• #SiblingsToo - Exploring the impacts of sibling sexual abuse

  • Written by: Nancy Morris
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#SiblingsToo - Exploring the impacts of sibling sexual abuse

Written by: Nancy Morris
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  • Welcome to SiblingsToo, the podcast about Sibling Sexual Abuse, the hidden taboo, hidden in society and in families. Sibling Sexual Abuse is thought to affect as many as 1 in 5 families. Your Host is Nancy Morris, a psychology researcher and sibling sexual abuse survivor, #SiblingsToo creates a voice for sibling sexual abuse and brings research and information to surivors and their families.
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Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology
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  • Ep.60 | Non-Abused, Non-Abuser Siblings - Call for Research Participants with Anais Vanvliet

    Ep.60 | Non-Abused, Non-Abuser Siblings - Call for Research Participants with Anais Vanvliet
    Jan 9 2025
    In this illuminating episode of the #SiblingsToo podcast, hosted by Nancy Morris, Anais Vanvliet returns to discuss her groundbreaking research on the experiences of non-abused, non-abuser siblings within families affected by child sexual abuse. Anais shares her passion for highlighting the often-overlooked impacts on these siblings, driven by her personal and professional commitment to the subject matter. Nancy and Anais delve into the critical need for more focused research and policy changes to address the gaps in support systems. Diving deeper, Anais outlines her research's core questions, which explore both the experiences of these siblings and the current service provisions—or lack thereof—for them in Canada, particularly in Quebec and New Brunswick. She highlights the unique challenges and emotional impacts these siblings face, including feelings of isolation and jealousy, and the importance of trauma-informed approaches when engaging with them. Anais also touches on the broader conversation around sibling relationships in the context of family violence, emphasizing the need for comprehensive support systems and policy advocacy. About our guest, Anais Vanvliet: Anais Vanvliet is a PhD candidate in the School of Social Work at McGill University, focusing on the experiences and support needs of siblings in households where child sexual abuse (CSA) has occurred. Anais brings a unique perspective to her research with her lived experience as a sibling of survivors and her professional background as a trained social worker in sexual violence. Her work aims to enhance awareness, policy, and support systems for siblings affected by family violence in Canada. Key Takeaways: * The sibling dynamic in CSA-affected households is under-researched, leading to insufficient support for non-abused, non-abuser siblings. * Anais aims to fill this research gap by focusing on these siblings' experiences and potential support needs. * The impacts on these siblings can mirror those of the survivors, with additional unique challenges like feelings of exclusion. * Current service provisions often overlook these siblings, highlighting a need for advocacy and policy changes. * Anais's research seeks to provide data-driven insights to improve awareness and service provision for siblings affected by CSA and family violence. Notable Quotes: 1. "All siblings in the household can be deeply impacted by sibling sexual abuse or child sexual abuse generally, even if they're not directly involved." 2. "There's really no research or very, very, very little on the experiences of siblings surrounding child sexual abuse in a family." 3. "My work hopefully will help to kind of fill those gaps." 4. "If someone is missing in the conversation, the conversation is missing." 5. "The timing is right to do this work because in Canada, we are slowly starting to pay closer attention to siblings in the context of family violence." Resources: * Contact Anais Vanvliet via email anais.cadieuxvanvliet@mcgill.ca for participants interested in her research. * Mention of the scoping review by Peter Yates and Amy Adams on sibling sexual abuse -https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0145213424004666 Explore the full episode to gain an in-depth understanding of the dynamics of sibling relationships in CSA-affected households and to learn more about the vital research being conducted by Anais Vanvliet. Stay tuned for more insightful discussions and research findings in upcoming episode Timestamp Summary 0:00 Exploring Sibling Dynamics in the Context of Family Violence 8:15 Proliferation of Positive Psychology Research Projects in Early 2000s 8:57 Exploring Impacts on Siblings in Child Sexual Abuse Cases 12:45 Understanding Trauma's Impact on Non-Abused Siblings 16:10 Exploring Sibling Experiences in Child Sexual Abuse Research 24:24 Advocating for Sibling Support in Family Violence Services 28:30 Exploring Sibling Dynamics in Cases of Family Sexual Abuse 34:13 Exploring Sibling Experiences in Child Sexual Abuse Research 39:38 The Importance of Conversations on Sibling Sexual Abuse
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    44 mins
  • Ep.59 | Scoping Review – What do we know about SSA with Dr. Peter Yates and Amy Adams

