Welcome to another episode of the Identity Work podcast! This week we welcome CEO, career journeyman, long-time friend, and super fan Brendon Marks. Brendon is the CEO of Capture H2O, a company that provides water treatment services to some of the largest companies in the world. He joins us from San Diego, CA to discuss his career journey and the challenges he's experienced along the way.

Our conversation covers Brendon's advice for the podcast, the impact of life challenges on work, reflections on work pressure, being the boss, establishing company culture, career pivots, entrepreneurship, trends in heating/cooling, and more.

Takeaways

• Life challenges reset our capacity and align our priorities, but overcoming them doesn't always bring a lasting perspective shift
• Dream jobs are still going to be 10% great days, 80% meh days, and 10% bad days. Shifting your mindset from expecting 100% amazing days to a more realistic perspective is key to experiencing meaning at work.
• Meaning in work can be found, created, or shared, and it often comes from the people you work with and the mission you're trying to achieve.
• Skill building in your twenties leads to meaningful work in your 30s

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction
• 06:16 Brendan's Advice and Reflections
• 13:11 Work Structure and Time Tracking
• 17:54 Reflections on Work and Pressure
• 24:01 Being the Boss and Company Culture
• 29:00 Career Pivots and Entrepreneurship
• 37:30 Long-Term Career Perspective
• 48:09 Effectiveness of LinkedIn Ads

In this week's episode, Lexi Reiff joins us for a conversation on self-perception and identity. It's a dense but fun one! We discuss the impact of work on personal identity, exploring the evolving self-concept and the question of 'Who Am I?'. We reflect on the challenges of identity shifts and the cultivation of a sense of self, providing insights into the complex relationship between work and personal identity.

The conversation covers identity across a range of ideas, delving into the exploration of personal identity and self-perception, discussing the concept of additive vs. subtractive identity, shifts in financial identity, LinkedIn identity and perception, and the intertwining of political identity and partisanship.

Topics

• The impact of work on personal identity and self-perception
• Shifts in personal identity over time. Are they good or bad? How do we manage them?
• AI (as always)
• Artists who's personal life ruin their music

Chapters

• 04:54 Exploring the Impact of Work on Identity
• 10:00 Re-evaluating Identity and Evolving Self-Concept
• 16:48 The Question of 'Who Am I?'
• 22:08 Cultivating a Sense of Self
• 27:01 Additive vs. Subtractive Identity
• 32:46 Art and Identity
• 39:56 Political Identity and Partisanship

Ever felt outside of the 'room where it happens?' We have.

This episode dives in to the power of the inner circle based on C.S. Lewis's article on our insatiable desire for joining increasingly exclusive groups. We discuss the power of inner circles, the struggles pursuing them, and better substitutes for that desire. We also delve into the challenges of managing a large quantity of work, the impact it has on individuals, and our evolving roles in the age of AI.

Join us for another great episode of the Identity Work Podcast!

Takeaways

• Desire for inclusion in the inner circle can be a chief motive in work life
• Anchoring identity in the task itself rather than in external recognition is important for contentment Managing a large quantity of work can be overwhelming and challenging, leading to burnout and a sense of constant pressure.
• The future of work and consulting is evolving, with a focus on managing AI agents and the changing nature of job roles.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction
• 07:41 Desire for Influence and Approval from Others
• 19:14 Anchoring Identity in the Task and Contentment in Work
• 26:24 Managing a Large Quantity of Work
• 32:39 The Future of Work and Consulting

In this episode, we discuss the NYT's article 'America's Professional Elite: Wealthy, Successful, and Miserable' with coach Emma Wood (our first returning guest!). We delve into the negative impact of compounding ease, how to 'friction max', the importance of living purposefully, how experimentation impacts meaning in work, and the challenges of finding authentic purpose. We also explore the fear of success and identity, life hacks and trends, setting intentions for 2026, and reflecting on personal growth.

Join us for another episode of the podcast!

