What happens when gay men take sex off the table? In this episode, Chris shares the bold idea behind No Sex Gay Weekend — a space designed to spark real connection without the pressure of hooking up. He opens up about loneliness in the gay community, the aftershocks of COVID, the impact of chemsex, and how modern dating — from open relationships to swipe-and-dispose culture — can leave people feeling more isolated than ever. This is an honest conversation about intimacy beyond sex, the tension between physical attraction and emotional depth, and why safe spaces for genuine connection matter more than we think. Less pressure. More presence. Real connection.

IG:

@nosexgayweekend

Website:

nosexgayweekend.com

Keywords:

No Sex Gay Weekend, LGBTQ+, emotional connection, gay community, loneliness, open relationships, modern dating, chemsex, friendship, community building, gay man

What if being single isn’t a problem to solve—but a season to master? In this episode, founder of the new app Solo Circle, Michael McQueary challenges the stigma around singlehood, unpacking how societal pressure convinces people they’re “behind” if they’re not coupled up. He shares his personal journey of self-discovery, the power of learning to be in relationship with yourself, and why community changes everything. Discover more about Solo Circle and how to unlearn shame, build a deeper relationship with yourself, and find strength through community.

Socials:

IG:

solo_experiences

Website:

solocircleapp.com

Keywords

single life, self-discovery, societal pressures, community, loneliness, self-love, personal growth, relationships, Solo Circle, embracing solitude

What if healing isn’t about “fixing” what’s broken? In this episode, therapist Christian Snuffer reveals how somatic practices and psychedelics are reshaping therapy, unlocking deep, lasting change in body, mind, and nervous system. He exposes why so many of us feel disconnected, how trauma lives in our bodies, and why learning to truly feel again is the key to love, connection, and thriving in life. This isn’t just therapy—it’s a roadmap to reclaiming your humanity.

Socials:

IG:

@_attunement

Keywords

somatic therapy, psychedelics, mental health, trauma, central nervous system, healing, disconnection, love, relationships, therapy

Fitness isn’t about abs — it’s about habits, mindset, and support. Online coach Hayden Thomas opens up about his journey from overweight teenager to fitness coach, and how training reshaped his confidence and mental health. He talks fat loss myths, protein confusion, and why starting small is the key to lasting change. We also explore how Warhammer, play, and community fit into a healthier, more balanced lifestyle.

Socials:

IG:

@haydenthomasfitness

Keywords

fitness journey, mental health, overcoming barriers, online coaching, Warhammer, weight loss, self-esteem, exercise motivation, health and wellness, fitness, health, diet, weight loss, self-improvement, protein, habits, well-being, nutrition, personal growth

Clinical psychologist Dr. Matt Slavin explores how evolutionary psychology shapes our modern minds. From fear and anxiety to collaboration, competition, and connection, he reveals how embracing change—and reconnecting with nature—can transform mental health. Packed with insights on compassion, curiosity, and play, this episode shows how stepping into the wild can heal both mind and society.

Socials:

IG:

@drmattslavin

Website:

drmattslavin.com

Keywords

evolutionary psychology, mental health, compassion, collaboration, competition, fear, anxiety, therapy, nature, connection

Mental health advocate Jack Murphy shares his journey from the automotive world to mental health, confronting addiction, stigma, and the myths around therapy. He introduces Wobble, a platform making mental health support more accessible, and urges men to prioritise emotional fitness before crisis strikes. A raw, powerful conversation about breaking barriers and changing how we view mental health.

Socials:

IG & TikTok:

@jackbmurphy_

@wobble.therapy

Website:

jack@getwobble.co.uk

getwobble.co.uk

Discount code: FLEXYOURFEELINGS20 - for 20% off all Wobble therapy sessions

Keywords

mental health, therapy, alcoholism, stigma, early intervention, Wobble, emotional health, community support, personal journey, men's mental health

Consultant and Anxiety Specialist Howard Cooper went from severe anxiety sufferer to ex-anxiety expert. He challenges traditional therapy, explores how memory and storytelling shape our fears, and introduces ‘air hunger’ as a key factor in anxiety. Howard shows how breaking the illusion of anxiety, teaching resilience, and modelling healthy responses can transform the way we experience life—and help children grow up stronger.

Socials:

IG: @howardcooper_anxietycoach

TikTok: @anixetybeatinghacks

Website:

rapidchange.works

Keywords

anxiety, mental health, therapy, memory, storytelling, solution-focused therapy, personal change, breathing techniques, air hunger, carbon dioxide tolerance, resilience, parenting

We tackle your questions and dive into fascinating tangents, exploring emotional resilience, personal growth, and modern masculinity. From insecurities and humour to friendship, gratitude, survival skills, and the realities of monogamy today, this episode is a candid, wide-ranging conversation on self-discovery, connection, and life’s unexpected lessonsSocials:

IG @sambellcoaching @jamespenneytherapy

Keywords

podcast, emotional resilience, masculinity, personal growth, self-discovery, mental health, self-improvement, therapy, relationships, authenticity, emotional intelligence, self-disclosure, advice, daily routine, gratitude, survival skills, monogamy, relationships, self-worth