What do you really want? It’s a question we often answer with things we don’t have—a bigger house, a better job, more time. But what if the most powerful wants are the ones you already have? The partner you chose, the kids you prayed for, the home you once dreamed of, or the life you built step by step.

In this episode, we’ll explore: ✨ Deciding again: Stop living in default mode. Revisit your goals, your routines, your identity, and ask yourself: “Do I still choose this?” ✨ Wanting what you already have: Go beyond gratitude and affirm the value of what’s in front of you—your relationships, home, family, and even yourself. ✨ Powerful exercises:

• Write 25 things you want, big or small, to reconnect with your desires.
• Make a second list of 25 things you already have that you still want.

When you choose your life again, you shift from scarcity to abundance. You rediscover joy in what you’ve built and set the stage for growth—not out of longing, but from appreciation.

So, take a moment. Look around. Ask yourself: What do I want? What do I already have that I still want?

If change scares you, remember this: Growth doesn’t mean becoming someone new—it means becoming a better version of yourself. Keep moving forward, keep evolving, and keep choosing your life. 🚲

Tune in and discover how deciding again can transform your perspective and your future.

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Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master’s degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast.

Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography.

Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!

Does your teen claim they’re the last person on earth with an iPhone 12? Or maybe your younger child is begging for a Barbie dreamhouse with a party room and pool while you’re still saving for a dishwasher that works. Entitlement can sneak into our homes, especially during the holidays, but there’s hope!

In this episode, we’ll explore 5 practical ways to address entitlement in kids. From getting them involved in chores to fostering gratitude, we’ll discuss how to redirect their focus from “I deserve” to “I appreciate.” Plus, we’ll tackle the tricky "But everyone has one!" conversation with humor and grace.

If you’re tired of the “I want it now” attitude, tune in to learn how to cultivate responsibility, generosity, and contentment in your kids this holiday season.

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Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/category/resources/ or email me at WendyGossett.com

Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367

Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/

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Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master’s degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast.

Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography.

Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!

The holidays are a season of gratitude and connection, and finding the perfect gift for your loved ones can make it even more special. But what if you could tailor your gifts to reflect the unique personality of each person? In this episode, we break down the perfect gift ideas for every Enneagram type—both adults and kids—so you can give with intention and thoughtfulness.

From the practical, high-quality picks that Type 1s love to the adventurous and joyful surprises perfect for Type 7s, we’ll help you match each gift with the qualities that make each type shine. Plus, discover the joy of a fun family activity: the Domino Chain Reaction Challenge—a creative and interactive game to bring everyone together this holiday season.

Join in for ideas that spark joy, build connection, and truly celebrate the people you love.

Listen now for a gift guide that will make your holiday shopping meaningful, memorable, and stress-free!

Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master’s degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast.

Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography.

Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!

Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/

Request a FREE Child/Adult Enneagram/Instincts Test: WendyGossett.com

Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/category/resources/ or email me at WendyGossett.com

Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367

Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.gossett/?next=%2F

Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/wendygossett