“I used to think discipline meant controlling my son and stopping certain behaviors. Now I understand that discipline can also mean trusting him to learn—even during messy moments.” – Chelsea

In this heartfelt episode, Chelsea Cheng, mother to her 3-year-old son Nathanael, shares her evolving parenting journey—from enforcing control to embracing trust and connection. She opens up about letting go of rigid routines, regulating her own emotions, and learning to connect with her child before giving direction.

Chelsea’s reflections remind us that parenting isn’t about perfection, but about growing together, slowing down, and seeing through our children’s eyes. Tune in to discover how small shifts in perspective can lead to deeper relationships and more joyful parenting.

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With an exciting quest at FAM JAM Fest, experience joy around mealtimes as a family! In celebration of children this October, FAM JAM Fest is a for children, by children community event that empowers children to encourage other children and their families.

Celebrate Children's Day with fun, food and family:

📅 Saturday, 18 October 2025

🕙 Time: 9.30am - 6pm

📍Venue: South Beach Avenue L1 Fountain Plaza

Limited FAM JAM Pack valued above $100 to be redeemed. Admission is free so secure tickets for your family!

Register at www.famchamps.sg/FAMJAM.

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How do you parent a teen or young adult who’s making big life decisions—like choosing a university, starting a career, or even getting married?

In this heartfelt episode, our host June speaks with Dawn Yip, a mother of three sons aged 19–24, about the evolving role of parents during these pivotal years.

Dawn shares real-life stories and practical wisdom on how to offer guidance and guardrails without trying to control the outcome. From affirming your child’s strengths to listening without judgment, this episode is packed with a parent’s love and insights on how to stay connected—even when your child’s choices differ from your own.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, teacher and mother Pauline Foo joins our host, June to explore the subtle yet powerful effects of comparison—especially between siblings. Drawing from her personal parenting journey and professional experience, Pauline shares how comparison can quietly shape a child’s identity, self-worth, and family dynamics.

Whether it’s comparing milestones, academic achievements, or personality traits, Pauline reveals how even well-meaning comparisons can lead children to choose different paths just to escape being measured against one another. She offers practical ways to shift from judgment to affirmation, helping parents foster deeper connection and compassion at home.

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Do you have a question for us, or a topic you would like to hear about? Drop us an email at ParentEd@family.org.sg. Or visit our website at www.family.org.sg for more parenting resources.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Join our host June as she speaks with Haze Feng, a single mum who candidly shares her roller coaster journey of raising her 12-year-old son. Haze opens up about the immense emotional and financial load—from battling a hidden alcohol addiction while maintaining a strong exterior, to overcoming self-condemnation and feelings of failure following her divorce. She discusses the tendency to overcompensate out of guilt and shares the crucial lesson of not being too hard on herself.

Haze emphasises that it truly takes a village to raise a child and encourages single parents to dare to ask for help, give themselves time to process, and actively connect with supportive communities. Tune in to hear Haze’s powerful message—and be assured that you are not alone and should be proud of your strength and resilience.

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.”

- Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

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Think your teen is just being lazy? Think again.

Procrastination isn’t laziness—it’s often rooted in fear, emotional overwhelm, or high expectations.

In this episode, host Aaron speaks with counsellor Paul Lim to unpack why teens struggle to get started. Paul explains that procrastination is a symptom, not the root—often tied to self-doubt and pressure.

He challenges parents to reflect: could our own fears or need for control be shaping the parent-child dynamic? When we project anxiety, we risk turning parenting into a transactional or controlling relationship.

To truly support our children, we must first work on ourselves.

Tune in to learn how to break the cycle and build trust, connection, and healthy habits that last.

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Do you have a question for us, or a topic you would like to hear about? Drop us an email at ParentEd@family.org.sg. Or visit our website at www.family.org.sg for more parenting resources.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify,  Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Can art help children regulate their emotions? Art isn’t just for creativity—it’s also a powerful tool for emotional expression and regulation.

In this episode, our host Ee Jay chats with certified art therapist Christine Tok, who brings decades of experience in early childhood education and art therapy. She shares practical ways parents can use art to help children manage frustration, express feelings, and build resilience.

Gain insight from Christine’s inspiring real-life experiences working with children and art and discover how to create a safe space at home, uncover the hidden stories behind your child’s artwork, and see why even just 20 minutes of art time can make a meaningful difference.

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Increasing loneliness and disconnection, rise of porn addiction and voyeurism, rise of AI companions, and confusion over sexuality and identity — these worrying trends have arisen among married couples and the youth.

Get a grasp of the underlying factors driving such trends, and be equipped with tools to lead healthier conversations about love, relationships and identity with younger couples and youths.

Find out more about The Future of Healthy Sexuality Masterclass at www.family.org.sg/healthysexualitymasterclass.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

What does it take to be a good father in today's busy, fast-paced world? In an age where time is a luxury, what does active fathering truly entail? How do you build meaningful connections amidst the daily hustle?

Join our host Ee Jay as he chats with returning guest Kelvin Seah, a father of two. He share his own continuous learning journey in fatherhood, reminding us that being a good dad isn't about perfection. Instead, it's about being present, building meaningful memories, and affirming your child's identity.

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Increasing loneliness and disconnection, rise of porn addiction and voyeurism, rise of AI companions, and confusion over sexuality and identity — these worrying trends have arisen among married couples and the youth, and they seem set to intensify and to shape our children’s attitudes and behaviour.

How can we strengthen marriages against emotional and physical infidelity? How can we equip our children to navigate sexual and relational challenges? Get a grasp of the underlying factors driving such trends and be equipped with tools to train the hearts and minds of the next generation so they desire what is good, timeless, and true.

Find out more about The Future of Healthy Sexuality Masterclass at www.family.org.sg/healthysexualitymasterclass.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify,  Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

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With new screen time guidelines for kids under the age of 12, parents are perhaps feeling the pressure to cut back on their children's screen time – which may lead to all kinds of withdrawal symptoms like restlessness, irritability and full-blown tantrums.

How might parents work together with their children to create new and healthier habits?

In this episode, our host, June, is joined by returning guest Alicia Yah, a mother of four and a dedicated early childhood educator. She provides tips for parents to support their children in reducing screentime reliance, and shares her own lived experience of injecting fun into family time to encourage togetherness, in replacement of screen usage. Be encouraged that while initial efforts may be met with resistance, starting small and starting somewhere does pay off with consistency!

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