**Trigger warning: I talk about the death of my pet**

This episode is named with all the loving kindness there is because these are MY excuses!

I've been meditating FOR YEARS and have recently taken extra training so I can teach it even better.

AND YET, we all have the same excuses as to why we don't do these things.

Even though Meditating is one of the easiest, cheapest and most incredible mental health tools there are.

Here to get us all out of our own ways I give you 5 excuses that just really don't wash.

In the episode I talk about:

• my Love Notes Membership on substack, which you can find here: https://hannahharveyuk.substack.com/
• The Love Notes Reset - 7 Days of Calm is here.
• The URL to get 1 months FREE access to Love Notes so you can do the Reset for free - 7 Days of Calm is here: https://hannahharveyuk.substack.com/valentines
  • This link will expire on 13th Fab 2026 so even if you're listening to this later in the year, you can still use it. Valentines pressies keep giving 🫶
• The Meditation training I did was with Jambo Dragon, find him here: https://jds.jambodragon.com/
• My book is How to Divorce Sober here
• The episode with Josie Baxter is here: 18 - JB on healthy, fitness and public heartbreak

Hot off the back of a super, grown up and mature birthday party for my youngest, where both parents AND our new partners were present, co-parenting has been very much on my mind, so for what it's worth, here are my thoughts on the matter!

I talk about why I don't like the term narcissist.

And share my boundaries that helped me keep communication alive during a high conflict divorce and why it was so important to me.

I also share the exact words I was using every morning to manifest the best outcome of the divorce for my children. It kept me focused during the court battles on what was important and helped me keep check of my motivations for everything (i.e. for them and not for spite!).

you can read all my boundaries and survival tools for divorce in my new book How to Divorce Sober, available in audio, ebook and print here. If you'd like a signed copy, head here!

Katie and I are talking about the fact we bought our own houses for the first time after our relationship break ups. We talk about the positives and negatives of this huge, grown up step and share our 3 essential tips for doing it successfully - 1 of which is very unlike me!!

Show notes...

I refer to a Brene Brown book which I completely forgot the name of... it was DARING GREATLY. Lol, as if I forgot.

We also discuss moon cups at great length and would love your feedback on how you get on with them and any suggestions for Katie!

The house discussion starts around 14 mins in as we have a lot to catch up :)

You can contact me, Hannah, on Instagram here @hannahharveyuk, or Katie here @katiewomblingfree

On this week's episode of Happily Ever After, I'm joined by my business coach to talk about MONEY and how we are once again sabotaging ourselves from receiving more of it.

Rachel talks about money as a spirit who wants to be with us and wants to flow through our lives. Love that! She explains the mindset shifts we can do (in a gentle and pragmatic way), that will really start to rewire the brain ready to spot opportunities and bring in more abundance.

She also talks about the importance of understanding our shadows and how in fully embracing who we are, money (and the people who want to buy from us) love authenticity.

We talk about:

AOA - Art of Alchemy by Kat Rivers (all about motherhood and business and a course I did over the summer which I LOVED!)

Money Magic - Rachel's course on changing your money mindset - come and join me, I'm doing it too!

Human Design - this is a great intro place to start and if you want to go deeper head here << both are free to access your results (and then tell me, I'd love to know what you are!).

Rachel Smithbone is back on the podcast!

Rachel was on last August for episode 60 - trusting yourself and I highly recommend circling back to get the full flavour of how Rachel works as a shamanic business coach.

I absolutely loved that chat and have since started working with Rachel as my coach, so in this conversation, we talk about some of the things my body has helped me understand in our sessions.

From who and what the 'maiden' (first introduced in episode 46 - grieving the maiden) needs from me in order to show up in the world to conversations with a knot in my neck... this is work has been transformational for me!

You can find Rachel on instagram here.

If you have ever been in any kind of chaotic relationship, you will know that it is very easy to follow the same pattern into subsequent relationships. Chaos can feel safe to the nervous system because it is familiar, even if it’s to the detriment of your well being. A very common complaint is looking for trouble because calm and happy love can feel so unsettling when you’re used to drama! You understand how to exist in drama. You don’t know how to exist in peace.

This week I’m talking to Amber about how exactly you stop this cycle and how to be in a healthy relationship - we both have experience of both drama in relationship AND a lot of healing work to break the cycle. But it doesn’t mean that it’s easy.

You can read Amber’s brand new book Unleashing my Inner Power: Daring to Dream and Flying fearless, which explores all of this - from her 2 year Sex Ban through to learning how to be in a peaceful relationship.

How to be Single... with Amber Horrox.

A year on from one of last years most downloaded episodes, 57 - Could a Sex Ban Change Your Life, I've caught up with Amber to talk about all the lessons I learnt from being single.

From protecting your boundaries to noticing addictive patterns. This is such a great chat and I love Amber's insights into each of my observations.

Full of uplifting nuggets for anyone struggling to be single or find love.

Hello and welcome to Happily ever after, it’s me Hannah and this week I'm joined by my lovely chum chum Katie and a room full of my nearest and dearest as I will be sharing the live Q&A that we held for my book launch, How to Divorce Sober, which is now out and you can get your copy here!