: Autumn's upcoming hormone health program is a reflection of her holistic view of health. She emphasizes the significance of lifestyle choices on our well-being, particularly for women. The interconnectedness of gut health, energy levels, and hormone balance is a focal point of her teachings, underscoring the importance of taking control of our health.The Healing Power of the Human Body: During our conversation, Autumn shared her insights on the body's remarkable ability to heal itself, especially with a program designed to improve gut health. She explained the pivotal role gut health plays in hormonal balance and nutrient absorption, which are key components of overall well-being.Thank you to Autumn for sharing her personal journey. As she preps to launch her hormone health program, a crucial message stands out: the interconnectedness of our lifestyle choices with our overall well-being. From gut health to energy levels, every choice counts. It’s not just about what we put into our bodies but also how we nurture ourselves from the inside out. Start small, think big – our bodies are capable of incredible transformation. Remember, it's not about where you start but where you're going. Embrace your struggles, celebrate your victories, and never stop striving for a better you. Join us on this journey of resilience and transformation, and let's flourish together.Connect with Autumn Calabrese: Autumn invites all listeners to connect with her through social media, her website, and her subscription-based membership. She offers a wealth of programs and resources designed to foster a positive mindset and a healthy lifestyle. To learn more about her work visit:https://www.autumncalabrese.com/homehttps://www.instagram.com/autumncalabresehttps://www.facebook.com/autumncalabresefitnesshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPikVjAp9tuI2jRyKMOeeSg Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:Introduction to Autumn Calabrese (00:00:56): Dr. Taryn Marie introduces Autumn Calabrese and her ...
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  • Peak Confidence at Nine?: Unpacking the Shocking Reality for Women in the Workplace ud
    Jun 4 2024
    On this episode of "Flourish or Fold," I am thrilled to welcome writer, social entrepreneur, consultant, beacon of leadership and testament to the power of women in the workforce, Colleen Bordeaux. As a management consultant at Deloitte and the founder of Growth Inc, a media and leadership development company dedicated to women, Colleen embodies the multifaceted nature of today's female leaders. Our conversation delved into the heart of women's experiences in the corporate world, examining the challenges we face and the triumphs we can achieve. We explored the startling reality that women often reach their peak confidence at the tender age of nine and that within two years of starting their careers, many lose their ambition to ascend to leadership roles. We also touch on female friendships, workplace dynamics, and redefining success. The episode emphasizes the need for self-love, resilience, and defining one's own path to leadership and fulfillment.The Societal Conditioning Conundrum: Why does this happen? Colleen and I discussed the pervasive impact of societal conditioning on women's confidence. We're taught to seek external validation, to measure our worth by others' yardsticks. This quest for approval can erode our self-worth and diminish our innate power. The "power dead even rule" is one such cultural norm that can stifle a woman's assertiveness. It's the unspoken expectation that we must not outshine our peers, that we should maintain an equilibrium that often comes at the cost of our own growth.The Path to Self-Directed Leadership: Colleen's journey is a powerful narrative of navigating dual career paths, balancing her creative passions with the rigors of a corporate environment. She shared the pressures of conforming to a narrow definition of success and the importance of reconciling one's values with one’s professional life. The key, as Colleen emphasized, is to clarify your values and develop a robust sense of self-trust. It's about identifying whose opinions truly matter and align with your values, empowering you to carve out a career path that resonates with your authentic self.The Significance of Supportive Relationships: We also touched on the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals who foster personal growth. Colleen highlighted the dynamic nature of relationships, acknowledging the critical role her partner played in her journey while also recognizing the need to set boundaries with others, like parents, whose values may not align with her own. She urged listeners to be discerning about the people they allow to influence their thinking and to part ways with those who don't contribute positively to their journey, doing so with love and self-respect.Understanding the Dynamics of Female Friendships: Our conversation took a personal turn as I shared my experiences of feeling excluded from social circles. Colleen provided valuable insights into the dynamics of female relationships, reminding us that the behavior of others often reflects their insecurities and struggles with self-love. Building self-love and resilience is crucial, as the actions of others are not a measure of our worth.Redefining Likability and Success in the Workplace: In the workplace, women often grapple with the need for likability versus respect. Colleen offered practical advice on shifting the focus from being liked to being respected, building influential relationships, and concentrating on the impact and value we bring to our professional roles. She also encouraged listeners to define success on their own terms, to become "expanders" who embrace growth and step into their potential.Join the Growth Inc Community: As we wrapped up the episode, I couldn't help but express my admiration for Colleen's work. I invite you all to connect with Growth Inc through their Instagram platform, where you can engage with a community that shares your values and find messages that resonate with your journey.Thank you to Colleen for sharing her personal journey and the importance of self-trust, values, and surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. Our conversation underscored the magnitude of self-trust, resilience, and influential relationships for women in the workforce. It's a call to action for all of us to embrace our worth and agency, to lead from a place of our own values and intuition.Connect with Colleen Bordeaux: Colleen invites you to connect with her through her website and on social media. To learn more about her work visit:https://www.colleenbordeaux.com/https://www.instagram.com/colleenbordeauxhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/colleen-bordeaux/https://www.growth-inc.org/ Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:Introduction of Colleen Bordeaux (00:01:21): Introduction of Colleen Bordeaux, her professional background, and the founding of Growth Inc, a woman's media and leadership development company.Colleen's Career Trajectories (00:03:41): Colleen's experience balancing...
