Drawing from the article 13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What by Phoebe Mertens, Stan shares practical insights and biblical truths that can help you reflect on your role in your marriage. Whether it’s mastering the art of communication, embracing growth, or prioritizing intimacy, this episode is filled with wisdom for couples seeking healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What

Stan also dives into the biblical foundation of mutual submission and humility, emphasizing how a heart focused on serving God and each other can transform a marriage.

Key Topics Discussed

• The 13 principles of lasting relationships, including respect, communication, independence, forgiveness, and intimacy.
• The importance of mutual submission and humility in marriage, as taught in Ephesians 5:21.
• How modern individualism and self-centeredness harm relationships.
• Practical steps to align your marriage with biblical principles.

Episode Highlights

• Unwavering Respect: Why honoring each other’s dignity is essential, even during disagreements.
• Healthy Independence: How personal growth and space can strengthen your relationship.
• Biblical Perspective: Insights on humility, submission, and prioritizing others from Ephesians 5:21 and other scriptures.
• Cultural Reflection: The dangers of individualism in relationships and how to counteract it with biblical values.

Takeaways

• Marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about building an authentic, Christ-centered relationship.
• A healthy marriage thrives when both partners embrace humility, submission, and selflessness.
• Small, consistent efforts in communication, forgiveness, and intimacy make a big difference.

Resources Mentioned

• Article: 13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What by Phoebe Mertens.
• Bible Verses: Ephesians 5:21, Hebrews 13:17, 1 Peter 5:5, James 4:7.

In this episode of Pivotal Decisions, Stan dives into the overwhelming topic of information overload. Quoting Henry David Thoreau’s observation, “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation,” Stan explores how the constant influx of news and updates impacts us and why it’s essential to take control. He examines an article by Dr. Tracy Brower from Forbes titled, “6 Reasons You’re Overwhelmed and How to Handle Information Overload,” breaking down the major factors contributing to our modern-day overwhelm and practical steps we can take to reclaim our peace of mind.

6 Reasons You’re Overwhelmed And How To Handle Information Overload

Key Topics Covered:

1. The Negativity of News
2. Constant Accessibility and Urgency
3. The Complexity and Trustworthiness of Information
4. Isolation in Information Consumption
5. It May Not Be Trustworthy
6. You’re Accessing It Alone

• Set Boundaries: Use app timers and limit your media consumption, especially in the morning.
• Replace Scrolling with Activities: Seek balance by engaging in outdoor activities, reading, or spending time with loved ones.
• Deepen Your Knowledge: Investigate topics that concern you and intentionally expose yourself to diverse viewpoints.
• Nurture Relationships: Building connections with friends can improve mental health and overall wellbeing.
• Get Involved Locally: Volunteering can bring a sense of accomplishment and help you feel positively engaged in your community.

In this episode, host Stan discusses his approach to voting in the 2024 election. He explores how faith and good citizenship come together to influence our political choices. As Stan emphasizes, while no political leader can fix everything, voting is one key way to engage responsibly in our communities and nation.

Key Points Covered:

1. Praying for Guidance
2. Studying the Ballot
3. Reading Party Platforms
4. Evaluating Candidates and Issues Stan lists his guiding principles when evaluating candidates, with emphasis on:
   • Freedom of Religion
   • Character and Integrity
   • Sanctity of Human Life
   • Traditional Family Values
   • National Security
   • Fiscal Responsibility and Government Spending