On today’s show we are are helping you identify unhealthy relationship dynamics and red flags. We do want a woman who is into us, but it can cross a line in a weird way and set up some bad relational issues.

She Wants You to Complete Her

There is a danger when a woman expects you to fulfill her emotional voids.

If she wants you to be the one to ‘complete her’ ‘fix her’…RUN!

This attitude has short-term appeal but brings long-term damage.

She Treats Other People Like Trash

How does she treat those closest to her?

How does she treat service workers?

She Plays the Victim

Do you see her showing a pattern of shifting blame?

If nothing is ever her fault in life, that means nothing in your relationship will ever be her fault. This means it will be your fault. She will blame you.

She Wants as Her Only Friend

She is jealous of all your other friendships

She is always controlling your full schedule

If she wants to be your everything, then you’re just her toy

Share this with a person you think it could help. (or is with a girl like that right now. Maybe they will get the hint.)

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In this episode, we explore the biblical basis for men leading spiritually in their homes. We focus on servant leadership and the importance of men taking responsibility within the family.

What does it mean to be the spiritual leader of our homes as men? Many men today struggle with understanding and fulfilling this role.

The truth is God designed men for spiritual leadership, and we'll explore what that looks like.

Understanding God's Design

• Genesis & Creation
• Distinct Roles
• Biblical Foundation

Jesus' Example: Servant Leadership

• The husband's role
• Jesus as the Model: Jesus is the ultimate example of servant leadership.
• Sacrifice & Love: His sacrifice and love as the model for husbands.

Battles as a Spiritual Leader

• Personal Spiritual Growth Men must prioritize their relationship with God.
• Leading Family Growth

Characteristics of a Spiritual Leader

• Confidence & Humility
• Empowering Others
• Community Focus

Many men don’t lead because they aren’t taking up spiritual leadership.

Spiritual leadership is the foundation of all other areas of a man's life.

Challenge: Now is your time to become a spiritual leader!

Start today! Take the first step towards becoming the spiritual leader God designed you to be.

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We live in a world bombarded by unrealistic portrayals of relationships, often fueled by rom-coms, influencers, and reality TV. These portrayals can create unhealthy expectations, leading to disappointment and relationship struggles. Today, we're diving into these unrealistic expectations and how to shift to a healthier, God-centered perspective.

The "Fixer-Upper" Fallacy: The idea that a woman will magically solve all your problems is a dangerous myth. She's a person with her own needs, dreams, and struggles, not a solution to your life's issues.

Happiness is an Inside Job: While a relationship can bring joy, a woman is not responsible for your happiness or entertainment. True happiness stems from within and is rooted in our relationship with God. The honeymoon phase is temporary; real life requires more.

The Myth of "Easy Street": A relationship, even a great one, doesn't automatically make life easy. It requires effort, communication, and a willingness to work through challenges together.

The Call to Die to Self: Marriage, as a sacred covenant before God, involves dying to our selfish desires and putting our spouse's needs before our own. It's a call to sacrifice, not a free pass to a life of ease.

Beyond Romantic Love: A woman cannot fulfill all your relational needs. Men need strong friendships, mentors, and above all, a deep connection with God. We address the common scenario of guys who abandon their friends once they enter a relationship.

The God Factor: A healthy relationship starts with a healthy individual. When our identity and fulfillment are rooted in God, we can approach relationships with realistic expectations and give our wives the love and support they deserve.

No One is Perfect: Remember, no one, including the "best" woman, is perfect. She is a partner, not a savior. Expecting perfection sets the relationship up for failure.

The Power of Healthy Expectations: Entering a relationship with realistic and God-centered expectations is crucial for its success. It allows for grace, understanding, and genuine connection.

Key Takeaway: When you have God as your foundation, you can approach relationships with healthy expectations, leading to stronger, more fulfilling partnerships.

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