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  • The Most Promising Trauma Breakthroughs: Challenging the Traditional Treatments
    May 28 2024
    On this episode of "Flourish or Fold" I'm thrilled to share with you a conversation that could very well change the way we perceive and treat trauma. I had the honor of sitting down with Dr. Eugene Lipov, a beacon of hope for those affected by trauma and a mastermind in innovative treatment methods. As the Chief Medical Officer at Stella and an international expert on trauma treatment, he has devoted his life and work to unraveling the complexities of trauma and exploring groundbreaking treatment options.The Impact of Trauma and the Path to Recovery: Trauma is an insidious beast that can leave deep scars on both the mind and body. Dr. Lipov, with his extensive experience in trauma treatment, shared invaluable insights into how trauma affects individuals and the potential for reversing PTSD symptoms. One of the most enlightening aspects of our discussion was the stellate ganglion block procedure, a treatment that offers a beacon of hope for those suffering from PTSD.Understanding Trauma: Genetics and Environment: Dr. Lipov emphasized the importance of recognizing the genetic and environmental factors contributing to trauma. As we delved into this topic, it became clear that to develop more effective therapeutic options, we must first understand these underlying causes. His role at Stella is pivotal in advancing research efforts focused on trauma treatment, and his dedication to this cause is nothing short of inspiring.Stellate Ganglion Block: A Ray of Hope: The stellate ganglion block procedure is a game-changer in rapidly treating PTSD symptoms. Dr. Lipov walked us through the assessment process, the procedure itself, and the critical aftercare recommendations, which include psychotherapy, yoga, meditation, and dietary considerations. The duration of the procedure and the potential long-term effects vary based on individual factors, but the promise it holds for improving overall health and longevity is remarkable.Addressing the Root Causes for Long-Term Healing: Our conversation also highlighted the pervasive impact of trauma on individuals and the collective human community. Dr. Lipov stressed the challenges individuals face in seeking relief from their suffering and the necessity of addressing the root causes of trauma-related illnesses for long-term healing and recovery.A Mission to Change Perceptions: From PTSD to PTSI: One of the most profound moments in our discussion was Dr. Lipov's mission to change the name of PTSD to post-traumatic stress injury (PTSI). This change aims to reduce stigma and improve acceptance of the condition. He shared the process of submitting a request to the American Psychiatric Association (APA) and the importance of recognizing the biological changes in the brain associated with trauma.The Mind-Body Connection and Advocacy: Dr. Lipov's insights into the mind-body connection, including the psychological effects of an adrenal tumor, underscored the importance of this relationship in trauma treatment. He encouraged listeners to participate in a letter-writing campaign to support the name change initiative, highlighting the significance of letters and social awareness in advocating for this cause.Personal Experiences and the Inheritance of Trauma: Dr. Lipov opened up about his personal experiences with trauma, including a near-fatal snorkeling accident and the loss of his mother to suicide. These experiences have fueled his resilience and determination to assist others on their healing journey. He also touched on epigenetics and the inheritance of trauma, shedding light on the interplay between genetic predisposition and environmental factors.Connecting with Dr. Lipov and Supporting PTSD Awareness: For those looking to connect with Dr. Lipov and access trauma treatment at Stella, he provided information on how to engage with his work, including his book "The Invisible Machine" and an upcoming fundraiser for PTSD awareness. He also mentioned a song release related to PTSD, inviting listeners to explore various channels to learn more and support the campaign to eliminate stigma associated with trauma.My Personal Reflections on Trauma and Advocacy: As a survivor of PTSD myself, I understand the importance of reducing the stigma associated with trauma. It's crucial to recognize the physiological response to trauma as an injury rather than a disorder. I encourage everyone to support themselves and others in seeking treatment and to advocate for the name change to post-traumatic stress injury.In closing, this episode was more than just a conversation; it was a journey through the heart of trauma and the innovative approaches to healing. I hope you find it as enlightening as I did, and I invite you to join us in this ongoing dialogue to foster resilience and recovery.Connect with Dr. Lipov: Dr. Lipov invites you to connect with him through his website and on social media. To learn more about Dr. Lipov’s work and to sign his petition to change the name of ...