    Ep.59 | Scoping Review – What do we know about SSA with Dr. Peter Yates and Amy Adams
    Dec 19 2024
    Episode Summary: In this episode of the #SiblingsToo Podcast, host Nancy Morris talks with Dr. Peter Yates and Amy Adams about their scoping review on sibling sexual abuse (SSA), a critical step in consolidating fragmented research on this under-explored issue. By mapping the current knowledge base, their work identifies gaps in research, clarifies definitions, and lays the groundwork for improved understanding and future studies, making it an invaluable resource for addressing SSA more effectively. Dr. Yates and Amy Adams discuss the complexities of defining SSA, revealing 27 different definitions in the literature and stressing the importance of clear, consistent language to avoid stigma and misinterpretation. They also examine prevalence rates, with adult disclosures ranging from 1.6% to 7%, highlighting the urgent need for increased societal awareness and targeted research. The conversation underscores the limitations of existing studies and calls for more rigorous approaches to fully understand SSA’s onset, patterns, and long-term impacts. About the Guest(s): Dr. Peter Yates: Dr. Peter Yates is a lecturer in social work at Glasgow Caledonian University in Scotland. With a background in working in a specialist service assisting children and young people exhibiting harmful sexual behavior, Dr. Yates has dedicated his research to studying sibling sexual abuse, primarily focusing on cases involving boys abusing their siblings. Amy Adams: Amy Adams is a doctoral researcher at the University of Birmingham, centered on family and sibling dynamics. Her current research delves into the relationships between siblings where one child has caused harm and another has been harmed, providing insight into the complex dynamics within such families. Key Takeaways: Definition Complexity: The myriad definitions of sibling sexual abuse contribute to challenges in research and interventions, highlighting the need for a universal understanding to improve clarity and response.Prevalence Insights: Existing research reveals significant rates of SSA disclosure in adulthood, underscoring the need for societal acknowledgment and systemic approaches to dealing with such cases.Family Dynamics: The conversation delves into the factors correlating with SSA, emphasizing that it transcends socio-economic boundaries and often correlates with wider family disruptions.Need for Comprehensive Research: The episode stresses the importance of conducting more in-depth studies, including longitudinal research to establish causal pathways and effective interventions.Education and Intervention: Dr. Yates and Adams advocate for educational efforts starting early in childhood to prevent SSA, aiming for holistic family interventions tailored to support every family member affected by SSA. Notable Quotes: "Because it's such a difficult concept to pin down… what we don't want to be doing is stigmatizing children and children's sexual behaviors unnecessarily." - Dr. Peter Yates"In terms of disclosure, most disclosures come in adulthood, not from children at the time of the incident." - Amy Adams"The idea that some people can touch children's bodies… can include and name specifically brothers and sisters." - Dr. Peter Yates"Sibling sexual abuse can take place in any families from across the socio-economic spectrum." - Dr. Peter Yates"We need more robust and stronger methodologies to make causal or pathway links." - Amy Adams Resources: Glasgow Caledonian UniversityUniversity of BirminghamSiblingsToo Podcast: WebsiteAIM Project (Manchester) Chapters: 0:00 Sibling Sexual Abuse: Understanding, Disclosure, and Stigma 2:55 Exploring Research Gaps in Sibling Sexual Abuse Studies 9:24 Challenges in Defining Sibling Sexual Abuse and Its Implications 18:00 Defining Sibling Sexual Abuse and Its Research Implications 22:33 Reevaluating Sibling Sexual Abuse and Its Traumatic Impact 25:28 Challenges in Managing Sibling Relationships After Harm 27:30 Understanding Sibling Sexual Abuse and Societal Challenges 31:11 Prevalence and Research on Sibling Sexual Abuse 33:41 Understanding the Impact of Sibling Sexual Abuse 39:22 Understanding Sibling Sexual Abuse Across Diverse Family Dynamics 45:09 Addressing Gaps in Sibling Sexual Abuse Research and Prevention 51:04 Challenges in Disclosing Sibling Sexual Abuse Within Families 56:39 Challenges of Disclosure in Adulthood for Childhood Trauma Survivors 58:52 Risks and Rewards of Sharing Personal Struggles 1:00:15 Understanding Non-Verbal Disclosures of Child Sexual Abuse 1:02:26 Early Education and Prevention of Sibling Sexual Abuse 1:05:45 The Challenge of Establishing Clear and Consistent Definitions 1:07:29 Defining and Understanding Sibling Sexual Behaviors and Abuses 1:11:27 Global Research Gaps in Sibling Sexual Abuse Studies 1:16:29 Exploring Whole Family Interventions for Sibling Sexual Abuse 1:21:28 Family Education as a Tool for Abuse Prevention 1:24:39 Addressing Sibling ...
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    1 hr and 40 mins
  • Ep.58 | In The Telling We Do Not Die with Risa Shaw

