I think all the wives will want their husbands to listen to this one.

Because I have the good fortune of working with men every (work) day and hearing their unfiltered thoughts about intimacy…

I can help you understand why your wife often rejects you.

One of the major truths is that it's SCARY to initiate sex with your wife.

So, you probably do…

But in general, it's a half-invested way, in hopes that her rejection won't feel so painful. Because from experience it has been rejected, even your best attempts.

Fast forward to today.

Now, because a husband's attempt at enticing his wife to make love is so "inadequate" for fear of rejection.

(Jfyi "inadequate" was the thesaurus's replacement for "lame" )

For this reason, the wife naturally would reject it.

But what if we took the fear out of this exchange entirely?

And your enticing her towards intimacy was filling for her and could even be successful!?

AND you're not full of fear.

Is that even possible?

I think with these insights, you will be well on your way.

to invite a wife–who is never in the mood–

to be in the mood!

[Original Release Date: October 8th, 2021]

PS - If you are interested in the Men's Masterclass previously mentioned in this podcast, we now have a Men's Foundations Course! Totally free and an incredible resource that has changed so many marriages. You can find more information HERE.

PPS - Here is a quote from a recent Coaching Program graduate:
Before MR, miscommunication and emotional distance were our normal. We argued often, and a deep sense of distrust had taken root, largely because I had failed to make our marriage a true priority...The ongoing conflict left me carrying a constant weight of guilt while doing ministry on campus, knowing things at home were not going well...[After MR], I've come to realize that the problem began with me and was fueled by my own selfishness...Shifting from arguing nearly every day—or at least every other day—to having only a handful of disagreements in the past six months has brought a new sense of stability and peace to our home...I now feel equipped with the tools to continue moving our marriage forward.

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Belah

[Belah here - AI was not used to draft or write this description]

Sometimes I have been asked if I, as a woman, should be teaching men. When it comes up, I really appreciate that question because it shows a level of maturity and commitment to scripture.

The truth is, I never intended to be coaching or training men. That, in fact, is something I was against, at first. I intended to just follow Titus 2 by inviting women to learn to love their husbands well.

As I wrote the book and started the podcast and coaching women with this end in mind, men started reaching out to me. It was kind of uncomfortable at first.

I didn't know what to do with it. They were asking how they could get their wife to listen to my material. "I have no idea. That's on you." I wasn't cold-hearted, I just didn't think it was prudent.

Well, I was speaking to my husband, and he felt like it would be ok to speak to some of them via email or possibly a phone call, just so I could understand.

And when I did, I could tell "wow, now I see why she is rejecting". And not only that, I could see that she was really suffering too.

So with prayer and wise counsel and the blessing of my husband, I went for it and tried a pilot coaching program for men. Amazingly, every single man got amazing results (even though only 1 went through the course -- and she didn't know he did it!)

Glory to God. From there, we've tweaked and updated and, by God's grace, are at a place where God is doing miracle after miracle here.

Would love you to hear Aaron's story of the pursuit of God's way in his marriage. As a pastor, he likely had to grapple with this question -- is it ok to be trained by a woman in this topic? And he decided the answer should be yes. You're welcome to check out our convictions surrounding Women in Leadership, here. And the Lord worked in his heart and in his marriage -- even though only he did the work.

We are so excited to share his story with you!

Would love to work with you too! delightyourmarriage.com/cc for next steps.

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Belah