Playful acts of service, embracing threesomes, and pursuing what she wants—Olivia shares how she discovered her desires and the ways she wants to give and receive.

00:00 Learning about sex from talking with women rather than getting a formal education

04:10 Unlearning what porn taught her and navigating unhelpful educational tools

08:26 Confidence and explicit direction about how to be touched

09:52 How her brother’s friends helped her be open with herself and others about sex

15:15 The sexual blueprint of what she wants to pursue in connections and knowing what she doesn’t want

18:41 Desire for playful sex that allows for the full emotional experience (including giggling while cumming)

25:13 Building trust, needing mental stimulation and a gradual pace when it comes to sex and relationships

31:17 Enforcing boundaries and why WE LOVE CONDOMS!!!

37:35 Looking forward to a partner who is as passionate about her as she is about herself

42:50 Wanting a long-term, ravishing connection with exciting experiments and open communication

45:48 Thoughts on sex with other women, FFM, FMF, MFM, and MMF threesomes, and double penetration

52:19 Approaching sex as an act of service from a selfless place

58:10 Spreading love by being kind and receiving people as they are in any given moment

1:00:49 Reconnecting to her artistry, sharing her natural gifts by educating others, and reflecting the kindness she’s received out into the world

📈 STATS | 28 straight (so far) sapiosexual demisexual Black/African American cis woman, she/her pronouns, single, celibate, thinking about dating, monogamous, threesome-curious bad bitch good girl with a praise kink into: compliments, intimate sex, foreplay, dirty talk

🔗 OLIVIA LINKS | @livvcarter / @livvonfilm / @notoliviabenson

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