Chapters

• 00:00 Tying Work to a Broader Purpose
• 28:17 The Importance of Relationships
• 35:03 The Fear of Success and Identity
• 43:26 Setting Intentions for 2026

It's challenging to balance work and family life, particularly during the busy holiday season. In this episode, we explore f feeling stretched between growth and exhaustion, the importance of recognition in the workplace to buffer burnout, and the components of good rest. The conversation also touches on the role of technology, particularly AI, in enhancing work efficiency, and some fun personal Christmas traditions.

Takeaways

• Living in a busy world can feel both exhausting and rewarding.
• Recognition at work is crucial for preventing burnout.
• Good rest involves detachment, relaxation, control, mastery, meaning, and affiliation.
• Controversially, Netflix can serve as a form of restful detachment.
• It's important to have something to look forward to during busy times.
• Balancing work and family life requires thoughtful planning.
• Finding meaning in work can help sustain motivation during tough times.
• Appreciating the recognition you receive is essential for well-being.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Highlights
• 02:06 Living in the Zone: Growth vs. Exhaustion
• 06:00 The Balance of Work and Family Life
• 09:54 Research Insights on Burnout and Recognition
• 15:29 Understanding Rest: The DRAMA Model
• 21:31 Finding Meaning in Work and Life
• 27:13 Final Thoughts and Christmas Traditions

In this lively discussion about the challenges of balancing work and parenthood, we discuss the importance of recovery, self-care, and maintaining connections through traditions like Christmas cards. We explore the concept of severance in the workplace, share personal anecdotes about parenting, and reflect on the importance of living in the present. The conversation is filled with insights and practical advice for high achievers navigating the complexities of parental life.

Takeaways

• Work-life balance is a continuous struggle for many parents. Recovery and rest are essential for improving capabilities and outcomes.
• Switching off work as parents requires intentional effort and time. It allows time for self-care, even in a busy schedule.
• Living in the present is vital, as these moments will be missed in the future.
• It's okay to seek help and advice from others when feeling overwhelmed.
• Creating boundaries between work and home life can enhance overall well-being.
• Efforts in both work and parenting need to be seen and appreciated to feel meaningful.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement
• 03:02 The Importance of Christmas Cards
• 05:48 Work-Life Balance and the Concept of Severance
• 08:37 Recovery and Energy Rebuilding in Parenthood
• 11:13 Strategies for Switching Off Work
• 13:59 Finding Time for Self-Care
• 16:53 The Challenges of Parenting and Work
• 19:54 Living in the Present
• 22:46 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Today we explore the complexities of balancing ambition with present satisfaction and delving into the perpetual cycle of high achievers always chasing the next milestone, often at the expense of enjoying the present moment.

Adam shares a poignant personal story from his career, illustrating the exhausting nature of constantly setting bigger goals. We then look at practical strategies such as practicing gratitude and confronting negative emotions are discussed to help listeners stay grounded.

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Stephen and Adam discuss the complexities of finding meaning in work, the importance of job crafting, and when it might be necessary to pivot to a new role. They explore personal experiences of leaving jobs too soon (and too early), research insights, and practical advice for navigating job satisfaction and moral dilemmas in the workplace. The conversation emphasizes self-awareness, resilience, and the value of learning in one's career journey.

Takeaways

• Creating meaning in your job is essential and can enhance job satisfaction, but self-awareness is key to knowing when to pivot.
• It's important to give new jobs time to adjust. Trust your instincts when making career decisions.
• Research shows high performers with high confidence may leave jobs sooner.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
• 02:51 Exploring Meaningful Work and Job Crafting
• 05:33 When to Stay or Leave a Job
• 08:39 Navigating Job Satisfaction and Moral Dilemmas
• 11:51 Research Insights on Job Retention
• 14:33 Reflecting on Past Job Decisions
• 17:19 Learning and Growth in Career Choices
• 20:15 Final Thoughts

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