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  • The Art of Winning: Harnessing Your Power and Navigating Challenge
    May 14 2024
    On this episode of "Flourish or Fold" I had the pleasure of sitting down with Chaz Wolfe, a remarkable serial entrepreneur and investor. We discussed the balance between individual effort and teamwork, the concept of mutual value exchange within a team, and Chaz's journey in entrepreneurship. Chaz reflects on his upbringing with a single mother, his later-in-life meeting with his biological father, and his approach to winning in life by setting targets and making progress. We also touch upon work-life balance, gender differences in defining success, and Chaz's community, Gathering of Kings. Chaz’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, teamwork, and the pursuit of success across various facets of life.Embracing the Entrepreneurial Spirit: Chaz Wolfe is the epitome of a self-made success story. His entrepreneurial spirit is self-taught, and his achievements are a result of his unwavering determination and the support of those around him. During our conversation, Chaz expressed his gratitude for the help he's received, underscoring the significance of both individual effort and the collective strength of a team. He shared an African proverb that resonates deeply with his philosophy: "If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together." This saying beautifully captures the intersectionality of personal drive and the invaluable support of a team. As an entrepreneur, Chaz has experienced moments that required him to push forward independently, but he also recognizes the importance of appreciating and supporting his team.The Dynamics of Team Investment: Our discussion delved into the nuances of team investment and commitment. Chaz acknowledged that while his vision naturally commands a high level of personal commitment, he also cherishes team members who grow to share and support that vision over time. He emphasized the importance of a mutual value exchange within a team, ensuring that even if team members part ways with the company, they leave having become the best versions of themselves. I shared my perspective on the level of investment I expect from my team members, highlighting the mutual development and care that should exist within a team dynamic. It's a reciprocal relationship where support and development go hand in hand. A Serial Entrepreneur's Tale: Chaz's background as a serial entrepreneur and investor is nothing short of inspiring. He detailed his ventures in retail franchising, real estate, construction, and podcasting. At the young age of 24, he made the bold decision to purchase his first Edible Arrangements franchise, facing challenges and achieving growth as he built multiple locations of the brand. When asked about his choice of Edible Arrangements for his first business venture, Chaz explained that his decision wasn't based on a personal affinity for the product but rather on the opportunity to leverage his sales experience and grow the business. His focus remained on developing effective marketing strategies, sales processes, and client relationships.Lessons in Resilience from a Single Mother: Chaz's upbringing played a crucial role in shaping his resilience and determination. Raised by a single mother, he witnessed her relentless work ethic and strength, which left a profound impact on him. He described her as an intense force, instilling in him the permission to persevere through challenges and the maturity to handle life's obstacles from an early age.Winning in Life's Different Arenas: Our conversation also touched on the concept of winning in various areas of life, including relationships, career, and personal development. Chaz shared his approach to being an incredible husband to his wife, Julie, by setting targets and focusing on progress rather than perfection. He encouraged listeners to define their own standards of winning based on clear direction and personal motivations. As a working parent, I shared the challenges I face in trying to excel in both my career and parenting. Chaz acknowledged the validity of my experience and the importance of individual experiences in shaping our beliefs about winning.Rethinking Work-Life Balance: Chaz introduced the idea of "work-life obsession," suggesting a deep devotion to different aspects of life on different days. He advocated for focusing on winning each day, recognizing that the definition of winning varies among individuals.A Community of Kings: Chaz also spoke about his community, Gathering of Kings, a mastermind group of entrepreneurs from diverse industries. He highlighted an upcoming family mastermind trip to Cancun, aimed at intentional family vacationing, marriage building, and networking for both adults and children. I couldn't help but admire the concept of a family mastermind and commend Chaz for his dedication to his family and entrepreneurial endeavors.Gratitude and Reflection: As our conversation came to a close, I expressed my gratitude to Chaz for sharing his story and insights. His ...
