Mekaylar's story reflects the complexities of growing up as a first-generation New Zealander and facing cultural and family expectations. From a young age, she faced relentless bullying at school—physically, verbally, and psychologically—simply for being different. As a child navigating a strict household, Mekaylar struggled with the pressure to be perfect in everyone’s eyes, balancing the dual roles of a tough, ideal daughter and a stand-in caretaker for her siblings. Her early life was shaped by these demands, leaving little room to express her struggles.
Mekaylar faced significant trauma, including sexual abuse, PTSD and chronic illness, and eventually sought help through counselling. This pivotal moment allowed her to understand and process her emotions, and create a safe space to talk openly about mental health. Mekaylar speaks out about the importance of treating your mental illness like a friend rather than a disease, and maintaining faith that you will find people who uplift and support you. She is a strong advocate for Pasifika communities and for challenging outdated ideologies that often prevent open dialogue around mental health.
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