My guest Anzara shares how she shifted from trying to avoid or get through discomfort as quickly as possible, to being able to sit with it and learn from it, modeling and teaching her kids to do the same. This practice was especially helpful when she left her position at a school district she worked in for almost 20 years for a job that really lit her up. I can't wait for you to learn from this powerhouse of a human!

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Anzara Miller has been in education for 25 years as an administrator, professional developer, technology specialist, and middle school Spanish teacher. She has a Master’s in Educational Leadership from Concordia University Portland and a Master of Arts in Teaching from the University of Portland. As Director of Leadership and Development for the Center for Strengthening the Teaching Profession (CSTP) and her past roles in Shoreline School District, Anzara provides training, coaching, and support for teachers and administrators in improving their practice. Anzara’s expertise is in developing and facilitating professional learning for adults to lead them in productive conversation and collaboration. She supports educators at the state level through her work as a Learning Focused Supervision trainer, Instructional Framework Specialist and State Lead for the Danielson Framework for Teaching.

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Today we meet Sarah Ward, a Sex and Style Coach who’s reshaped her relationship with discomfort—transforming it from something to avoid into a powerful source of wisdom. Sarah shares her journey from bypassing her unease and shifting responsibility to others to finding strength through embodiment practices. Discover how tuning into her own inner wisdom unlocked new layers of personal empowerment and confidence. This episode dives deep into her unique perspective on harnessing inner truth, tapping into embodied awareness, and embracing discomfort as a path to growth. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation!

On today’s episode, I’m joined by Andrea Turnbow, the inspiring founder of The Grief Nook. Andrea shares her personal journey through grief and how it led her to create safe, creative spaces for others to honor their emotions and process loss. Hear how she’s transformed her own experience with grief into powerful practices that help people find solace and strength. You won’t want to miss her insights on the healing power of community and creativity.

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Andrea is the founder of The Grief Nook, a comfortable space to creatively grieve in community. Through her workshops, support groups, speaking events, and individual support, she helps grievers discover ways to process and express their grief through creativity, connection, and tradition. Her guidance brings them closer to their desires and goals through the power of their own innate abilities.

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In this episode, Jon shares how choosing personal responsibility, accountability, and making amends transformed his life and relationships. We dive into the discomfort of facing our own missteps and the role self-forgiveness plays in rebuilding trust. Jon's story shows that while it's challenging to 'do better to be better,' the deep connection and fulfillment that come from healthier relationships make the work truly worth it.

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Jon is an avid outdoorsman who enjoys hiking and camping. He is the founder of The Negotiated Apology Project where he teaches people how to resolve disputes through apologies using problem-solving skills he learned in law school. He also offers mediation based on The Negotiated Apology, public relations consulting, and keynote speeches to uplift and inspire. He has made podcast appearances where he's spoken on self-forgiveness, reconciliation dynamics in the East Asian community, and the intersection between apologies and masculinity.

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On the next episode, I sit down with Lori Schneider, a Phoenix-based realtor with a fascinating backstory as a former teacher. Lori’s career shift wasn’t just about switching industries, but also about transforming herself. She once led her classroom in survival mode—harsh, rigid, and demanding respect. But over time, she learned that true connection comes from earning respect, not demanding it, and that compassion was the key to meaningful relationships. Her journey will inspire you to rethink leadership, whether in the classroom, the workplace, or in life. You won't want to miss this conversation!

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Growing up in a small Arizona town taught Lori that your work ethic defines you, your reputation follows you, everyone has an important story, and common sense keeps you out of a whole lot of trouble. Before becoming a REALTOR®, Lori taught Middle and High School Language Arts, where she applied the values she learned in her hometown to help her students thrive not only as learners but also as individuals. These experiences shaped her ability to connect with people, understand their unique stories, and guide them toward success.

Running her real estate practice with these same principles has allowed it to flourish over the last 19 years. Lori's clients benefit from her deep knowledge of the community and hyper-local real estate trends. She has built a network of professional connections based on trust and excellent working relationships. Lori believes that everyone's story matters—whether buying, selling, or simply seeking a confidential consultation. From $42,000 to $3,000,000, Phoenicians have entrusted Lori Schneider with their valued real estate transactions since 2005.

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My guest Ehmandah created an incredible platform for women to tell their stories after she experienced incredible discomfort in a partnered relationship. Our conversation covers topics such as boundary setting, self-compassion and getting to deeper layers of healing and growing. I think you'll glean a lot from this conversation AND I want to offer a trigger warning: We discuss domestic violence in this episode so please check in with yourself before proceeding.

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Ehmandah Ramsey, your #1 purpose pusher, si a multifaceted powerhouse, blending her roles as a coach, speaker, entrepreneur, Founder of She Stories, and host of Dope Confidence Podcast. Her journey, marked by resilience and triumph over adversity as a single mother and survivor of domestic violence, fuels her passion for empowering others. With over 15 years of experience ni the field of life guidance, she's provided spiritual care at a residential treatment facility and facilitated workshops for renowned organizations like the LA Dodgers Foundation, fostering real-life transformations. Ehmandah founded She Stories, providing a sacred space for women and individuals to find their voice, with over 200 stories shared since 2017. Through She Stories Inc., she partners with universities and organizations to provide feminine hygiene to underserved women and girls.

Ehmandah's passion for empowering others extends to herdedication to assisting families affected by domestic violence and homelessness, as she serves on several boards committed to these causes. In addition to her various endeavors, Ehmandah Ramsey co- founded Women Who Shine of Washington State, where she continues to foster authenticity and courage in women. Through her coaching, speaking engagements, and community initiatives, she is a beacon of hope, empowering others to unleash their ful potential and live lives filled with purpose and fulfillment.

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I’m thrilled to have Kelly as my guest—she’s a serial entrepreneur who has discovered that much of her success comes from leaning into the discomfort that comes with business ownership. Through personal and professional development, Kelly has built an incredible toolkit that helps her navigate challenges with confidence. One of her key insights? Staying deeply attuned to her body and listening to what it communicates, even when those messages are uncomfortable. Today, we’ll explore how this approach has shaped both her business and her life.

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Kelly Lorenzen, CEO of KLM Consulting, Marketing, and Management is an award-winning entrepreneur with over 20 years of business ownership experience. She is a native of Arizona, graduated from ASU with degree in Small Business, Entrepreneurship and Communications and earned her PMP certification. She is a mom, wife, connector, community builder and philanthropist.

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Welcome to today's episode! I’m excited to introduce my guest, Richard, who has dedicated both his personal and professional life to fostering human connection in meaningful ways. Richard’s journey began with his own experience of loneliness as a child and teen—a feeling he once thought was his burden alone. Through his journey, Richard discovered that he wasn’t alone in these struggles, and this realization fueled his passion for helping others connect. Today, we’ll dive into his inspiring story and the powerful insights he’s gained along the way.

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Richard Lee-Thai is a TEDx Speaker, Connection Consultant, and co-author of “Become Your Superself: Connect with Yourself to Connect with Others.” His TEDx talk: "How to Find Excuses to Connect” outlines how people can make meaningful connections easier. His ultimate vision is to create a world without loneliness.

Growing up, we never had classes on social skills. Addressing this lack of education, Richard engages audiences with interactive presentations that leave them feeling more socially confident and equipped with tools to make meaningful connections in their personal and professional lives. He is also a podcaster, Associate Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation, and Adjunct Instructor at the Southern Alberta Institute of Technology.

His motto is: "You never know how any connection can transform your life." Connections can happen anywhere and anytime, so he encourages you to find that excuse to connect!

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