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  • What Would You Tell Your Younger Self?: A Conversation with A Leading Women’s Health Advocate
    May 7 2024
    In this episode of "Flourish or Fold: Stories of Resilience," I’m so very grateful to be joined by Tamsen Fadal, an accomplished journalist, passionate women's health advocate, and creative digital content creator. Our conversation was not only enlightening but also deeply inspiring, as we delved into the world of women's health, the power of resilience, and the transformative nature of storytelling.The M Factor: Shining a Light on Women's Health: Tamsen Fadal is at the forefront of a groundbreaking movement with her upcoming film, The M Factor, which aims to demystify menopause and advocate for women's health. During our discussion, Tamsen shared her enthusiasm for the project and the critical importance of bringing women's stories to the forefront. She believes that by breaking the silence around women's health care and advocacy, we can empower women to take control of their health and well-being.Challenging Misconceptions and Myths: The evolving conversation around women's health and menopause is gaining momentum, and Tamsen is a driving force behind this change. We tackled the common misconceptions and myths surrounding menopause, such as the stigma that it signifies old age or invisibility. Tamsen also shed light on the concerning lack of education among doctors regarding hormone therapy and stressed the need for proactive approaches to women's health care.A Holistic Approach to Health Care: Our dialogue touched on the necessity for a more holistic and less painful approach to women's health care, especially in procedures like mammograms. Tamsen emphasized the significance of education and the proactive partnership between patients and medical care providers in ensuring better health outcomes.Personal Reflections on Resilience: Tamsen opened up about her personal experiences, reflecting on how she would have navigated her menopause journey differently in her 30s and the importance of a proactive and preventative approach to health. She also shared her story of resilience through the challenges of her divorce and the loss of her mother. Tamsen spoke candidly about the emotional and financial complexities of her divorce and the process of rebuilding her life and self-worth. She highlighted the importance of taking small steps, finding confidence in everyday activities, and the power of personal stories in helping others through similar experiences.The Transformative Power of Storytelling: Tamsen's insights on the power of storytelling and sharing personal experiences underscore the impact of resilience and introspection. Her journey from a successful journalism career to focusing on women's health advocacy exemplifies the courage and determination needed to pursue meaningful change. She also discussed the internal barriers we face, such as feelings of selfishness, worthiness, and “enoughness,” that can hinder personal growth and decision-making.Letters to My Younger Self: Reflecting on her past, Tamsen shared the advice she would give to her younger self, urging her to not feel pressured by societal timelines and to focus on what she truly desires. She encouraged her younger self to trust her instincts and surround herself with supportive friends, emphasizing the importance of not seeking validation from others before making decisions.Starting the Conversation Early: If Tamsen could turn back time, she would have started the "What do I want?" conversation much earlier in her life. This introspective question is a powerful tool for personal growth and aligning one's actions with their true desires.I extend my deepest gratitude to Tamsen Fadal for joining me on the podcast and for sharing her invaluable experiences and insights. Her dedication to women's health advocacy and her resilience in the face of personal challenges serve as an inspiration to us all.Tamsen's journey reminds us of the importance of self-reflection, self-compassion, and the courage to share our stories. It is through these shared experiences that we can uplift and empower one another, fostering a community of resilience and hope.Connect with Tamsen Fadal: For those inspired by Tamsen's wisdom and advocacy, she invites you to connect with her through her website and on social media. She actively engages with her community through her newsletter and live interactions, offering a space for continued learning and connection. To learn more about Tamsen and her journey visit:https://www.tamsenfadal.com/https://www.instagram.com/tamsenfadal/https://www.facebook.com/tamsenfadal/https://twitter.com/TamsenFadalhttps://www.tiktok.com/@tamsenfadal Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:Tamsen Fadal's Background (00:00:00): Dr. Taryn Marie introduces Tamsen Fadal and highlights her achievements and work in advocating for women's health.The M Factor Film (00:03:09): Tamsen discusses the upcoming release of the M Factor film, focusing on women's menopause stories and women's health care advocacy.Conversation on ...
