Erotic photography, the feminine mystique, and musings on morality—Yeh shares how the eye is his sexual organ.

00:00 Signaling shame and using context clues to assume peoples’ lines

03:20 Being ostracized by clowns for his provocative work

06:34 Approaching life with humor and why he likes being a “nice sociopath”

09:12 Desires informed by Greek classics and the sexiness of androgynous femininity

13:07 Putting on personae and his day-to-day asexuality

16:45 Preferring exercise to ejaculation and post-photography masturbation

19:26 How weightlifting leads him to easier arousal

21:18 Enjoying sensations of lips and softness on his balls

25:43 Discovering his queerness with the local puppy play coalition + his take on the Erotic and Eroticism

29:55 Turned on by extremes as a photographer and a hands-on dildo experience

33:24 An anonymous open-door fisting session and hiding in a makeshift gloryhole

36:19 The thrill of documenting unpredictable situations and his “cognitive basis for morality”

40:45 His most shocking stories and writing vignettes of each encounter

45:14 Dreams of sissy porn, capturing the feminine mystique on film, and leaving space for the unknown

49:43 Ideological lines, normalizing taboo desires, and why he wants to know what drives you

📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism

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Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers.

00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits

06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant

09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo

14:25 Why his masculine role models are the “cowboys of porn” and the different sides of his Self

18:30 Directing a dominatrix during a shoot and how his shame changes based on his active persona

21:23 Reflections on the social construction of taboo and becoming desensitized to what was once “forbidden”

26:21 Photography origins: surveillance-style photography, gonzo journalism, and erotica

30:38 Voyeuristic inspiration from David Lynch’s Blue Velvet and learning as self love

35:25 Feeling disconnected and experiencing social intimacy through information exchanges

38:31 His analytical approach to human connection

44:28 Pinning down what excitement actually is and how learning is always in support of his actions

47:12 The secret to being a good voyeur and physiologically reactionary sexual attraction

51:21 Ultimate voyeurism dreams + hypocritical health, safety, and consent practices

54:35 Following assumptions and social scripts to achieve his desires

56:15 Big reactions to his art and being shunned for documenting subjects on the edge of society

📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism

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Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism.

00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors

07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual?

12:38 Flogging tips for beginners

14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy

18:34 Open to orgies with friends and why you should NEVER bite a clit without consent

21:50 A field trip to a San Francisco sex club

23:03 Having a threesome with a pregnant woman and her husband who are beautifully in love

28:50 Educational squirting experience with a big double-ended dildo

31:34 Discovering a more recent preference for penetration and staying connected post-threesome

35:45 First time pegging a dude and future harness explorations

40:32 Sleeping with her dentist and a mouth full of pubes

44:53 A sixth sense for what a dick will look like before seeing it

47:30 Navigating a mismatch of sexual rhythms and why they always do a debrief after sex

54:01 Underwater hot tub blowjobs and a partner losing his shorts

56:51 Excited for double penetration, dating more women, and for their sex life to keep getting better and better

1:00:06 How YOU can help research the huge overlap of autism and kink

1:02:52 Realizing that her PhD in human sexuality is only the beginning

Jack’s episode from October 2019 | The Ooey Gooey Game

📈 STATS | 31 genderfluid autistic human, she/they pronouns, single, sex educator, sex researcher, into: sensations, impact play, human sexuality, squirting, sex parties, underwater oral

🔗 JACK LINKS | survey screener / jmurphy@mymail.ciis.edu

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