In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole responds to a powerful and timely question:
“What happens when we dehumanize others, and what might we be avoiding in ourselves when we do it?”

Rooted in Scripture and shaped by years of teaching and discipleship, Nicole explores how dehumanization—both subtle and overt—can reveal deeper emotional and spiritual struggles, particularly among women. Through biblical reflection and honest personal insights, she identifies three key areas often lurking beneath this behavior: fear, anger, and pride.

Listeners will walk away challenged and encouraged to reexamine how they view others—and how they might bring hidden heart issues before God for healing and transformation.

Main Takeaways

• Dehumanization is subtle but dangerous: We often strip others of their God-given dignity by grouping them into labels, roles, or categories.

• Words carry weight: Name-calling and group labels are not just emotional reactions—they violate the biblical truth that every person bears the image of God.

• Why we dehumanize: It's often an avoidance tactic for deeper emotional realities.

• Three Common Roots Behind Dehumanization in Women:

  1. Fear – Of being wrong, hurt, rejected, or vulnerable

  2. Anger – Especially unspoken or culturally suppressed anger

  3. Pride – The insidious belief that we know best, or can determine what's fair or right outside of God

• The Bible’s Response: God calls us back to humility, self-examination, and compassion. Transformation starts with asking God to search our hearts (Psalm 139).

Bible Verse References

• Genesis 1:27 – “God created mankind in His own image…”

• Psalm 139:13–14 – “You knit me together in my mother’s womb…”

• Jeremiah 2:13 – God describes forsaking Him as abandoning living water

• Jeremiah 17:9 – “The heart is deceitful above all things…”

• Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

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• Recommended Reflection: Write out a prayer of surrender using Psalm 139.

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In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole tackles one of the most common (and courageous!) questions: “I’ve never read the Bible cover to cover—where should I start?”

She breaks down practical, grace-filled strategies for reading the Bible in a way that actually works, offering insights for both new and seasoned believers. From choosing the right translation to dealing with confusing or difficult passages, Nicole empowers listeners to start reading with confidence and purpose. Whether you’ve felt overwhelmed, confused, or discouraged by Scripture in the past, this episode will give you a clear and doable way forward.

🧠 Main Takeaways

• You’re Not Alone: Many faithful Christians have never read the whole Bible—and it’s never too late to start.

• Don’t Start at Genesis (at least not right away): Many fall off around Leviticus. Instead, begin with:

  • Luke – A detailed and compassionate account of Jesus’s life

  • Acts – The story of the early church

  • Romans – A powerful explanation of the gospel

  • Then continue through the New Testament before tackling the Old Testament

• Use a Study Bible: Even a basic study Bible can provide helpful context, intros, and notes for difficult passages.

• Mark Your Progress: Write in your Bible, underline verses, and make notes—it can become a spiritual journal and legacy.

• Don’t Get Stuck in the Weeds: Your first time reading is a flyover—aim for big-picture understanding, not perfection.

• Psalms & Proverbs: Consider mixing in chapters of Psalms or Proverbs for encouragement and wisdom along the way.

• Read With a Plan (or Not): Try chronological Bibles, one-year plans, or even 90-day “boot camps”—but always choose what fits you.

• Give Yourself Grace: Falling behind is normal. Focus on steady progress, not perfect performance.

📜 Bible Verse References

• Luke 1:1–4 – Introduction to the Gospel account

• Acts 1:1–3 – Continuation of Luke’s writing, the story of the early church

• Romans 1–16 – Understanding theology and Christian living

• Psalm 139:13 – “You knit me together in my mother’s womb…”

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Links & Resources

• NicoleUnice.com – Bible study resources, books, and teaching

• BibleStudyTools.com – Read and search Scripture online

• Recommended Bible Translation for Beginners: New Living Translation (NLT)

• Nicole’s Book: Brave Enough (includes Scripture promises for encouragement)

• Explore past episodes for deep dives into Romans, James, and more.

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In this opening episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole addresses one of the most heartfelt and relatable spiritual struggles: “What do I do when I can’t hear God’s voice?”

Drawing from James 1:2–8, Nicole unpacks why God may feel silent in seasons of confusion or pain—and how that silence could actually be an invitation. With compassionate insight and biblical depth, she offers listeners practical wisdom for enduring trials, examining their hearts, and pressing deeper into God’s promises. This is a powerful episode for anyone feeling stuck, discouraged, or distant from God.

Main Takeaways

• You’re Not Alone in the Silence: Even faithful believers experience seasons of unanswered questions or silence from God.

• James 1 Offers a Roadmap:

  • Troubles are opportunities for growth, not obstacles to joy.

  • When we ask for wisdom, God will give it—but we must ask with faith and undivided loyalty.

• Mixed Motives Can Muffle God’s Voice: Sometimes our desires are entangled with fear, selfishness, or cultural pressure. Regular self-examination can purify our requests.

• Endurance Builds Spiritual Maturity: The waiting seasons are formative. Joy, wisdom, and clarity come with time and perseverance.

• God’s Promises are Steady Anchors: Holding tight to the truths of Scripture can help steady your faith during spiritually dry times.

For Further Bible Study: Bible Verse References

• James 1:2–8 – Consider trials as joy and ask for wisdom with faith

• Jeremiah 29:13 – “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

• Matthew 11:28 – “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened…”

• John 10:10 – “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

• John 14:6 – “I am the way and the truth and the life…”

• John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

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