• Ask Alex: Dating Single Mothers
    Oct 4 2023

    Single Mothers

    Single Fathers

    Double Standards

    Who is more Accepting of Kids

    PreSelection

    Wing Woman

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    30 mins
  • Ask Alex: Better to Wanted or Needed?
    Jul 26 2023

    In this episode of the podcast, Alexander B. Stevens and his panel of guests, Rayus J, Karl, and JT, continue their captivating discussion exploring love, relationships, and dating. First, they tackle the topic of whether men want to be needed in relationships, or if only being wanted but not needed is good enough. The conversation continues with a discussion on dating based on potential versus current reality. The panel introduces dating based on projection, which goes beyond potential and shows tangible evidence of progress toward goals.

    Throughout the episode, the group highlights mutual support's importance in a successful relationship, inspiring each other's growth. They address avoiding shallow thinking, missed opportunities, and women's role in motivating men's growth.


    In this episode, you'll learn about:

    • Men's desire to be desired
    • Men's need to be needed
    • Dating expectations at different life stages
    • The difference between projection and potential in relationships
    • The significance of bringing value to a partnership
    • Avoiding shallow thinking and missed opportunities
    • The role of women in motivating men's growth


    Don't miss this compelling discussion unraveling the complexities of dating and empowering you to make informed decisions in matters of the heart.


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    32 mins
  • Ask Alex: Right Person Wrong Time
    Jan 12 2023

    "Sometimes it's not that two people aren't right for each other, it's more like the timing wasn't right." (Jasmine V.)
    In this ASK ALEX Q & A episode, I team up with 3 other gentlemen and we take a trip down memory lane and discuss our experiences with relationships and dating in our late teens and early 20s. We also share what advice we would give to our younger selves about dating. In the main segment of the episode, we break down the topic of mixed signals in relationships. We explore the scenario of a man stating that he cares for, is attracted to, and sees a future with a woman, but believes the timing is not right. The question is, can a man truly feel this way and still not contact her? We discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from pride and lack of wisdom to simply not being ready for a relationship. We also suggest that it is important to be aware of mixed signals and to keep an open mind about the possibility of reconnecting in the future. Overall, this episode provides valuable insights and advice on how to navigate mixed signals and mixed feelings in relationships. Listen as we explore and discuss the nuances of this topic!

    #relationshipadvice #dating #timing



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    26 mins
  • Selfish = Single
    Dec 5 2022

    "Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness" (Napolean Hill). "If selfishness is the key to being miserable, then selflessness must be the key to being happy!" (Joyce Meyer). At the beginning of this season, we discussed reasons why you are single. In this episode, we close out the season by tackling another reason why you arent in the LTR you desire (or your current relationship is toxic), which is selfishness. If you want to know why selfishness is a productive quality man (and healthy relationship) repellant or if you want to know the mindset you should adopt instead of selfishness, this is the podcast episode for you!

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    22 mins
  • Opposite SEX Friendships
    Nov 3 2022

    “‎Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.” ~ G. Randolph ~. In this episode of the podcast, we discuss what a real friend is, if men and women can truly be platonic friends, why women are more welcoming to opposite-sex friendships than men, and the ulterior motives some people secretly have when they get in opposite-sex platonic friendships. If you ever wanted to know the answer to any of these questions, this is the episode for you!

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    37 mins
  • The 7 Biggest Misconceptions About Men
    Jun 16 2022

    "Attempting to get at truth means rejecting stereotypes and cliches" (Harold Evans). There are many stereotypes and generalizations about men and how we think and act that are exaggerated, at best, or just plain untrue, at worst. In this podcast episode, we discuss the largest misconceptions and incorrect stereotypes that women and society as a whole have about men, with over half a dozen different successful married men. If you are wondering if you are living your life according to faulty generalizations about men OR if you are looking to discover a more complete truth about men and how we think and act, this is the podcast for you!

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    26 mins
  • Kevin Samuels Examined - Part 3: Controversial
    Jun 8 2022

    Image consultant and dating/life coach, Kevin Samuels, exploded in popularity in 2021. His dating and relationship advice shocked and polarized the dating advice world causing many people to either love him or hate him. In this episode of the podcast, we finish our examination of Mr. Samuels and his talking points, discussing the more controversial advice he gave to men and women, his thoughts on dating and how long a woman should wait for a proposal, his thoughts on money, his opinion on the fidelity of "high value" men, and his question for women who refuse to change anything. If you want to know what made Kevin so controversial, what he tells young men to do, suggestions he gives women on how to date, his dating theories, and if we think he is a worthwhile source of wisdom for ladies, this is the podcast episode for you!

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Kevin Samuels Examined - Part 2: Talking Points
    May 31 2022

    Image consultant and dating/life coach, Kevin Samuels, exploded in popularity on YouTube and Instagram in 2021. His dating and relationship advice shocked and polarized the dating advice world causing many people to either love him or hate him. In this episode of the podcast, we continue our examination of Mr. Samuels and his talking points, discussing the advice he gave to men, the viral moment that caused him to explode in popularity, his dating advice to women, and his opinions on modern women. If you want to know what made Kevin Samuels so famous, what he tells young men to do, what he tells women to be wary of, his dating opinions, and what we think about each of his takes, this is the podcast episode for you!

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    52 mins