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  • Heart Beats Tech: Charting a Path from Crypto to AI with Empathy and Resilience
    Apr 2 2024
    On this week’s episode of Flourish or Fold, I recently had the privilege of sitting down with Nick Sullivan, a seasoned technologist with over two decades of experience in Silicon Valley. Nick, the former CEO of the cryptocurrency company Heart Rhythm, joined me to share his profound insights on heart-led leadership and the delicate balance between humanity and technology. Nick shares his journey of leading with heart and facing setbacks, including the company's closure due to market crises. He discusses the importance of trust, resilience, and emotional recovery, as well as his pivot towards the AI industry. The episode delves into themes of surrender, manifestation, and the power of resilience, concluding with a promotion for a resilience leadership course.The Rise and Fall of Heart Rhythm: Nick's journey as an entrepreneur and CEO is nothing short of a rollercoaster ride. He led Heart Rhythm with a vision to channel capital into social impact projects, but the path was fraught with unforeseen challenges. The Terra Luna crisis dealt a heavy blow to the company, and the shockwaves from FTX's explosion further destabilized the cryptocurrency ecosystem. Despite his relentless drive to push through adversity, Nick faced the heart-wrenching decision to close the doors of Heart Rhythm.The Essence of Trust and Resilience: In our conversation, Nick opened up about the role of trust and resilience during these tumultuous times. He underscored the importance of psychological safety, love, and empathy in leadership. It's not just about steering a company through the storm; it's about nurturing a culture where humanity thrives alongside technology.Healing and Finding a New Direction: The emotional investment Nick poured into Heart Rhythm was immense, and the setbacks took a significant toll. He spoke candidly about the necessity of emotional recovery and the process of healing. It's a journey that many entrepreneurs can relate to—the need to step back, reflect, and recalibrate after a fall.Embracing the AI Ecosystem: As Nick reflected on his identity and the role of cryptocurrency in his life, he recognized the need for a shift. His expertise and passion found a new home in the AI ecosystem, a field ripe with challenges that align with his technological prowess.The Dance of Surrender and Manifestation: Our dialogue delved into the delicate balance between surrendering to the unknown and actively shaping one's destiny. Nick emphasized the importance of psychological healing and allowing the subconscious to work its magic before embarking on a new venture.Strategies for Overcoming Adversity: Nick didn't shy away from sharing practical strategies for weathering difficult times. Conducting a thorough post-mortem, seeking honest feedback, and learning from past mistakes are crucial steps. But equally important is the space we give ourselves to heal emotionally and mentally.Looking Ahead with Heart and Resilience: As we discussed his future plans, Nick's enthusiasm for building a company in the AI space was palpable. He remains committed to infusing his work with heart, love, and resilience, tackling the challenges and potential of AI with a thoughtful and ethical approach.The Transformative Power of Resilience: Drawing inspiration from Nick's journey, I reflected on the transformative power of resilience—the ability to turn darkness into light. It's a message of hope and encouragement for all of us to trust in our capacity to navigate life's challenges.A Childhood Lesson in Resilience: Nick shared a poignant story from his childhood, a testament to the resilience that comes from overcoming significant obstacles. It's a powerful reminder that our past experiences can serve as a wellspring of confidence and strength for the future.Embracing Rejection and Redirection: As we wrapped up our conversation, I echoed Nick's sentiments on resilience and empowerment. There's a liberating freedom in setbacks, an opportunity for growth and the discovery of new paths.Thank you so much, Nick Sullivan who was an absolutely amazing guest. Nick never ceases to amaze me in the way that he can look at a problem or his experience from multiple different directions. And one of the things I so loved about our conversation is that he was really able to unpack two seemingly similar circumstances where he felt like the roof got ripped off of the house in terms of the cryptocurrency landscape, and in one of those moments, he decided to stay, and in one of those moments, he decided to go. Or, I think, more akin to his words, he felt forcibly ejected from continuing to do that work.To learn more about Nick visit him on Instagram: @technickai_ Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:Heart-Led Leadership (00:02:34): Nick discusses the importance of psychological safety, diversity, love, and empathy in leadership and technology.Healthy Intersection of Humanity and Technology (00:11:14): Nick explores the ...
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