Lesbianism, kink dynamics, and her transgender journey—Elizabeth shares stories of self-discovery and how it led to a marriage that embraces submission, pleasure, and mutual growth.

00:00 Experiencing constant crushes and being open to relationships unfolding naturally

04:38 How physical safety allows her to take big emotional risks during sex

06:08 Self-censorship and the value of privacy

13:56 Discovering the rhythms of a stable relationship and exploring submissive fantasies

17:54 The sexual effects of transitioning from testosterone to estrogen

20:16 Early fact-based book learnings and how her masturbation practices have changed

25:08 Experiencing urgent gender feelings and when she stopped following the heteronormative script of p-in-v sex

28:21 Lesbian “Bed death” and how her first time with another queer partner helped her break sexual patterns

32:59 How kink allows her asexual wife to enthusiastically engage in sex

36:25 Why she needed to understand her lesbianism before she transitioned

39:38 How Buffy the Vampire Slayer inspired her gender journey

42:11 Relaxing into the safety of submission: edging, hypnosis, and anal

45:32 Her favorite ways to dirty talk and receive impact play

49:31 Building stability: artistically, socially, and professionally

52:07 Playing with strap-ons and supporting her wife in receiving

54:11 The societal importance of loving and helping men

57:21 Spreading love with genuine curiosity and small acts of kindness that help people feel chosen

📈 STATS | 39 lesbian white trans woman, she/her pronouns, submissive, monogamous, married to partner of four years, into: D/s, impact play, hypnosis, role play, TTRPGs, game design, writing, romance novels

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