    Ep.58 | In The Telling We Do Not Die with Risa Shaw
    Oct 3 2024
    In this compelling episode, host Nancy Morris dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Risa Shaw, a trailblazer in the study of sibling sexual abuse (SSA). The episode centers around Risa's influential book, *Not Child's Play: An Anthology on Brother-Sister Incest*, and the transformative power of speaking out against abuse. Together, they uncover the societal stigma that shrouds SSA, the importance of sharing survivor stories, and the ongoing impact of these narratives on reducing isolation and fostering healing. Risa recounts the painstaking journey behind creating her anthology, which spans from its initial concept in 2000 to its updated second edition. The conversation extends to highlight the benefits and challenges of disclosure, emphasizing that speaking up is a highly transformative act that offers profound personal healing. They also share poignant stories from the book, notably those of Marian and Dorothy, sisters who only found the courage to speak about their abuse in their later years, showing that it's never too late to break the silence. This episode is a beacon for anyone seeking understanding or grappling with the difficulties of SSA. About Risa: Dr. Risa Shaw is a survivor of brother-sister incest. In her new preface of the second edition of Not Child's Play, she reveals the power of 40 years of truth-telling to address the abuse, shame, self-blame, self-hatred, and damage done not only to her, but to every survivor of sibling incest. Risa has never shied away from the challenge of telling truth to power and she intentionally finds ways to center and amplify the voices of those silenced by oppression and violence. She is an educator, leader, and activist, living her life outloud for nearly 45 years in the Washington, D.C. area. Risa shares her life with her wife of 37 years and a large beloved community. With the first edition of Not Child's Play in 2000 and now the publication of a second edition with a new Preface, Foreword, and Afterword, Risa has translated decades of hard, brave, and meaningful work into a means of healing both for herself and for her readers. Key Takeaways: * Importance of Speaking Out: Sharing one's story of sibling sexual abuse is a transformative act that reduces isolation and opens the door to healing. * Impact of Risa's Work: Dr. Shaw's book *Not Child's Play* remains pivotal in the discourse around SSA, being the only anthology of first-person accounts. * Generational Effects: Disclosing and addressing SSA can positively affect subsequent generations, promoting awareness and prevention. * Challenges of Disclosure: Survivors face societal and familial pushback, but overcoming these challenges leads to significant personal growth and empowerment. * Continued Advocacy: The ongoing conversation and research into SSA are essential for changing societal attitudes and supporting survivors. Notable Quotes: 1. "Speaking out was a transformative act; it changed their lives." 2. "By speaking up, we're not only doing it for ourselves, we're also doing it for everybody else in the family and in society." 3. "You can start by telling your story to a piece of paper or your teddy bear – just get it out." 4. "Bravery is contagious and speaking out leads to joy." 5. "Reading and giving people the book shows them that we need to talk about sibling sexual abuse. We have to believe the children." Resources: * Not Child's Play: An Anthology on Brother-Sister Incest (http://notchildsplaybook.com) - Official website to buy the book and learn more about Risa Shaw. * Risa Shaw's Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/risashawnotchildsplay) - Follow for updates on her work and advocacy. * Risa Shaw's Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/notchildsplayanthology) - Stay connected and informed through visual storytelling and updates. * Computer-generated transcript -https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dSQfVDHDFlGOY0spIpXgENBaOg1NklXM/view?usp=sharing Chapters 0:00 Exploring Sibling Sexual Abuse Through Stories and Research 4:49 The Importance of Storytelling in Understanding and Preventing SSA 7:55 The Journey of Sharing and Understanding Sibling Sexual Abuse 10:50 The Power and Pain of Speaking Up About Abuse 14:41 Breaking the Silence on Family and Societal Trauma 17:52 Teaching Consent and Boundaries Through Interactive Activities 18:47 The Transformative Power of Speaking Out Against Abuse 26:14 Understanding Power Dynamics in Relationships and Society 27:41 The Power of Sharing and Releasing Family Secrets 34:20 Marian and Dorothy's Lifelong Journey of Healing and Connection 38:53 The Impact of Sibling Sexual Abuse and the Importance of Disclosure 44:22 Healing Through Storytelling and Personal Growth 47:57 The Transformative Power of Speaking Out and Sharing Stories Listen to this valuable episode to gain deeper insights into sibling sexual abuse, the importance ...
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    52 mins

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