August 21, 2026
Today's Reading: 1 Kings 1:1-4, 15-35
Daily Lectionary: 1 Kings 1:1-4, 15-35; 1 Corinthians 12:14-31
“The Young woman was very beautiful, and she was of service to the king…” (1 Kings 4:4)
In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.
We read some very weird things in the Bible; the story of Abishag is one of them.
At this time, King David was old and advanced in years. He is described as bedridden and in need of constant attention. This is a far cry from the warrior king who, as a young man, killed Philistines by the thousands. So, his servants decide to find a young, beautiful woman to “…wait on the king and be in his service. Let her lie in your arms, that my lord the king may be warm.” (3)
This was long before modern medicine, and some have supposed that the servants believed that by lying in David’s arms, some of Abishag’s youth and vigor would get passed on to him. Others suppose that, given David’s lust for women, they thought a young, beautiful virgin might get the old king excited and acting like a young man again. Maybe he would even take her on as another wife or concubine.
In antiquity, polygamy was widely practiced. Their logic was: married women are provided for by their husbands; rich men can afford to provide for many women; therefore, rich men can have multiple wives. Further, there were concubines. These were not illicit mistresses, but more like “lesser wives.” All of this is logical, perhaps, but not good because it goes against God’s design of one woman for one man. Whatever their thinking, it was disrespectful of Abishag, who got treated like a blanket in all of this! “[Abishag] was very beautiful, and she was of service to the king and attended him, but the king knew her not.” (4) –That last part, about “knowing her not,” is a euphemism meaning they did not have a sexual relationship.
What is the point of this story? Some speculate that the story highlights David’s change and repentance; now, even with a beautiful woman in his arms, he is so pious that he will not take advantage of her, having truly learned from his sins with Bathsheba. Others think the story is told to describe how sickly, frail, and weak King David was and why an heir needed to take his place.
What else can we learn from this? Some men have always viewed women as merely objects existing to serve them. We’ve come a long way, but sadly, this view still exists. If you found this story disturbing, remember that our true worth is not found in how useful we are to someone who wants to use us for selfish reasons; rather, our true value lies in being a child of God for whom Christ died. Incredibly, Jesus, the Son of David, came not to use people and have them serve Him, but rather to serve us and to give His life as a ransom for all.
In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.
Thank you, Lord, for serving us with your death on the cross and opening the kingdom of heaven. Amen.
Rev. Joel Shaltanis, pastor of Lord of Life Lutheran Church, Plano, TX.