LOVERS by shan

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  • Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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  • 107: Forget What You Thought You Knew About Good Sex and Start HERE

    107: Forget What You Thought You Knew About Good Sex and Start HERE
    Feb 21 2025

    Beyond Pleasure: Three Keys to Truly Fulfilling Sex

    Sex is at the intersection of life and humanity. For the majority of us, it’s how we got here and for parents, it’s how we will continue on after we are gone. We often hear the term “better” sex, which begs two questions: what does that mean? And, why is the sex we are currently having not good enough?

    In this episode we will define the goal of sex - regardless of the stage of the relationship and we will also discuss what prevents us from having sex that lives up to our desired potential. I’m going to take you on a journey as we explore the three sexual freedoms. Starting with discussing the power of freedom to, which I think describes the stage that myself and my husband/ the creative director of this podcast, Jared Brady are in. Then freedom from, which I discuss with my friends Yancy and Premika Leo. Finally we will talk about the Freedom not to, which I explore with my Lovers Community.

    Thank you Bumble
    This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.

    My class on MasterClass
    If you’d like tangible tips for improving your relationship with sex AND your sex appeal. I HIGHLY recommend checking out my class on MasterClass the Art of Sex Appeal
    masterclass.com/shan

    Better Sex Quiz
    If you want to know which freedom you should focus on in order to improve your sex life today, try this quiz
    https://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/bettersex

    Commitment Structure Quiz
    If Shan and Jared’s conversation around open relationships intrigued you, take this quiz to identify your commitment structure
    https://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/commitment

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    https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter

    Lovers Community
    If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlist
    https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
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    39 mins
  • 106: Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets

    106: Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets
    Jul 26 2024
    Kerry Washington, you read right. Award-winning actor, director, producer, and activist Kerry Washington. In support of the second season of her hit show UnPrisoned on Hulu Onyx Collective, Kerry stopped by Lovers and Friends to discuss what she learned from Paige, how learning that her biological father was a sperm donor changed her family for the better, therapy with her parents and husband, how real parents should get with their kids, her parenting philosophy and more. If you loved Kerry Washington in any of her classics, like Scandal or Django Unchained OR if you read her book Thicker Than Water, you will LOVE UnPrisoned and furthermore, this raw interview on the power and potential that comes when you heal the family by not being afraid to hurt or disappoint one another. Of course I couldn’t have Kerry Washington stop by and NOT talk about sex, reproductive rights and pole dancing - so expect that too :). ALSO relationship expert and UnPrisoned creator Tracy McMillan stops by to discuss the power of intuition.


    Watch the trailer to UnPrisoned

    https://youtu.be/HIn14DY9eFA?si=2VxtEkm6V6_UT3kx


    Watch UnPrisoned

    https://www.hulu.com/series/unprisoned-5b48cecb-15b5-4e06-b475-f2ac5a64bd24


    Follow Kerry Washington

    https://www.instagram.com/kerrywashington/?hl=en


    Watch her YouTube Show Street You Grew Up On

    https://youtu.be/Omh270yZLbU?si=Fof717hAfW9Fz8iA


    Read her Memoir Thicker than Water

    https://www.amazon.com/Thicker-than-Water-Kerry-Washington/dp/0316497398


    Follow Tracy McMillan
    https://www.instagram.com/tracymcmillan/


    Thanks to Our Sponsors


    Hulu Onyx Collective


    Follow Shan

    http://instagram.com/shanboodram
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • 105: Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires

    105: Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires
    Feb 26 2024
    Kelly Rowland, you read right. This is a CAN NOT MISS, special release Lovers and Friends episode with Shan Boodram AND it is best experienced after you watch Mea Culpa now streaming worldwide on Netflix. In this intimate, first-of-its-kind conversation Kelly Rowland shares how she went from a sexually repressed upbringing to living up to her pleasure potential as a sensualist, plus how her sexual awakening gave her the confidence to play Mea in Mea Clupa alongside Trevante Rhodes, whom she shares very STEAMY sex scenes with on screen. Kelly also discusses her feelings on divorce, kink, toys in the bedroom, and overcoming the fear of being imperfect.

    Watch the trailer to Mea Culpa
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA

    Follow Kelly
    https://www.instagram.com/kellyrowland/
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA

    Thanks to Our Sponsors

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    Follow Shan
    http://instagram.com/shanboodram
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    56 mins

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