1 Thessalonians 5:11 Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. Every year, Pastor Sarah makes star words for our congregation. They are simple wooden stars with a word printed on them that is to be our focus word for the year.
My late wife Barbara got her very first star word in January 2024, and it was Motivate. She asked me to clarify with Sarah that this could be the same as nagging.
Throughout that year, we had lots of fun with that. She "motivated" me to straighten pictures and put room decorations back in their correct position after the housekeepers came; to keep season-appropriate flags and wreaths outside our home; to finally clean out our garage; to trim my nose hairs; and on and on. It became a challenge for her to find things to motivate me to do that she could no longer do for herself.
And then in January of 2025 (three months before her passing and as she was failing in health and strength), she asked for another star word and, of course, it was Motivate. What else could it have been? What fun we had with that!
Since her passing in April, I've had time to reflect on how Barbara motivated me, and it was in ways much more significant than crooked pictures and nose hairs.
There would not be a No One Dies Alone program at Blount Memorial Hospital if Barbara had not motivated me to go ask the chaplain, "Why not?" I would not be delivering Meals on Wheels, something that I now love to do, had Barbara not started delivering years ago and then got me to help her as her strength began to wane.
Barbara has always motivated me with her generosity, as she has made countless donations to causes and programs that she believed in. She also quietly helped folks with significant financial needs, never seeking recognition for her generosity.
Barbara motivated me to put aside bitterness for the sake of preserving long-term relationships. She motivated me to maintain a discipline of daily scripture and devotion, reading, and prayer. And oh, did Barbara pray! Whenever she heard of someone in pain or crisis, she had us stop and pray, even if it meant pulling off to the side of the road.
Barbara motivated me with her kindness. When, because of her declining health, she could do little else, she wrote notes of comfort and encouragement and sympathy to folks she knew needed it. People have told me how Barbara's notes helped them through some of their darkest times.
And Barbara has motivated me to always, always tell the people I love that I love them every chance that I get.
So, yeah, Barbara and I had lots of fun with her regular motivation of me to get things done, but she also motivated me to be and to do so much more.
Prayer: Father God, help us to always look for ways to encourage each other to good works through our words and examples to ensure that your will is done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.
This devotional was written and read by Charlie Barton.
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